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Has a single man on here i was just thinking that if i never sent a message how long would it be before anyone ever sent a message to me.
This is not about me...i am speaking on behalf of all single men.
The reason behind this thread is that sometimes i think women on here recieve a message from a single guy and think were all desperate to be on fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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read your profile - bit lengthy and repetitive - ok you can drive and like a drink to see if you click - twice mentioned both of these things and i only scanned it - so if your profile is typical of a single man then we wouldnt bother - but we dont anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woman and couples do message. It's just that we don't always have time to do so due to volume of messages received. We have messaged a couple of people in the past. Yeah I know a couple doesn't seem many but men have to really catch our eye for us to message first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has a single man on here i was just thinking that if i never sent a message how long would it be before anyone ever sent a message to me.
This is not about me...i am speaking on behalf of all single men.
The reason behind this thread is that sometimes i think women on here recieve a message from a single guy and think were all desperate to be on fab.
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If you are desperate what am I? |
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Wtf. Has this thread got lost in translation or what?
The op was simply asking...if he never sent a message to anyone, how long would he wait to receive a message off anyone! And to simplify he said he means it for all single men not just him.
Simple enough question and my answer would be,
Id depends how active you are, ie posing meets, status updates etc.
If you simply log on, look for message and log off id hazzard a guess you would almost certainly never receive one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't remember sending a first message to anyone hoping to meet. My initial messages have only ever been regarding something said in a forum.
I do get plenty of messages in my inbox though. Mainly from guys but a fair amount from couples and a few from single ladies.
I guess if you want them to come to find you it helps to dress in such a way that it catches their attention  |
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I have been on fab for a little over 3 years, and in that time, I have received a first message from women twice - which sounds promising, but both were only because they had seen me in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a decent question....and like someone said...a guy is likely to get none. The women are swamped with mail...and probably spend enough time on that. If they are browsing...will they contact a single guy...small chance. Its actually quite hard to do a good profile as I guy..ive had my own business...married in the south pacific...seen the barrier reef...bolloon ride..climbed...do I put all that in a profile..some womens profiles are nearly empty...just rely on pixs if they look ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on fab for a little over 3 years, and in that time, I have received a first message from women twice - which sounds promising, but both were only because they had seen me in the forums."
Same here, one or two because I'm active on the forums...I take it as a good thing lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See no one sends us single men a message lol"
To be fair, you said send the useless desperate single men a message. I messaged the non-desperate, useful men |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I would love to do my own searching and initiate first contact.
Unfortunately most men are so bloody lazy and only have a bloody one liner profile along the lines of 'here for fun' (no shit Sherlock!) and one or two cock pics.
That is never going to engage me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've received plenty of opening messages from couples and ladies.
It's about attitude, approach and personality - trust me I'm nothing special in the physical looks department (expect for my 12 inch cock).
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Single (that autospelt as 'shingle'  ) men do ok on here.
If they didn't message to initiate then they'd just have to join in through other means. Otherwise it'd be pretty quiet.
Trust the women's/couple's judgement to seek out those they're interested in though.  |
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