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"Nothing I dislike valentines day... 
B'ah humbug  "
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton |
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"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.
Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon..."
So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then? |
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"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.
Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...
So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?"
He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup. |
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over a year ago
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id long for just a day of kissing, massage n being together. chips on sea front,, penny arcades, few drinks in a small pub with an open fire
or a log cabin break with hot tub would be lavish..
the day is about the company you share though so could be anywhere really  |
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"id long for just a day of kissing, massage n being together. chips on sea front,, penny arcades, few drinks in a small pub with an open fire
or a log cabin break with hot tub would be lavish..
the day is about the company you share though so could be anywhere really "
Oh log cabin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way we both see it is, why only make an effort and be romantic on one day a year? We do things through out the year, like cards for no reason, a small gift and weekends away, and we tell each other a few times a day that we love each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will pass by... Like always.
Its a non event.
Romance and passion is not defined by a card and a restaurant full of couples looking each other up and down.. |
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"It will pass by... Like always.
Its a non event.
Romance and passion is not defined by a card and a restaurant full of couples looking each other up and down.."
Or mostly on their phones thinking dear god I want to go home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a work trip away in a hotel on Valentines day. It was a hotel where the restaurant was over the car park.. No alternatives nearby.
Apart from the bar staff, I was the only one there alone.
Nightmare |
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"I had a work trip away in a hotel on Valentines day. It was a hotel where the restaurant was over the car park.. No alternatives nearby.
Apart from the bar staff, I was the only one there alone.
Nightmare"
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"The way we both see it is, why only make an effort and be romantic on one day a year? We do things through out the year, like cards for no reason, a small gift and weekends away, and we tell each other a few times a day that we love each other "
we do that too but still enjoy being cheesey romantic on valentines day....well i do, not sure about letsbe but he has not choice haha |
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"Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol
Was he still standing afterwards? "
cheeky bitch lol, last valentines day we started on the billinis before I started cooking so was half pissed had bought a lovely big bit of fillet it steak and it literally got thrown in the pan and back out again. Good job he doesn't love me for my cooking skills |
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"Where romantic all year, I will probably cook something nice as I rarely cook for him in fact only cooked for him once since last valentines day lol
Was he still standing afterwards? cheeky bitch lol, last valentines day we started on the billinis before I started cooking so was half pissed had bought a lovely big bit of fillet it steak and it literally got thrown in the pan and back out again. Good job he doesn't love me for my cooking skills "
I can understand why he loves you |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton "
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have |
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Anyway as far as valentines days go my ex husband walked out on me the day after valentines day leaving behind the bouquet he had bought me and another relationship I was in split up on valentines day so history suggests its not a good day for me |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have "
why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept  |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have
why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept "
its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you
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Having a boyfriend on valentines day would be lovely, but highly unlikely!
Just spending quality time with said imaginary bf and doing nice things together would be perfect. A little gift wouldn't be unappreciated but it's certainly not necessary. |
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over a year ago
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It's how you treat your soecial person throughout the year that matters. Not buying all that tacky tat you see adorning the shelves os BM Bargains.... Though chocolate is always welcome. As is Pandora lol
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have
why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you
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not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get. |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have
why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you
not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get."
well you make your own insinuations and assumptions about things that others don't get
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I don't assume that those who celebrate it don't do anything else at any other time of year, but I do find the concept of an enforced day of love to be rather odd.
And yes I know no one is forced to do it, but having the day at all implies that everyone should celebrate it. |
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over a year ago
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Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton "
I agree....I'm a bitter married person and we never celebrate it. Really don't see the point in buying into it. Bah humbug! ! |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. "
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
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im way more primitive - ive always imagined a cave with a huge fire in the doorway (to keep away the wildlife ) lots of furs and blankets to roll on - Sx |
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Valentines day is our wedding anniversary. We did not want to get married on the 14th but believe it or not the venue we wanted did not have the weekend before or after free so we went for valentines instead. We don't tend to celebrate our anniversary on the 14th as like all commercial bullshit, all hotels,restaurants spas etc double their prices overnight. Restaurants especially get my goat as they all charge you more and generally do a fixed valentines menu(I like to choose what I eat when I am paying through the nose for it,not be told).
Whatever we do is done weekend after. When prices have gone back to normal... On the plus side I don't have to buy another valentines card sgain |
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"Nothing I dislike valentines day...
B'ah humbug
I just think it's a load of bollocks I think it just put pressures on some to splash out when there are 364 other days to tell the special one that you love them. It's just commercial rubbish maybe I'm just a bitter singleton
Agree.....why do you need a 'special day' to make an effort and cherish/enjoy what you have
why do people assume i you like valentines day you dont do anything loving for the rest of the year?? such an odd concept its not odd at all lots of people unfortunately don't do anything romantic all year, you do and you enjoy valentines day good for you
not celebrating it i understand, its the assumption or insinuation that because you celebrate it you do nothing to show you love them any other time of the year that i dont get.well you make your own insinuations and assumptions about things that others don't get
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Lol.....ok |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
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Alps is sounds great I was thinking Sweden for the northern lights |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
im way more primitive - ive always imagined a cave with a huge fire in the doorway (to keep away the wildlife ) lots of furs and blankets to roll on - Sx"
Ooh I like your thinking!
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
Alps is sounds great I was thinking Sweden for the northern lights "
Good thinking batman, I'm sure there are some hilly bits in Sweden anyway!  |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day. "
Mmmmmmmmm  |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
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I've done exactly that a couple of times now. Believe me, it's as good as you imagine it to be. |
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"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.
Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...
So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?
He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup. "
My son is 27 and 2 weekends ago he offered to make me a cup of coffee for the first time ever!!!!!!!!! |
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"I would love to have someone bring me a brew in bed. Just a simple cuppa tea.
Sadly until my 3 year old is old enough to boil a kettle that won't be happening anytime soon...
So you have not been brought a cup of tea made with cold water yet then?
He can't reach the taps yet, I've had imaginary tea in a plastic cup.
My son is 27 and 2 weekends ago he offered to make me a cup of coffee for the first time ever!!!!!!!!! "
Did you say 'yes' hopefully a plate of biscuits were brought with it as a surprise. |
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Same thing as always, Nothing.
It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.
I'd be happy with a hug tbh.
Does that make me sad? |
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"Same thing as always, Nothing.
It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.
I'd be happy with a hug tbh.
Does that make me sad?"
Did fuck all for Clintons as they went bust a while back lol |
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"Wouldn't mind waking up to someone in a log cabin surrounded by snow and mountains. Log fire going and us smothered in blankets. No need to get dressed for the day.
Hey you nicked my fantasy....but mine is an upmarket version, it's in the alps and there are furs to snuggle into!!
I've done exactly that a couple of times now. Believe me, it's as good as you imagine it to be."
Oooh I'm jealous! Someone on here did offer ..... have not heard from him for some months though lol!!
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"Same thing as always, Nothing.
It's just a day that places like Clintons, card factory, etc, count their profits.
I'd be happy with a hug tbh.
Does that make me sad?
Did fuck all for Clintons as they went bust a while back lol"
they did? Pretty sure there's one in my town. |
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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I'm not looking forward to it this year . It's the first since my husband died.
He was one of those that did special things for me all year round he always woke me with a kiss, told me just how wonder I was, hid flowers for me to find sometimes in my car, we would cook together, snuggle up and just be happy .
This year I will see all the lovely Dovey stuff and just be reminded of how special he was how much he loved me and How damn lucky I was to have had him in my life. But mostly how much I miss him.
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i rather like valentines day yeah its costly but dosnt mean it has to cost anything as its the thought that counts the most
best thing is if theres a cupid that can post them up without the person knowing whos it from
but at least you get an admirer that does send you one even if its from a very unexpected source |
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