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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean?  "
does considered smokers mean Yer don't blow it in there face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean? does considered smokers mean Yer don't blow it in there face "
I don't know.. I don't meet people who make a big deal out of it. I'm always a considerate smoker even when I'm outdoors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean? does considered smokers mean Yer don't blow it in there face
I don't know.. I don't meet people who make a big deal out of it. I'm always a considerate smoker even when I'm outdoors. "
well even though I am not smoking now I will never ever become a anti smoker I know what it's like. I still sit in the smoke hut with the lads every now and then cx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean? does considered smokers mean Yer don't blow it in there face
I don't know.. I don't meet people who make a big deal out of it. I'm always a considerate smoker even when I'm outdoors. well even though I am not smoking now I will never ever become a anti smoker I know what it's like. I still sit in the smoke hut with the lads every now and then cx "
Well I think that's pretty cool  |
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean? "
No but I bet a lot of smokers enjoy their post-shag-fag in bed, I know I used to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean?
No but I bet a lot of smokers enjoy their post-shag-fag in bed, I know I used to! "
I would never dream of laid next to someone who did not smoke and have a cig xx |
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Seriously it wouldn't bother me, I sometimes go for a couple of days without a fag when ma arthritis is playing up and I can't get to the shop. I don't crave one then so don't know why I don't just give up really   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean?
No but I bet a lot of smokers enjoy their post-shag-fag in bed, I know I used to! "
Yes but usually if both smoke surely |
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"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean?
No but I bet a lot of smokers enjoy their post-shag-fag in bed, I know I used to!
Yes but usually if both smoke surely "
Oh for sure. But I think that's what people mean by that, 'I'll meet you but don't even think of lighting up round me buster'. Normal polite people wouldn't dream of it anyway, but I bet you there's some that would on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you don't smoke its really horrible kissing someone who does...even being around them or in their home you can get the smell on your clothes and in your hair, even when they smoke away from you in another room. I have met smokers but prefer not to as its a huge turn off for me personally |
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"As a former smoker, I stay away from smokers purely because I can resist anything apart from temptation. I cannot be trusted  "
Yes that's a reason I avoided meeting smokers too, I have never felt tempted, but don't want to tempt fate. Being around vaping is slight concern too, there's a lot of novelty to all the flavours etc. But I know that nicotine is like alcohol, I will never be 'safe' to even have one puff, so I'm just never going to go there. I'm assuming there is no nicotine in exhaled vape but I might Google it. ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't smoke in the house at all and wouldn't dream of doing it in someone elses house if they themselves didn't smoke - even if they said it was ok.
Other than popping a mint and washing hands afterwards, I'm not sure what a considerate smoker is
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to smoke and met quite a few non smokers, we never smoked whilst playing or at their houses, not one of them complained and even had repeat meets. Now that we don't smoke we would still meet smokers |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Someone mentioned they would meet considerate smokers..
Would someone really light up a ciggy while shagging? Is that what people mean? "
I think I may have used that term - I mean someone who would leave my house to smoke, not stand at my front door, and not throw the ends on the ground outside, and then wash their hands when they come inside, and either chew gum or use some mouthwash.
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I'm a smoker and if I meet at my house I will smoke while downstairs, it says on my profile I'm a smoker. However, I wouldn't dream of lighting up in someone else's home.
I don't smoke after sex unless I go downstairs as I don't smoke upstairs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Other than popping a mint and washing hands afterwards, I'm not sure what a considerate smoker is
Offers to share  "
Well of course I would share Oh wait, are we still talking about smoking here?
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm a smoker and if I meet at my house I will smoke while downstairs, it says on my profile I'm a smoker. However, I wouldn't dream of lighting up in someone else's home.
I don't smoke after sex unless I go downstairs as I don't smoke upstairs
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Exactly the same in my house . And then if I'm meeting none smokers at mine , I will ask if they mind . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I am a very considerate smoker and wouldn't dream of smoking in a non smokers house. I was talking to a cpl once and they said they would love to meet me if I didn't smoke. Maybe if I ate mints and we used flavoured lube for oral they would.. Not saying exactly what my reply was but..
Its not like I smell like a used ashtray or taste like one was part of it.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect."
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect.
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
Hids "
Yep, but she doesn't see it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect.
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
Hids
Yep, but she doesn't see it that way. "
I personally would have to say "if you can't respect the rules of my house, then please don't visit until you can." Presumably you had/have to respect the rules of her house?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect.
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
Hids
Yep, but she doesn't see it that way.
I personally would have to say "if you can't respect the rules of my house, then please don't visit until you can." Presumably you had/have to respect the rules of her house?
Hids "
It has virtually got to that point. Maybe it is a generational thing but she just won't accept it and as a result there is tension in our relationship. She will say things like "I will put water in the ashtray so there is no problem with the smoke" because someone told her 35 years ago that that worked. I've tried to point out the complete nonsense she speaks but unfortunately it is a real issue between us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect.
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
Hids
Yep, but she doesn't see it that way.
I personally would have to say "if you can't respect the rules of my house, then please don't visit until you can." Presumably you had/have to respect the rules of her house?
Hids
It has virtually got to that point. Maybe it is a generational thing but she just won't accept it and as a result there is tension in our relationship. She will say things like "I will put water in the ashtray so there is no problem with the smoke" because someone told her 35 years ago that that worked. I've tried to point out the complete nonsense she speaks but unfortunately it is a real issue between us. "
Ok, as a smoker I find ashtrays revolting anyway but to put water in it makes it even worse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly off topic, but the biggest row I have with my Mother is around her smoking in my house. She takes great offence at being asked to go outside and accuses me of a lack of respect.
I don't mean to be rude about your mother but surely it us her who is lacking in respect?
Hids
Yep, but she doesn't see it that way.
I personally would have to say "if you can't respect the rules of my house, then please don't visit until you can." Presumably you had/have to respect the rules of her house?
Hids
It has virtually got to that point. Maybe it is a generational thing but she just won't accept it and as a result there is tension in our relationship. She will say things like "I will put water in the ashtray so there is no problem with the smoke" because someone told her 35 years ago that that worked. I've tried to point out the complete nonsense she speaks but unfortunately it is a real issue between us.
Ok, as a smoker I find ashtrays revolting anyway but to put water in it makes it even worse "
Lol - I know exactly what you mean |
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