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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on.."
Straight away if they aont local to me and asap if i realise i dont know them if they are local
what about you guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we initiate contact then we send one with the first message. We'd hope to receive one with a message from someone we'd not spoke to before. It doesn't always happen though, within the first few messages is preferable. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder"
Depends.
If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.
If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.
If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.
So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder
Depends.
If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.
If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.
If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.
So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!
A"
I'm standing behind you 
Gimp  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder
Depends.
If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.
If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.
If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.
So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!
A
I'm standing behind you
Gimp "
You must be cold!! 
I'm leaning on the fridge! 
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Pretty soon, as it can be damnably awkward when they drop into your inbox a moustache that makes them look like a Mexican Bandit  "
The one day I chose not to wax and you just can't let it lie...
OP, fairly soon as I like to know what people look like, especially as I have a social first - I prefer to know what their face looks like as thats what I'll see having coffee - not their knob! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on..
Straight away if they aont local to me and asap if i realise i dont know them if they are local
what about you guys"
Exactly the same as this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder
Depends.
If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.
If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.
If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.
So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!
A
I'm standing behind you
Gimp
You must be cold!!
I'm leaning on the fridge!
A"
Theres no Marmite in here 
Gimp |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder
Depends.
If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.
If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.
If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.
So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!
A
I'm standing behind you
Gimp "
I'm behind you but I'm a  so you won't see me... |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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I actually don't show facepics.
So far, we have not encountered any issues from it.
My logic being; if I like them enough to be chatting about meeting them, i am likely to meet them for a social at which point they could of course run screaming if iam not their type... But hopefully it'd be a good chat even if nothing more came of it and we weren't attracted.
People I chat in general to don't need a pic necessarily.
I would consider giving it out for example if there was large distance to travel on either side between meets.
I think for me it really depends on the person asking, too.
Bugs is more relaxed about showing his, but hasn't yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I asked one "lady" after about 10 messages and got blocked!!
Now that either tells me I'm being unreasonable forward, she's married and doesn't send face pics, not interested in me or its a 30 stone hairy lorry driving bloke passing himself off as a woman and gets off on messaging blokes!!!
To be honest if you can't exchange a face pic after half a dozen messages then 9/10 they are wasting your time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was looking, I wouldn't reply to anybody if they didn't have a public face pic or attach one. It was a good way to filter the messages worth responding to as it was impossible to answer them all. |
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