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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
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I generally look to see that they are working ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
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I'm incredibly insightful so for me eyes are the windows to the soul.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
I'm incredibly insightful so for me eyes are the windows to the soul.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Movement is always a good start
After that, emotion and interest.
I detest talking to people wearing sunglasses. They sap them of expression to a degree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?"
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
a lot is just instinct and impulse as i look into the eyes.
people can take a good picture of there eyes but i need to experience them physically to get a true call on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Movement is always a good start
After that, emotion and interest.
I detest talking to people wearing sunglasses. They sap them of expression to a degree."
oh god me too.. sunglasses indoors are an instant communication blocker, might as well just stand arms crossed and turn so your back to back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape"
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
"I look for a light  "
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You can see so much via someone's eyes.
Peter Sutcliffe has evil eyes "
Could you have told that without knowing about his crimes though? What makes his eyes evil? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
I look for a light
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them?"
Course they do!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can see so much via someone's eyes.
Peter Sutcliffe has evil eyes
Could you have told that without knowing about his crimes though? What makes his eyes evil?"
I think that's an interesting question.
I looked after a lifer once.
He'd killed a man in cold blood.
He had kind eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can see so much via someone's eyes.
Peter Sutcliffe has evil eyes
Could you have told that without knowing about his crimes though? What makes his eyes evil?"
They're dark and evil and yes I've seen a few with the same look in their eyes since. Scares me to death  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can see so much via someone's eyes.
Peter Sutcliffe has evil eyes
Could you have told that without knowing about his crimes though? What makes his eyes evil?
I think that's an interesting question.
I looked after a lifer once.
He'd killed a man in cold blood.
He had kind eyes. "
Really? I see kind eyes as smiley with a sparkle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
Don't believe you can see intelligence or lack of "
I agree only I think you can sometimes tell how intelligent someone is by their eyes. I can tell when my hubbys randy or angry, by looking at his eyes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
a lot is just instinct and impulse as i look into the eyes.
people can take a good picture of there eyes but i need to experience them physically to get a true call on them. "
I took my pic to prove I did i did indeed have green eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can see so much via someone's eyes.
Peter Sutcliffe has evil eyes
Could you have told that without knowing about his crimes though? What makes his eyes evil?
I think that's an interesting question.
I looked after a lifer once.
He'd killed a man in cold blood.
He had kind eyes.
Really? I see kind eyes as smiley with a sparkle x "
You didn't see his eyes???
ha...he smiled a lot, genuinely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think seeing someones eyes is a very strong deal breaker for me
im often surprised that some of my cleevage shots have less fabs than just ordinary pictures of my face and truly think this is down to the fact my eyes are on show..
not saying i have great eyes, i think they are quite ordinary in fact but im allowing someone to see ME and its a connection thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexy Brain.. whats your answer to this question out of interest?
Which one?
well your whole opening post. "
I'd imagine there's a whole area of psychology behind eyes alone, but my interpretation is that if the eye is a camera, then you should be able to tell things about the person operating them by what the cameras is doing. For example, if the person has a 'dull' look in their eyes, ie one that is not particularly focussed on what's going on around them, that could suggest that they're possibly slow witted, not concerned, or even daydreaming up inside their own mind. Conversely, if someone has a look of focus and intensity, they could be intelligent, observant, but if accompanied by a furrowed brow and dilated pupils, probably angry lol. It's also suggested that when you encounter an empathetic person, you can tell they're considerate because the expression in their eyes should match your own emotions - ever notice how when you're feeling down and talk to a good listener, they'll look sad too?
You have a very nice pair of eyes Sassy, they look relaxed and positive, as though you either approve of what you're seeing, or are thinking 'ok, tell me more'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's also suggested that when you encounter an empathetic person, you can tell they're considerate because the expression in their eyes should match your own emotions - ever notice how when you're feeling down and talk to a good listener, they'll look sad too?"
Actually to be more specific, such a person would likely be someone you already share a certain bond with, like a close friend or family member, were you confiding in a professional like a counsellor, I'd imagine their particularly look of empathy would be more one of quiet focus, like they're not FEELING your problem, but are intent on helping to address it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexy Brain.. whats your answer to this question out of interest?
Which one?
well your whole opening post.
I'd imagine there's a whole area of psychology behind eyes alone, but my interpretation is that if the eye is a camera, then you should be able to tell things about the person operating them by what the cameras is doing. For example, if the person has a 'dull' look in their eyes, ie one that is not particularly focussed on what's going on around them, that could suggest that they're possibly slow witted, not concerned, or even daydreaming up inside their own mind. Conversely, if someone has a look of focus and intensity, they could be intelligent, observant, but if accompanied by a furrowed brow and dilated pupils, probably angry lol. It's also suggested that when you encounter an empathetic person, you can tell they're considerate because the expression in their eyes should match your own emotions - ever notice how when you're feeling down and talk to a good listener, they'll look sad too?
You have a very nice pair of eyes Sassy, they look relaxed and positive, as though you either approve of what you're seeing, or are thinking 'ok, tell me more'."
Sadness and depression is relayed in the eyes!
Of course.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
I look for a light
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them?"
Well yes but I'm more of a wolverine fan really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
I look for a light
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them?
Well yes but I'm more of a wolverine fan really."
Useful if you get itchy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
I look for a light
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them?
Well yes but I'm more of a wolverine fan really.
Useful if you get itchy."
Have you got cataracts? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Animation, attention, focus, passion, need, desire are just some of the things that spring to mind when it comes to the eyes and eyebrows in terms of good things to see. In terms of non-verbal communication they are number one in my book. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eyes have their own entire unspoken language
We took a stunning couple home from abfabs last week and she used her eyes all night to tell me she was taking me home! Loved it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eyes are a big thing for me, you can see a lot about the person and eyes can turn me on more than th rest of the person.
I know I can flirt and be suggestive purely with a naughty little look I give and as men are very visual I do think that is a big thing for them.
One feature I always get the most comments on are my eyes, as much as my body may change these eyes are for keeps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
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Yes I think you can read into eyes, maybe not to that extent yet you can definitely tell if the person is lying to you, enjoying or rather to be somewhere else .. after that I guess it's all in the attitude of that person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"compassion/coldness i believe you can see... the more emotive side to a person
So what's the giveaway for either?
im shite at describing stuff lol
believe healthy eyes are clear and moist, have a nice shine to them a glint and glimmer,, they almost smile at you and have a nicer rounder shape
You think mean people can't have clear, bright eyes?
I look for a light
You mean like Cyclops from the X-Men, you like guys who can shoot lasers out of them?
Well yes but I'm more of a wolverine fan really.
Useful if you get itchy.
Have you got cataracts?"
I would lean towards conjunctivitis or perhaps the result of participating in civil-unrest. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Eyes are commonly mentioned when it comes too attraction, especially as many believe you can tell a lot about a person just by looking at them.
So what I want to ask is, what do you look for in a persons eyes, what do they tell you? Can you tell if the owner is intelligent or stupid, compassionate or cold, exciting or boring, hard or soft just by looking into those eyes?
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Just had a meet with a woman in Mensa - thought she wanted to suck my dick. Turns out, she wanted to fuck my cock.
How wrong was I |
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I'll go fetch a bucket, lol
