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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Standard/preferences"
I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?
Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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""Standard/preferences"
I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?
Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?
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Nope. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, absolutely.
It's highly unlikely that any one person will fit perfectly with all one's standrads/desires etc.
And usually, if they're so "perfect" their not so nice to know.
As an old Chinese proverb says* "The Willow tree bends with the wind".
*In Cantonese or Mandarin of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ? |
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"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ? "
it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ?
it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then. "
Yes I agree with you... |
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"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ?
it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then.
Yes I agree with you... "
Mine aren't so specific that they include hair colour but the preferences I do have are not open to compromise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, absolutely.
It's highly unlikely that any one person will fit perfectly with all one's standrads/desires etc.
And usually, if they're so "perfect" their not so nice to know.
As an old Chinese proverb says* "The Willow tree bends with the wind".
*In Cantonese or Mandarin of course. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally."
thank you this is what I meant... ones must have preferences but they can change according to the person they meet, I'd like to think so ... |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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Date... Yes. Bugs was not what my I would have said my 'preference' was at the time yet here we are together years later.
Meet... Yes. But only if there is a certain something that makes me want to, or if I actually can flex to it. Our first social and soon to be first meet I turned away with a thanks but no thanks, and his response peaked my interest and changed my mind.
I think you have to be open to the idea that your preferences are just that but not exclusions to all other possibilities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Standard/preferences"
I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?
Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?
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Yes |
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"Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally.
thank you this is what I meant... ones must have preferences but they can change according to the person they meet, I'd like to think so ..."
I would agree if we were looking for life partners but we're not, we're looking for no strings sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Date... Yes. Bugs was not what my I would have said my 'preference' was at the time yet here we are together years later.
Meet... Yes. But only if there is a certain something that makes me want to, or if I actually can flex to it. Our first social and soon to be first meet I turned away with a thanks but no thanks, and his response peaked my interest and changed my mind.
I think you have to be open to the idea that your preferences are just that but not exclusions to all other possibilities "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope im a stubborn bitch I spent first 18 months trying lots of different preferences lol and the last 18months ive swayed to one major preference and not gone out of that paticular preference since May this year.Im a woman that knows what she wants and thats that 
There is a clue in my name  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind. "
I've put a tape measure in my shag bag for our next club visit, I'll personally check for you and if they're under height, I'll shag them instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind.
I've put a tape measure in my shag bag for our next club visit, I'll personally check for you and if they're under height, I'll shag them instead "
Any chance i'd get away with bending my knees somewhat?
Then stand erect again.
Everyone love's a bogof.
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