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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sure it'll still be pretty easy to tell the difference 
Ive seen the posters for it - not at all sure about Jamie Dornans hair-do...."
Yes agree..im sure i will spot the difference as well. Already had a few messages saying they are this and that. When in fact i doubt they know how to even spell the word dominate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the books first came out there were endless threads about how true to life or not they were. I guess it'll all be stirred up again. It's time to get the dungeon polished I think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along..... "
Why February 14th? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have yet to see a profile where the guy describes himself as mercurial but since it seems to be the only adjective EL Grey ever uses to describe her protagonist I've got my money on it starting to appear when the film comes out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of them are already wannabes without the release of a film but then how many women are going to be wannabe subs and find themselves in hot water ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along..... "
I'm bored of the 'bdsm elite' bitching about everyone that doesn't do it their way.
People say the bdsm comminity are more inclusive than swingers They look exactly the same to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along.....
I'm bored of the 'bdsm elite' bitching about everyone that doesn't do it their way.
People say the bdsm comminity are more inclusive than swingers They look exactly the same to me. "
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along.....
I'm bored of the 'bdsm elite' bitching about everyone that doesn't do it their way.
People say the bdsm comminity are more inclusive than swingers They look exactly the same to me. "
You do realise BDSM, in the wrong hands, is bloody dangerous!!!!!!!???????????
Roll up, roll, up - who could give a **** then aye.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have yet to see a profile where the guy describes himself as mercurial but since it seems to be the only adjective EL Grey ever uses to describe her protagonist I've got my money on it starting to appear when the film comes out..."
lol is that derived from mercury that gets into your skin and causes insanity and death?
We do have a copy of one of the books on the bookshelf, but neither of us have read it yet, I suspect we will wait for the film to hit the freeview screen before watching it as well.
Though I am loving the new verb dimdom , think that should get into the dictionary soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do realise BDSM, in the wrong hands, is bloody dangerous!!!!!!!???????????
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BDSM = Bloody Dangerous SM??? come on give us new terms for the other two letters  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Totally agree .. it can be extremely dangerous. .. I have concerns for both parties and fear that something dreadful happens and sends dom/sub underground x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I being elitist if I say I hate the book with a passion? There are going to be a fair few women looking for Mr Grey but what they will find is Mr White that got washed with a new black sock lol
My only hope is that people see the film and truly question what BDSM is all about, away from the media image of whips and chains and judges being spanked and calling an oap prostitute "mommy".
It's much more than that, and it's not abuse either, so if nothing else I hope it starts a discussion and makes enough people sit up and take notice that the lifestyle isn't black and white it's, well, erm..........ok its 50 shades of grey lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along.....
I'm bored of the 'bdsm elite' bitching about everyone that doesn't do it their way.
People say the bdsm comminity are more inclusive than swingers They look exactly the same to me.
You do realise BDSM, in the wrong hands, is bloody dangerous!!!!!!!???????????
Roll up, roll, up - who could give a **** then aye.
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Dangerous? Nooo really?
If people are so stupid they get into some dangerous shit without thinking.... fucking Darwin award. Serves them right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else concerned that come feb 14th the whole world is going to be overrun with wanna be doms and subs... its hard enough now to meet a real dom normally let alone wen all the wannabees come along..... "
To be honest I think people will watch it, but it will be a short term hit and will have about the same impact on bdsm as 9.5 weeks did on yoghurt sales. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awwww bugger! Finding a gorgeous dom fb is on my to do list for 2015 - so are you telling me i've only got 3 weeks to find one if I want a real one?? xx"
They will be around, you've just got to be careful of how you go about finding him, little tip for you, if he asks you to show any signs of submission in the first message he's not the one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awwww bugger! Finding a gorgeous dom fb is on my to do list for 2015 - so are you telling me i've only got 3 weeks to find one if I want a real one?? xx
They will be around, you've just got to be careful of how you go about finding him, little tip for you, if he asks you to show any signs of submission in the first message he's not the one "
The one who truly denies that he is the messiah is really the messiah. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Dangerous? Nooo really?
If people are so stupid they get into some dangerous shit without thinking.... fucking Darwin award. Serves them right. "
And - you were the one talking about Elitism?
Serves em right aye!
Pfffff, what nonsense in less than 2 whole posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awwww bugger! Finding a gorgeous dom fb is on my to do list for 2015 - so are you telling me i've only got 3 weeks to find one if I want a real one?? xx
They will be around, you've just got to be careful of how you go about finding him, little tip for you, if he asks you to show any signs of submission in the first message he's not the one "
Ok thanks hun! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people still enjoying themselves does it matter?"
It does when all Dom's are tarred with the same brush, I pride myself on being respectful but a lot aren't, and it spoils it all for everyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dangerous? Nooo really?
If people are so stupid they get into some dangerous shit without thinking.... fucking Darwin award. Serves them right.
And - you were the one talking about Elitism?
Serves em right aye!
Pfffff, what nonsense in less than 2 whole posts. "
Why nonsense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people still enjoying themselves does it matter? It does when all Dom's are tarred with the same brush, I pride myself on being respectful but a lot aren't, and it spoils it all for everyone "
Everyone has to start somewhere though. I'm sure doms might have thought the same when you broke onto the scene. Your saying about doms being tared with the same brush yet your doing the same with the newbies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people still enjoying themselves does it matter? It does when all Dom's are tarred with the same brush, I pride myself on being respectful but a lot aren't, and it spoils it all for everyone
Everyone has to start somewhere though. I'm sure doms might have thought the same when you broke onto the scene. Your saying about doms being tared with the same brush yet your doing the same with the newbies."
I'm not talking about newbie I'm talking about the same kind of people who think they can send a message in here and get laid that night, people who hide behind a keyboard to get their rocks off, everyone has to start somewhere, but respect should be a universal thing, you wouldn't demand a woman suck your cock if you approached her in the pub so why do it on line, and submisive doesn't mean easy |
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