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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just take it as a not interested. Couples and single fems get way too many messages to reply to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos people with real lives haven't got time to waste on idle chit chat. If you haven't got anything to say why even bother sending a message.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

She had a reason, she just didn't need to explain it to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couples and fem can get 100s of letters a week and its like a filter the block to some ... There way of sorting people out here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this the first post of this type in 2015 or have I just missed all the others?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

I feel left out can I message someone and get blocked?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The end of the day people use fab and its their choices if they block, delete message or leave it read in the inbox

Juat as you are on a site called fab swingers doesnt mean we as women HAVE to reply to every message, every wink, every friends request and meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would rejection in mail form be easier to take ?

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By *rladytoyMan over a year ago

bournemouth

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

Sad people makes them feel good about themselves, I feel sorry for them really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couples and fem can get 100s of letters a week and its like a filter the block to some ... There way of sorting people out here."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

Sad people makes them feel good about themselves, I feel sorry for them really"

I'm sure they don't need your sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

I feel left out can I message someone and get blocked?

Go for it, but I'll unblock you just as quick

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By *rladytoyMan over a year ago

bournemouth

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

Sad people makes them feel good about themselves, I feel sorry for them really

I'm sure they don't need your sympathy. "

They can have it anyway, bless em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

I feel left out can I message someone and get blocked?

nooo your hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Getting blocked shows you got some sort of reaction, better than being ignored completely!

I'm blocked by hundreds of people, saves me messaging them

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Cos people with real lives haven't got time to waste on idle chit chat. If you haven't got anything to say why even bother sending a message."

OP imagine receiving hi/hey/how's u/how's your day/how's your weekend going and other similar variations 10-50 times a day. Gets boring, shows no imagination and no effort. Life really is too short!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

She said both of those things and prevented further confusion.

It takes a thick skin to be a bloke on Fab I'm afraid, don't let these insignificant knock-backs put you off.

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

I think you underestimate how many messages women get mate. Last time my friend showed me her received messages there were 32 that day and 29 were ones she had no interest in from random guys.

Would you send 29 "no thanks" messages?! At the very least that's a lot of cutting and pasting.

I think the answer is pretty clear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

Sad people makes them feel good about themselves, I feel sorry for them really"

Yes of course it's that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

Maybe she thought a message of 'hi' was so uninspiring that there was no point in replying?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just take it as a not interested. Couples and single fems get way too many messages to reply to everyone."

And hot Tgirls

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

It can be difficult to understand why people don't answer messages and I can imagine it might make you think all sorts. The fact is that there are many more women than men on fab so their experience is very different. We only reply to a "hi" message if we are interested because it becomes more difficult to turn someone down later on and they ask, quite reasonably, why.we talked to them if we weren't interested.

I would say that if you don't expect a response you will enjoy your time here in a much more relaxed way.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos people with real lives haven't got time to waste on idle chit chat. If you haven't got anything to say why even bother sending a message.

OP imagine receiving hi/hey/how's u/how's your day/how's your weekend going and other similar variations 10-50 times a day. Gets boring, shows no imagination and no effort. Life really is too short!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I said hi to a woman in fab she just blocked me for no reason.

why people are like this they could say

I'm not their type

or don't like me

No one is entitled to politeness and people will always have their reasons or excuses for not being polite.

Being polite is a choice and some people choose to be more polite than others.

Remember that it is not polite to ignore the requirements of the profiles you write to. It is rare for anyone to respond to discourtesy with courtesy.

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