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bullshiting timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

what is it with guys who after chatting to ladies on here and there are lots of lovley sexy looking ladies bring up the subject of meeting arrange a date and time BUT DONT TURN UP! if you have no intention of meeting any body dont chat about it ffs leave it to guys who do want to genuinly meet ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some aren't genuine. Some are, but have lost interest. Some are put off by something and want to avoid confrontation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Simple....they are often married (so not really single....just cheating). Something crops up at home or Mrs needs to go shopping etc.....

Also loads of dreamers.

That's why more n more women and coup,es totally avoid guys who can't accomodate....regardless of the bullpooh explanations they give as the reason for not accommodating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Simple....they are often married (so not really single....just cheating). Something crops up at home or Mrs needs to go shopping etc.....

Also loads of dreamers.

That's why more n more women and coup,es totally avoid guys who can't accomodate....regardless of the bullpooh explanations they give as the reason for not accommodating."

I don't think it's always down to the male. I've been let down and I'm pretty sure it's down to lack of interest. It's impolite to not say, but doesn't mean they're married or not genuine.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why do the actions and behaviour of others irritate you so much OP ?

Wouldn't it be better to concentrate on your own ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what is it with guys who after chatting to ladies on here and there are lots of lovley sexy looking ladies bring up the subject of meeting arrange a date and time BUT DONT TURN UP! if you have no intention of meeting any body dont chat about it ffs leave it to guys who do want to genuinly meet ladies."

A white knight post. Is it a subject of concern to you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some aren't genuine. Some are, but have lost interest. Some are put off by something and want to avoid confrontation. "

I guess some change their minds but don't want to say for fear of abuse back. I always think it must be quite daunting for a single lady to meet a guy from here which is why I prefer a social meet first. If they can't meet for a drink then they probably won't meet for more. Who knows why people do it but life is more important than this and we will never know what goes on in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish the white knights would stop galloping around the forums. The stench of horse shit makes me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do the actions and behaviour of others irritate you so much OP ?

Wouldn't it be better to concentrate on your own ?

This is the first question that popped into my head?

If you're a positive and genuine single male who makes the right efforts you don't need to worry about the others really, I'd suggest?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do the actions and behaviour of others irritate you so much OP ?

Wouldn't it be better to concentrate on your own ?

This is the first question that popped into my head?

If you're a positive and genuine single male who makes the right efforts you don't need to worry about the others really, I'd suggest?"

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I wish the white knights would stop galloping around the forums. The stench of horse shit makes me

The bullshit is reeking too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry you got stood up but whining about it on the forum doesn't help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry you got stood up but whining about it on the forum doesn't help your cause.

I can't work out if the op has been stood up or is moaning about guys doing it to others. I actually thought the op was female to start with looking at the profile photo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Getting stood up on this site is a fact of life...it happens...it is no big deal...move on...there is someone that will be willing to meet up...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually thought the op was female to start with looking at the profile photo

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By *riskygazMan over a year ago

birmingham

I would go along with a lot of them being married and need to come up with a reason for going out, the wife probably puts her foot down and says you are not going anywhere lol.

I am a good boy I have never stood any women up

just wish a few more of them wanted to meet me lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do the actions and behaviour of others irritate you so much OP ?

Because if you assume all women tar all men with the same brush it provides it indemnifies you for your own lack of success.

And many men are guilty of it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No other man has an impact on how I use this site, so if a guy fails to turn up for a meet with a lady, how can that impact on me? She won't meet me because she was let down by another man? I don't think so! She would meet me based on my merits not on some other guys failings. It's too easy to blame others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't be negative.

Innit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not turning up is beyond the pale. I have traveled some miles to visit by arrangement only to ring the doorbell and no answer. Bad form

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not turning up is beyond the pale. I have traveled some miles to visit by arrangement only to ring the doorbell and no answer. Bad form"

Better than an old Indian man who can't speak English answering the door.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Not turning up is beyond the pale. I have traveled some miles to visit by arrangement only to ring the doorbell and no answer. Bad form"

And bad planning!

Why put yourself out if you're not 100% sure of the outcome?

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By *onbons_xxMan over a year ago

Bolton

Comes with the territory sometimes maybe. You do what you can, i wouldn't worry too much if they didn't turn up, so long as any sensible pre-planning took place. It would be annoying but not within your control as no-one can make anyone actually turn up 100%, so wouldn't fester too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

usually the kik/whatsapp/skype adders don't wanna meet, they just want pics or cam sex so i don't add anyone to them now, don't even have those apps any more.

there's way more guys who will turn up than won't do so it doesn't matter really, unless you can hardly meet and have to prearrange meets and then get let down, that's not on really. i never prearrange meets except for people i've already met before and know will turn up, luckily i can be spontaneous most of the time.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This just sounds to me like bullshitting timewaster must be better at chatting-up the women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services...."

You're like Fab's very own Liam Neeson.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services...."

Please don't get rid of the fools. I like it in here.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services.

You're like Fab's very own Liam Neeson. "

Cheers ,he has a big cock

Off to grab some big cock pics for my profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services...."

Will your methods be organic?

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"2015 is the year I am going to rid the site of time wasters and fools, I am going to hunt them down and hold them prisoner.

This allow the genuine to shag like rabbits.

It is a public service and you will find me in yellow pages under .timewasters investigation and eradication' services...."

Thank ya kindly

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Always best to just worry about how you use the site rather than what other people do. Youll enjoy the site much better that way.

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