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By *attoguyme OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi people this is not a poor single guy post just wanted to know what the biggist bug bare is I have had a few meets so fair andbi know I will have more in time just git thinking where some guys go wrong |
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over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on "
I hope the whiter than white spelling police above are feeling a little sheepish at this moment in time. |
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biggest bugbear by single men is there stupid one liners
or them pushing the female of a couple into meeting them
the worst single men are the ones that get sorry not interested in you and give people a barrage of insults |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on
I hope the whiter than white spelling police above are feeling a little sheepish at this moment in time."
A lot of sheep are white. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on "
I really don't think you need to explain yourself to anyone! Youll always get people who are grammer police!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on "
My spelling is not perfect either and it hasn't stopped me having fun in the swinging world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people this is not a poor single guy post just wanted to know what the biggist bug bare is I have had a few meets so fair andbi know I will have more in time just git thinking where some guys go wrong "
17 photos of your langer and you smashing some birds back doors in bare back.
I'm 41. I've seen cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind that guys don't read my profile before they message me, but if they do one of my dislikes (that is mentioned on my profile) then that pisses me right off.
Not saying any more than that, need to block as many guys as i can anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest thing guys do wrong on here is think this place will be easier to get a fuck than in everyday life.
If you struggle to pull or get interest in your everyday life then it will be 100 times harder on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that most (not all) have no idea how to have a conversation and expect a couple of lines to be enough and when contacting you, also when they direct it at the woman in the couple like the man does not exist.
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on
I really don't think you need to explain yourself to anyone! Youll always get people who are grammer police! "
Grammar. I was a representative of the spelling police, not grammar police. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on
I really don't think you need to explain yourself to anyone! Youll always get people who are grammer police! "
*grammar  |
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"biggest bugbear by single men is there stupid one liners
or them pushing the female of a couple into meeting them
the worst single men are the ones that get sorry not interested in you and give people a barrage of insults "
Women and couples also send one liner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hated the one liners we always received. Messages that were sent to us that showed they clearly hadn't read our profile. Messages asking for her to meet alone...
Got so bad we ended up blocking all single males from messaging us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The biggest thing guys do wrong on here is think this place will be easier to get a fuck than in everyday life.
If you struggle to pull or get interest in your everyday life then it will be 100 times harder on here.
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This.
Exactly that. |
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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My biggest bug bare is profile that say " won't meet smokers" but when I point out to the guy sending the message I'm a smoker they say ohh I'll meet you I don't mind really !!!!!
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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Can I just add another one ...
One line profiles .. After being on here for over a year.. Ones that say ," I'll fill this in later"
Give me something to work with guys, something to spark a conversation . |
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"Distance is the problem here, wish I was close to all my offers "
You missed me in Penge again, Shag. No need for long distance sex commutes.
A lot of singles don't spend enough time thinking before writing. Some also insufficient time actually writing too.
Fancy a fuck is often little different to what a fair few write. It's not a guaranteed loser but there are better options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people this is not a poor single guy post just wanted to know what the biggist bug bare is I have had a few meets so fair andbi know I will have more in time just git thinking where some guys go wrong
17 photos of your langer and you smashing some birds back doors in bare back. and yours is without doubt the most interesting profile on fabs
I'm 41. I've seen cock. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the blokes who send a very rude and abusive response back to a polite no....there's just no need.
It just makes it harder for the singles who are on here. Key board warriors is all they are
Confusing a sex site with a whore site... Its not that easy. This is a buyers market, I bet there is 8 blokes to every woman.
Cheaters- be honest dont implicate an innocent person into your lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people this is not a poor single guy post just wanted to know what the biggist bug bare is I have had a few meets so fair andbi know I will have more in time just git thinking where some guys go wrong "
Bushes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not grasping the concept of the reverse image search when sending torso and cock shots. whats a reverse image search"
A valuable tool to discover if the photos have been swiped off the internet. There's tineye and google. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not grasping the concept of the reverse image search when sending torso and cock shots. whats a reverse image search
A valuable tool to discover if the photos have been swiped off the internet. There's tineye and google. "
sorry for sounding thick but how does it work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not grasping the concept of the reverse image search when sending torso and cock shots. whats a reverse image search
A valuable tool to discover if the photos have been swiped off the internet. There's tineye and google. sorry for sounding thick but how does it work"
You copy the url address from the picture and paste it into the bar on tineye or google reverse image search.
If you google it, both sites will explain what to do.
I can only do it on a laptop or pc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on "
your fine xxx a lot of us are crap at spelling we do our best . xx Now there are singles and there are singles . Some will send you mail if you say no they keep mailing and get nasty . Its Why a lot just block as it saves them from that .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on
I really don't think you need to explain yourself to anyone! Youll always get people who are grammer police! "
Or grammar even lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't let the spelling police here put you off posting op. x Takes allsorts to make a forum . I know some say singles are not swingers . I think its good to have a mix. |
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Fab can be made a lot easier for many users, if some simple approaches are followed -
Ensure your details are what the others are looking for: don't ignore their preferences and hope to wing it!
Don't be dishonest, and hope to wing it either.
Get a feel for the people you're interested in - they're not around to satisfy you, but themselves. If your message is tailored to them, then it shows you're likely more respsectful and interested in their needs.
Read their profile, then read it again. Then, and only then, message them, if you match them - don't rely on pretty pics that get you horny, read!
If the others want to see pics, don't assume that your cock pic is enough.
Ensure your profile is filled in with more than 'will fill in later' or bland statements that you're looking for sex etc.
Be OK with rejection - it's not you, it's the recipients who for whatever reason aren't looking for you atm.
If you make a pest of yourself, or aren't a match, then accept you'll possibly be blocked. Accept this as a fact of fab life.
Assume that little effort will reward you appropriately.
Don't expect that negative comments in your profile/elsewhere, will get you sympathy shags.
If you can get sex easily elsewhere, go for it - you may not here on fab. |
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"I know my spelling is bad I try my best missed a lot of school to health probloms and its some thing I am working on
I really don't think you need to explain yourself to anyone! Youll always get people who are grammer police! "
But, if you really want to increase your chances, it is better to get it right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One line rubbish messages that say nothing about them or what they are looking for. Just an insipid hey how are you ?
Boring. "
and they don't read profiles ,just look at pics |
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"Fab can be made a lot easier for many users, if some simple approaches are followed -
Ensure your details are what the others are looking for: don't ignore their preferences and hope to wing it!
Don't be dishonest, and hope to wing it either.
Get a feel for the people you're interested in - they're not around to satisfy you, but themselves. If your message is tailored to them, then it shows you're likely more respsectful and interested in their needs.
Read their profile, then read it again. Then, and only then, message them, if you match them - don't rely on pretty pics that get you horny, read!
If the others want to see pics, don't assume that your cock pic is enough.
Ensure your profile is filled in with more than 'will fill in later' or bland statements that you're looking for sex etc.
Be OK with rejection - it's not you, it's the recipients who for whatever reason aren't looking for you atm.
If you make a pest of yourself, or aren't a match, then accept you'll possibly be blocked. Accept this as a fact of fab life.
Assume that little effort will reward you appropriately.
Don't expect that negative comments in your profile/elsewhere, will get you sympathy shags.
If you can get sex easily elsewhere, go for it - you may not here on fab."
I could not have put it better myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ugh god....right.
when a guy messages you telling you he's bored, it's like 'well stop boring me then'. makes me feel like shit to be looked at as something to stop you being bored. i'm not here to entertain you.
that is all. |
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"Not reading profiles before messaging.
Not even the profile heading, they have one pic only of them in their pants.
Zzzzzzz. WHY.  "
Well I'd like to think that some of us do a little better than that, sometimes anyhow. LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not reading profiles before messaging.
Not even the profile heading, they have one pic only of them in their pants.
Zzzzzzz. WHY.
Well I'd like to think that some of us do a little better than that, sometimes anyhow. LOL"
Why would I be interested in man with no face in his pants, I only know if I may like him if I see his face.
I can see nicer pics on facebook than on here. this site is full of face less men in their pants.  |
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"... where some guys go wrong "
They listen to the 0.0001% of the site who rarely meet anyone because they are too busy yearning to be swept off their feet, whilst moaning on the forum about guys who just want a fuck... may be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I like the single guys, it's who I'm here to meet. But the ones with a sense of entitlement really piss me off. I'm not entitled to have sex with everyone I want and neither are they. Also whinging statuses and men who can't spell where they live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im a single guy on here, im only fairly new myself, in my opinion im not the best looking of the bunch, im not very well endowed but my point is ive had meets. My advice to any single guy that is having issues is to make an effort on there profile, show your personality in there with something that will make the audience smile, even be provocative and entise them with your sexual imagination.people dont like to see one liners in there profile for eg " im Dave, i want a fuck, mail me" thats a no go, so spend some time on your profile, it took me awhile to find out about myself and what i did and didnt like so i could write my profile, so maybe go to swingers clubs, go out dogging in popular locations and get a feel for what you like and dont like. My photos arnt that good but im going to work on some more imaginative/creative photos..be creative and most of all be yourself. Also when you mail people, read there profiles first and maybe try relate to them, always be respectful. If you follow that advice im sure people will back me up and say that you will meet and socialise with alot more fabbers!  |
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"Not reading profiles before messaging.
Not even the profile heading, they have one pic only of them in their pants.
Zzzzzzz. WHY.
Well I'd like to think that some of us do a little better than that, sometimes anyhow. LOL
Why would I be interested in man with no face in his pants, I only know if I may like him if I see his face.
I can see nicer pics on facebook than on here. this site is full of face less men in their pants. "
I think you'll find that most of the guys and the gals don't show their face in the public pictures; I've only seen a very few that do, but most that are real tens to show them on request or have them in their friends pics. I know I do. |
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"Im a single guy on here, im only fairly new myself, in my opinion im not the best looking of the bunch, im not very well endowed but my point is ive had meets. My advice to any single guy that is having issues is to make an effort on there profile, show your personality in there with something that will make the audience smile, even be provocative and entise them with your sexual imagination.people dont like to see one liners in there profile for eg " im Dave, i want a fuck, mail me" thats a no go, so spend some time on your profile, it took me awhile to find out about myself and what i did and didnt like so i could write my profile, so maybe go to swingers clubs, go out dogging in popular locations and get a feel for what you like and dont like. My photos arnt that good but im going to work on some more imaginative/creative photos..be creative and most of all be yourself. Also when you mail people, read there profiles first and maybe try relate to them, always be respectful. If you follow that advice im sure people will back me up and say that you will meet and socialise with alot more fabbers! "
Totally agree, That's been my experience to so far. |
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"Im a single guy on here, im only fairly new myself, in my opinion im not the best looking of the bunch, im not very well endowed but my point is ive had meets. My advice to any single guy that is having issues is to make an effort on there profile, show your personality in there with something that will make the audience smile, even be provocative and entise them with your sexual imagination.people dont like to see one liners in there profile for eg " im Dave, i want a fuck, mail me" thats a no go, so spend some time on your profile, it took me awhile to find out about myself and what i did and didnt like so i could write my profile, so maybe go to swingers clubs, go out dogging in popular locations and get a feel for what you like and dont like. My photos arnt that good but im going to work on some more imaginative/creative photos..be creative and most of all be yourself. Also when you mail people, read there profiles first and maybe try relate to them, always be respectful. If you follow that advice im sure people will back me up and say that you will meet and socialise with alot more fabbers!
Totally agree, That's been my experience to so far."
youve given me an idea for my future photos...think strip in order of sequence hehe  |
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"Im a single guy on here, im only fairly new myself, in my opinion im not the best looking of the bunch, im not very well endowed but my point is ive had meets. My advice to any single guy that is having issues is to make an effort on there profile, show your personality in there with something that will make the audience smile, even be provocative and entise them with your sexual imagination.people dont like to see one liners in there profile for eg " im Dave, i want a fuck, mail me" thats a no go, so spend some time on your profile, it took me awhile to find out about myself and what i did and didnt like so i could write my profile, so maybe go to swingers clubs, go out dogging in popular locations and get a feel for what you like and dont like. My photos arnt that good but im going to work on some more imaginative/creative photos..be creative and most of all be yourself. Also when you mail people, read there profiles first and maybe try relate to them, always be respectful. If you follow that advice im sure people will back me up and say that you will meet and socialise with alot more fabbers!
Totally agree, That's been my experience to so far.
youve given me an idea for my future photos...think strip in order of sequence hehe "
Glad to be of help. |
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"Not reading profiles before messaging.
Not even the profile heading, they have one pic only of them in their pants.
Zzzzzzz. WHY.
Well I'd like to think that some of us do a little better than that, sometimes anyhow. LOL
Why would I be interested in man with no face in his pants, I only know if I may like him if I see his face.
I can see nicer pics on facebook than on here. this site is full of face less men in their pants. "
With no face in his pants?
Do your guys normally wear their undergarments on their heads?  |
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"Not reading profiles before messaging.
Not even the profile heading, they have one pic only of them in their pants.
Zzzzzzz. WHY.
Well I'd like to think that some of us do a little better than that, sometimes anyhow. LOL
Why would I be interested in man with no face in his pants, I only know if I may like him if I see his face.
I can see nicer pics on facebook than on here. this site is full of face less men in their pants.
With no face in his pants?
Do your guys normally wear their undergarments on their heads? "
pmsfl. Why didn't I think of that. it's way better then my reply. |
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Single guys get tarred with the same brush I find. Presumably since so many profiles say about one liners or lack of imagination then so many messages must be receive and that makes it tougher for the rest of us.
Think of this place like meeting someone in a bar, you wouldn't walk upto the hot woman and say "fancy a fuck" would you so why do it here. When so many guys think with their cock it makes us all look bad. sad but unfortunately true |
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"Single guys get tarred with the same brush I find. Presumably since so many profiles say about one liners or lack of imagination then so many messages must be receive and that makes it tougher for the rest of us.
Think of this place like meeting someone in a bar, you wouldn't walk upto the hot woman and say "fancy a fuck" would you so why do it here. When so many guys think with their cock it makes us all look bad. sad but unfortunately true"
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most say spelling is a big bug but let's be honnist I can't spell and I do get it wrong from time to time but just as I can't spell my big bug is that people are more interested in how I spell than what it says just as it's not spelt right doesn't mean u can't make out what it said ... Sorry for my rant but hay I just hate that spelling is the biggest thing in the world some are better at math or other things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Single guys are the ONLY people I meet (for sex). However, my 'pet hate' is guys who type very explicit messages - presumably when they're horny! - and don't realise that I'm reading their text when I'm NOT in the same mood as them!
I like to engage with a man's brain, as well as (sometimes instead of!) his cock. If he can't talk without obscenities ..... what on earth would we do before and afterwards? |
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"Single guys get tarred with the same brush I find. Presumably since so many profiles say about one liners or lack of imagination then so many messages must be receive and that makes it tougher for the rest of us.
Think of this place like meeting someone in a bar, you wouldn't walk upto the hot woman and say "fancy a fuck" would you so why do it here. When so many guys think with their cock it makes us all look bad. sad but unfortunately true"
I think this qualifies as a pair of bollox!
People generally tar someone with the same brush as someone else because they have done the same thing. If one guy posts a photo of his cock and in the background, just in sight behind the cock, you can see a thick, long brown skid inside a pair of badly stained pants - do we assume all men have shit tracks in their undies?........No!
And for the second typed testicle.... surely a recreational sex site is more akin to a swinging club. Nothing wrong in asking someone if they fancy a fuck in a swinging club.... I do it all the time.... successfully. If there was going to be one place on the internet where it should be absolutely fine to ask someone if they fancy a fuck, shouldn't it be here? |
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"Single guys get tarred with the same brush I find. Presumably since so many profiles say about one liners or lack of imagination then so many messages must be receive and that makes it tougher for the rest of us.
Think of this place like meeting someone in a bar, you wouldn't walk upto the hot woman and say "fancy a fuck" would you so why do it here. When so many guys think with their cock it makes us all look bad. sad but unfortunately true
I think this qualifies as a pair of bollox!
People generally tar someone with the same brush as someone else because they have done the same thing. If one guy posts a photo of his cock and in the background, just in sight behind the cock, you can see a thick, long brown skid inside a pair of badly stained pants - do we assume all men have shit tracks in their undies?........No!
And for the second typed testicle.... surely a recreational sex site is more akin to a swinging club. Nothing wrong in asking someone if they fancy a fuck in a swinging club.... I do it all the time.... successfully. If there was going to be one place on the internet where it should be absolutely fine to ask someone if they fancy a fuck, shouldn't it be here?"
saves me typing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, you wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and say "fancy a fuck" although I have a friend who does and it seems to work for him and has done for thirty years. However, you mostly don't walk up to a woman in a bar and start with a long diatribe about what you expect from a relationship with them. For most of the meets I have had in bars with previously unknown women, the conversation has started with a one liner, or sometimes a one worder, like "Hello". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My biggest bug bare is profile that say " won't meet smokers" but when I point out to the guy sending the message I'm a smoker they say ohh I'll meet you I don't mind really !!!!!
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