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over a year ago
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just watching ken evicted....its ok to look sneakily at arses....but if you say your looking...your perverted?....im not getting this ...used to be a perv watching secretly was at fault....but now if you admit to it....your out....so later when 1 of the young ladys jumps into bed with callum best or another guy....in undies.....will ken be forgiven?..discuss  |
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It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
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"just watching ken evicted....its ok to look sneakily at arses....but if you say your looking...your perverted?....im not getting this ...used to be a perv watching secretly was at fault....but now if you admit to it....your out....so later when 1 of the young ladys jumps into bed with callum best or another guy....in undies.....will ken be forgiven?..discuss "
I know what you're saying.
I was only half watching but from what I saw, he was just being honest saying he was looking. Same as any bloke would. He wasn't peeping on them, they were in the communal bathroom. Bit like being in bikini's on a beach. Of course people look and think 'oh she looks nice/ has a good body' etc. I didn't see how he was being pervy doing that.
As you say, if Callum said he was perving at the women they'd all be throwing themselves at him!! (Sounds like the forum......)
His other comments in the rest of the show were a bit much though. I reckon he was just looking for an easy way to get out because he hated it. |
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
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But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me 
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me
Gimp"
It's just something uncomfortable about an old guy letching over a young girl especially when you know it wouldn't be welcomed nor appreciated.
If I was in that situation and having to shower wearing a bikini and if he came in the room and was looking at my area or tits and I caught him or if he told me he wanted to look at my body I'd tell him to fuck off and it would make me feel sick, violated if you like. |
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me
Gimp
It's just something uncomfortable about an old guy letching over a young girl especially when you know it wouldn't be welcomed nor appreciated.
If I was in that situation and having to shower wearing a bikini and if he came in the room and was looking at my area or tits and I caught him or if he told me he wanted to look at my body I'd tell him to fuck off and it would make me feel sick, violated if you like. "
Okay imagine this scenario, You are approached and offered a shed load of money to live in a building for a few weeks and would be filmed 24/7 while sleeping and showering as a group, You sign on the doted line..Do you really think you would have a case for sexual harassment if someone admits they are looking at your Arse/Juggs
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me
Gimp
It's just something uncomfortable about an old guy letching over a young girl especially when you know it wouldn't be welcomed nor appreciated.
If I was in that situation and having to shower wearing a bikini and if he came in the room and was looking at my area or tits and I caught him or if he told me he wanted to look at my body I'd tell him to fuck off and it would make me feel sick, violated if you like.
Okay imagine this scenario, You are approached and offered a shed load of money to live in a building for a few weeks and would be filmed 24/7 while sleeping and showering as a group, You sign on the doted line..Do you really think you would have a case for sexual harassment if someone admits they are looking at your Arse/Juggs
Gimp"
What? I would expect another human being to have some basic understanding of people's boundaries. Showering, bathing and dressing are necessary of course, but so is going to the toilet, I wouldn't expect him to be standing there open mouthed watching me curl one out on the toilet, so why would I have to accept someone looking at me in a way which makes me uncomfortable. These girls have expressed that it makes them uncomfortable yet he still continued.
If you were staring at someone's arse and they said "look mate you're making me feel uncomfortable" if you then choose to ignore that request and continued to do it then I supposed it can be classed as harressment.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Er, is it okay for me to point out he didn't get kicked off the show for "perving"?"
Nope he got kicked off for saying the word negro, twice, after being warned about it.
Stupid fucker anyway, didn't like him in corrie and the adverts he was in used to piss me off. |
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me
Gimp
It's just something uncomfortable about an old guy letching over a young girl especially when you know it wouldn't be welcomed nor appreciated.
If I was in that situation and having to shower wearing a bikini and if he came in the room and was looking at my area or tits and I caught him or if he told me he wanted to look at my body I'd tell him to fuck off and it would make me feel sick, violated if you like.
Okay imagine this scenario, You are approached and offered a shed load of money to live in a building for a few weeks and would be filmed 24/7 while sleeping and showering as a group, You sign on the doted line..Do you really think you would have a case for sexual harassment if someone admits they are looking at your Arse/Juggs
Gimp
What? I would expect another human being to have some basic understanding of people's boundaries. Showering, bathing and dressing are necessary of course, but so is going to the toilet, I wouldn't expect him to be standing there open mouthed watching me curl one out on the toilet, so why would I have to accept someone looking at me in a way which makes me uncomfortable. These girls have expressed that it makes them uncomfortable yet he still continued.
If you were staring at someone's arse and they said "look mate you're making me feel uncomfortable" if you then choose to ignore that request and continued to do it then I supposed it can be classed as harressment.
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after. |
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after."
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after.
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
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I will agree that we have a different take on life then, My view if someone accepts money knowing they will be expected to put themselves on display then sexual harassment goes out of the window, They are in the business and have been it a long time,Its about ratings and personal publicity at the end of the day so im afraid i cannot have any sympathy for any of them who knowingly put themselves in a goldfish bowl |
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after.
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after.
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
I will agree that we have a different take on life then, My view if someone accepts money knowing they will be expected to put themselves on display then sexual harassment goes out of the window, They are in the business and have been it a long time,Its about ratings and personal publicity at the end of the day so im afraid i cannot have any sympathy for any of them who knowingly put themselves in a goldfish bowl"
Does sexual harassment go out the window when someone goes to a club to? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Men look, when they don't they are normally in a wooden overcoat.
The women concerned are quiet happy walking about with most of their bits on show and undressing in front of the men so I am not sure why they are complaining that men look. Asking Callum to show his chest off so they could dribble seems to be ok though....
However, Ken was a sleaze while doing it ( I am guessing so he could be chucked out )so it would make most people uncomfortable. but Nadia saying call the police he is admitting to looking at women was laughable. |
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"It's still not ok to perve over anyone. When you use the word perve it implies that it's sneaky and wouldn't be welcomed.
With regards to Callum and if one of the younger girls were to jump into bed with him half naked, that's her choice, that's her choosing to expose herself to that particular person because they are attracted to them.
But surely if its sneaky you wouldnt know anyway, as a Derriere devient i admire Womens rears and am quite open about it, If pulled up n sked what im looking at i will always say just perving yer Arse...so nick me
Gimp
It's just something uncomfortable about an old guy letching over a young girl especially when you know it wouldn't be welcomed nor appreciated.
If I was in that situation and having to shower wearing a bikini and if he came in the room and was looking at my area or tits and I caught him or if he told me he wanted to look at my body I'd tell him to fuck off and it would make me feel sick, violated if you like.
Okay imagine this scenario, You are approached and offered a shed load of money to live in a building for a few weeks and would be filmed 24/7 while sleeping and showering as a group, You sign on the doted line..Do you really think you would have a case for sexual harassment if someone admits they are looking at your Arse/Juggs
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just read his apology in the paper.. He wasn't just looking, he moved her clothes out of the way for a better look.. that's too far :L
Or am I thinking of a different guy?
Stop watching big brother anyway!! It's shiiiite :L |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ken was kicked out for his racial language.
I'm still to meet someone who calls blacks n....., he used the word several times and viewers were complaining to Ofcom
Perving is the name of the game in BB and the girls in there loves it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The paradox is that if people didn't "perve" glamour models and those who expose themselves for money would have no career. "
True but its there rules ..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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but do you think hes a stupid old guy...whose been hung out to dry by the politically correct gang at channel 4...who tell us all how to live our lives...since the channel started..is he not like most old guys who just lack the education given to you younger open minded generations and could he be cut a little slack ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have to say I enjoyed reading this thread.
Lots of opinions, well made arguements on all sides.
Personally, I'm not a fan of the show in general. My wife watches it, thus I watch it. This series is however quite compelling purely because of the unstable, innapropriate behaviour of many of the 'celebrities' |
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Bloke opened a girls dressing gown who was naked underneath - He was rightly removed.
Ken Morley looked at a birds arse who is in an house full of cameras ,the same bird got her fanny out in the pool for everyone to see and they made him out to be the Yorkshire ripper.
Nadia swalha came across has some right horrible bastard in my book.
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"Bloke opened a girls dressing gown who was naked underneath - He was rightly removed.
Ken Morley looked at a birds arse who is in an house full of cameras ,the same bird got her fanny out in the pool for everyone to see and they made him out to be the Yorkshire ripper.
Nadia swalha came across has some right horrible bastard in my book.
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"Edwina Curry did exactly the same in the celebrity jungle perving over young lads , was she removed?? no.  "
Very true, mature women doing this are often seen as funny and just having a laugh.
Mature men with young females, well..... |
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"Edwina Curry did exactly the same in the celebrity jungle perving over young lads , was she removed?? no.
Very true, mature women doing this are often seen as funny and just having a laugh.
Mature men with young females, well....."
That's right and I am sure if nadia did it to the younger men there in big brother it would be ok. |
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"Bloke opened a girls dressing gown who was naked underneath - He was rightly removed.
Ken Morley looked at a birds arse who is in an house full of cameras ,the same bird got her fanny out in the pool for everyone to see and they made him out to be the Yorkshire ripper.
Nadia swalha came across has some right horrible bastard in my book.
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"Edwina Curry did exactly the same in the celebrity jungle perving over young lads , was she removed?? no.
Very true, mature women doing this are often seen as funny and just having a laugh.
Mature men with young females, well.....That's right and I am sure if nadia did it to the younger men there in big brother it would be ok."
It happens on here all the time too. Women complaining about men touching them when at clubs/ leering at them. Then in the next breath the women admit they will grab a man in a club and leer at them on the forum.... |
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"ken was on loose women today ... he apologised for the racial comments but wouldn't for the arse comment
things get blown out of proportion in big bro house but nadia overreacted "
Its obvious he was only joking, about the arse comments, I thought he was funny. |
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after.
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
I will agree that we have a different take on life then, My view if someone accepts money knowing they will be expected to put themselves on display then sexual harassment goes out of the window, They are in the business and have been it a long time,Its about ratings and personal publicity at the end of the day so im afraid i cannot have any sympathy for any of them who knowingly put themselves in a goldfish bowl
Does sexual harassment go out the window when someone goes to a club to? "
Are they paid to attend the Club, If so then do they accept payment knowing full well that there will be Leery blokes who are not known for their political correctness there, If they do take the money and parade around wearing very little then yes Sexual harassment goes out of the window, We are not talking about groping here remember.
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The point i was trying to make was summed up in your sentence "Having to shower in a Bikini"..No they aren't, They sign up for it because they are earning a lot of money to do that and its not like its the first series and nobody knows what the producers are after.
Again I don't know what point you're trying to make? Yes they do have to shower wearing a bathing suit as the alternative would be to go naked. Yes they know that at some point during their stay they will need to take a shower but what they may not have anticipated was a man that wouldn't respect boundaries. If someone said to me "do you mind turning round a minute whilst I do this or that" I would turn around, I'd probably do it anyway if someone was partially dressed I would avert my eyes, I wouldn't stare at someone especially if I'd been told that me doing so is making them feel uncomfortable.
I will agree that we have a different take on life then, My view if someone accepts money knowing they will be expected to put themselves on display then sexual harassment goes out of the window, They are in the business and have been it a long time,Its about ratings and personal publicity at the end of the day so im afraid i cannot have any sympathy for any of them who knowingly put themselves in a goldfish bowl
Does sexual harassment go out the window when someone goes to a club to?
Are they paid to attend the Club, If so then do they accept payment knowing full well that there will be Leery blokes who are not known for their political correctness there, If they do take the money and parade around wearing very little then yes Sexual harassment goes out of the window, We are not talking about groping here remember.
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I don't think any off the girl's in the big brother house are famous. are they only there to put up the ratings as a bit of eye candy? They can not be that nieve to think they are in the house because they are celebrates. |
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