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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How much effort do you put in to getting a meet? I find I go through stages. Right now not making much effort just enjoying the forums and perving on randoms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not so much effort as patience and willingness to do this long enough to find someone I feel attracted to, and when I do, have the patience to wait and see if they ever manage to clear their inbox long enough to have a actual conversation with - you know, the kind where they actually get to know you in some way, enough to actually make an informed opinion on whether or not you might just be able to have fun together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have to put much effort in when I am looking to meet. Luckily, most I'd consider meeting have messaged me so it's pretty easy to strike up a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy I like has made the effort to contact me and has sent a pretty good message I will do the same back, leading up to a meet I think I always try and give him my full attention! I'd find one liners off putting so i wouldn't expect him to take them from me. It's a two way street.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spend a lot of time on here talking to people. Taking time to answer everyone. I don't search for men,I can't ever find anyone who interests me. I live in an area highly populated by men on here. Even with filters it's difficult to find someone. So,I spend a lot of time looking at who has messaged me,talking to any who initially interest me,then arranging to meet the ones I feel an attraction to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a lot. I go looking for people I like, narrow them down a bit then mail them. Most don't reply so that narrows it down more. I chat to the ones interested and those get bored and stop chatting. Then it's usually down to one or two so figure out a meet time/ location etc. And then........... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend a lot of time on here talking to people. Taking time to answer everyone. I don't search for men,I can't ever find anyone who interests me. I live in an area highly populated by men on here. Even with filters it's difficult to find someone. So,I spend a lot of time looking at who has messaged me,talking to any who initially interest me,then arranging to meet the ones I feel an attraction to. "
This but I live in a small town in west wales so the effort level is high here |
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