I have to say I've just received a very nice "no thanks" which tbh made my day. It's nice to start the year off right 
So many lovely and amazing people here. When I'm back on here properly later this month I'm filled with hope
Happy new year everyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have never had a tirade when we say no thanks. The only time we had any issues was when a man went along with the idea of a mmfm in several messages and then started saying my lady was a slut for fucking other men. That ended abruptly; but i do wonder what he thought about those he had met.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone says hi in a message n the profile isn't for me i delete the message, but if its a sentence I will send the 'not for me, happy swinging'. I've had a few moan, but block without reply. Some profiles where its a decent message I suggest they update or do the interests part n let them know what's the turn off, none have been offended yet with my honesty. Sometimes I have let rip back if they've been too rude for my liking then i block.
Happy Swinging New Year 2015 xx |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I would actually say most of the ex swingers that I have know are friends that I haven't had full sex with maybe oral or fingers
A few I have but and a few wouldn't because they don't okay with guys, and they have said that I am a nice guy but they just have sex with singles I am friends with them 10 year later, and I know I could call.
It's funny as I often think of a certain person who wouldn't have sex with me even though I fanciedtge pants of her. Then one night in a club she turnt round and sex ffs fuck my cunt....I was like ok, but the little man didn't agree lol......we laughed about in since
I think the scene can be situational, there has been times when I have wanted to play with someone and it hasn't happened then out of the blue at a social I have been invited to play.
But being gracious in someone saying no is good manners, and in this scene that's all you can have |
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Id rather have a no thanks than nothing at all. If i get a no thanks im always polite about it, have never ever gone into tirade.
Worst no thanks i ever had was a single female who had posted a meet saying something along the lines off "home alone, need some sex" or words to that effect. Generally i avoid women with this sort of status but as she had posted a meet aswell (and had veri to prove genuine) i gave it a shot. I sent a very nice polite message saying i was available, i didnt live that far, i could travel, be prompt etc.
The responce was along the lines of "im lonely not desperate so fuck off fat bastard"
Even at that point i didnt tirade. Simple delete and block.
The nicest knock bad i had was a couple i had messaged. They responded with thanking me for taking the time to message, thanking me for sending a decent message not cut and paste, thanking me for showing interest. Thanking me for offering to meet. Thanking me for just about everything and then finished with "unfortunately you are not for us"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do hear the stories of people becoming abusive but can never understand why people would be like that...at least it shows what they are like though at an early stage!
Happy New Year all"
There's been quite a few women lately bragging about how rude they are in replies on here. 
Nice one OP, there are some nice people around. |
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"I do hear the stories of people becoming abusive but can never understand why people would be like that...at least it shows what they are like though at an early stage!
Happy New Year all
There's been quite a few women lately bragging about how rude they are in replies on here.
Nice one OP, there are some nice people around. "
I've come across some of the rude ones. One woman replied calling me a fat little scumbag who has no chance on here lol. But I come across really nice people who say no politely
I just take the positives and forget the negatives |
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so good to see a single man starting a positive thread abut being rejected. Happy New Year to you too and hope you're ok x