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over a year ago
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I go for the nearest one to me (which means they will get here the quickest).
Then i shove a status up thanking the people who replied but i found someone.
So what if people think you are time waster? If they get bitchy about it block them, i do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the one who sounds the nicest, sends the best message, looks ok, has the best profile and verifications, one I think I will get on with best.
just say to the others you have already got someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one you like the look and sound of the most and trust your gut.....there's a lot to be said for your instincts....for all the advice anyone could give on here, it's you that knows best, take your time and choose wisely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally the meet now thing seems a bit desperate to me. Unless you use it to tell friends you already know. Just asking for a random to meet and play would be a huge turn off for me because I need attraction . However I can see why some might find it exciting.
If this is your thing id go for whoever ticks the most boxes for me. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"The one you like the look and sound of the most and trust your gut.....there's a lot to be said for your instincts....for all the advice anyone could give on here, it's you that knows best, take your time and choose wisely "
This.
Sound advice as far we can see. Just to add we also put up in our status a big thank you to everyone who wanted to meet, it seems to do the trick and most people in our experience find that okay. Just be careful of appearing to lead people on or being pushed ever so slightly into a corner. We always say the latest a meet is confirmed is 3pm on the day and everyone is aware of that, if they have other options themselves that's their decision to wait around or not, if people need to know earlier we'll commit or politely decline till next time. It really can be a juggling act but reasonable grown up understand the ones that don't aren't the type we'd like to meet. We've missed out on meets as people have chosen other couples, no offence taken there's always another day. |
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Several replies you say?! Unheard of im
My experience!!
How you had a good one x
