Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind. |
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"Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind." love this post . xx |
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Don't worry about things out of your control, let it happen. Enjoy your family and surroundings, embrace all of life's moments as they come to you.
In the grand scheme of things we're here for an insignificant amount of time so why waste it on bad juju vibes. |
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"Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind." |
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Don't look to others to make you happy.
Be as kind to yourself as you are/should be to others.
Learn about contentment and appreciate everything that's given to you as a learning curve.
Find the silver lining in all things negative.
Learn to smile more, it's contagious. Learn to laugh more, it releases feel good hormones. |
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To be happy first never make the mistake in thinking you have to be happy , if you expect to be happy all the time it makes it so much harder when your not . |
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Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.
If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....
Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...
If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?
Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...
Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.
Failing that. Drugs.
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"Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.
If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....
Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...
If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?
Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...
Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.
Failing that. Drugs.
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I do sometimes fall into the trap of not having much perspective. I'm also quite easily overwhelmed, and get stressed out by lots of little things beyond my control... so sometimes a little perspective goes a long way with me.
Although I do often feel awful because of my dissertation!!!! . |
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Only my humble opinion...a few pointers perhaps - and not in any order of importance:-
1 Appreciate what you have and not crave what you haven't.
2 Believe that you are worth the same as others and can make a valuable contribution to society,
3 Treat others as you would wish to be treated,
4 Find someone to love on equal terms,
5 Don't let the fact that someone is a member of your family make your love unconditional - sometimes you have to stand firm and let go,
6 Accept those things outside your control but change those things you can control.
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"Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.
If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....
Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...
If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?
Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...
Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.
Failing that. Drugs.
I do sometimes fall into the trap of not having much perspective. I'm also quite easily overwhelmed, and get stressed out by lots of little things beyond my control... so sometimes a little perspective goes a long way with me.
Although I do often feel awful because of my dissertation!!!! ."
Then stop fucking about on fab and get your head down |
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