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I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are damned if you do/damned if you don't. I have one and it's one of my most fab'ed pictures. I think people have issues when a guy just has cock shots and nothing else. I think it's best to mix it up. |
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My thought are that you can turn yourself inside out trying to please everyone and you end up pleasing no one, plus it`s your profile and you put on what you want, essentially there isn`t any harm in having one in your private pics and then it is there if anyone wants to see it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are damned if you do/damned if you don't. I have one and it's one of my most fab'ed pictures. I think people have issues when a guy just has cock shots and nothing else. I think it's best to mix it up. "
This. I personally like to drum up a bit of chat first and ghem if they send me a pic of their little fella then thats fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies."
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all in the camera angle anyway. We've had what appears to be a good size cock on the profile turn up and what turns up more often than not is less than average.
It does pay to go black though as they do seem to have their attractions |
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
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You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all in the camera angle anyway. We've had what appears to be a good size cock on the profile turn up and what turns up more often than not is less than average.
It does pay to go black though as they do seem to have their attractions "
Funny that because although I don't meet men because of what size they are the ones I thought didn't look very big in their pics looked biger in the flesh or maybe its because they were only semi hard in their pics I don't know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like them personally. But then I'm possibly a bit of a prude compared to some! I'd rather not see one at all, but some chest shots/bum shots are lovely to look at. Everyone's different. I would think don't put them in your profile, but if you get chatting with someone you'll soon get a sense of whether they want to see it or not!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up! "
Maybe a sock puppet?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up!
Maybe a sock puppet?
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What, like the Loch Ness Monster? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up!
Maybe a sock puppet?
What, like the Loch Ness Monster?"
More along the lines of Sooty.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up!
Maybe a sock puppet?
What, like the Loch Ness Monster?
More along the lines of Sooty.
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He's dangerous with his wand! |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'd only agree to a meet once I've seen pictures of the guys cock, face and full body. "
Same here. There is such a thing as a cock that is too small no matter what you try to do with it. Why would I waste time satisfying guys who are too small for me and getting very little out of it myself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd only agree to a meet once I've seen pictures of the guys cock, face and full body.
Same here. There is such a thing as a cock that is too small no matter what you try to do with it. Why would I waste time satisfying guys who are too small for me and getting very little out of it myself?"
Exactly! Minimum 7" with decent girth for me! |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'd only agree to a meet once I've seen pictures of the guys cock, face and full body.
Same here. There is such a thing as a cock that is too small no matter what you try to do with it. Why would I waste time satisfying guys who are too small for me and getting very little out of it myself?
Exactly! Minimum 7" with decent girth for me! "
I don't mind a bit smaller but I have met guys with very small cocks when I forgot to ask beforehand. I tried, but I really got nothing from the meet. And before anyone mentions other methods of making a person cum - I can't cum through oral or fingering unfortunately.
So cock size is actually very important for some of us, not because we are greedy or size Queens but because of what feels good to us and surely that's got to be important too? So we like to know what is on offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up!
Maybe a sock puppet?
What, like the Loch Ness Monster?
More along the lines of Sooty.
He's dangerous with his wand!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies."
My opinion world be no. If someone wants to see a cock picture they can just request one. |
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"Hmmm ...
I've tried to get 'creative' with my cock pics... My attempt attempt at trying to strike a balance  "
Yes this style of pic is good, shows you have one but it's not all angry and pointing in your face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
My opinion world be no. If someone wants to see a cock picture they can just request one."
Forgive me for my confuzzlement at your apparent distaste for images of willies, particularly with the one verification you've displayed is for a profile whose user only shows his cock - impressive in its magnitude it may be...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to see one but only after we've spoken and I think there's a chance of meeting. If I see one on a profile or get sent one in a message I instantly block. I liken it to somebody coming up to me in a bar and saying hey check my cock out.... I wouldn't be impressed!! Lol |
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
My opinion world be no. If someone wants to see a cock picture they can just request one.
Forgive me for my confuzzlement at your apparent distaste for images of willies, particularly with the one verification you've displayed is for a profile whose user only shows his cock - impressive in its magnitude it may be...
X"
Didn't you know. ...preach one thing but do another is the rule on her for ladies. ... |
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
I like creative cock shots.
Something with a prop perhaps?
You'd need to be a BIG fella to need something to prop it up!
Maybe a sock puppet?
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PMSFL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When a man messages me with his member on display I can't help but wonder is it his thinking that upon seeing his cock in the first message I will screech like a banshee and hurl myself at the screen licking it furiously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A while ago I removed all of my cock shots (with the exception of the one showing my full torso) to friends only pics. Yesterday, I moved one back to public gallery.
As someone else said, you can't please all the people all of the time.
Some like to see them, others don't.
I suppose you could consider that if you have one or two on show, those that don't want to see them, don't have to look at them, and at least they are available to those that do.
Or...
You could mention on your profile that you have them available for those that wish to see them, keeping them in Friends only and messaging those who request them. |
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"When a man messages me with his member on display I can't help but wonder is it his thinking that upon seeing his cock in the first message I will screech like a banshee and hurl myself at the screen licking it furiously. "
I never would have thought that but now you mention it, it's a lovely thought.
And, at this time of year, it's the thought that really counts. xxx
Just wonder if a pic of my dial has the same affect. LOL |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I detest cock pics in a first message or as a profile pic. Its not the first thing you show someone in the pub, is it?
And yes I know a bare arse or torso isn't, but more likely than a dick shot.
If you must have one on show, one decent pic in your gallery is all you need. The 25 shots from every angle, close up and from further apart are not required.
But at the end of the day, its your profile, and the choice of pictures does always tell me something about how people view the site. |
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"I currently don't have a cock shot in either my public or private pics. Some people say it's important to have at least one, others say it's a massive turn off. So I'm totally confused as what is best.
Any thoughts, especially from the ladies.
My opinion world be no. If someone wants to see a cock picture they can just request one.
Forgive me for my confuzzlement at your apparent distaste for images of willies, particularly with the one verification you've displayed is for a profile whose user only shows his cock - impressive in its magnitude it may be...
X"
How very observant of you. Way back when I had that meet his profile picture was a body shot.
That is all. |
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