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over a year ago
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Cant imagine couples to do this to be fair but you never know..
When your chatting via online messages to someone who lives miles and miles away, your both totally aware a senario is very unlikely to happen, yet you still go along with it because for those few moments it feels like your not alone and its nice to be appriciated/wanted/craved/desired etc..
like your in a bubble, ignorant to the real world but it feels nice? |
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over a year ago
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet. "
Thats why its fiction, bit like getting lost in a real time book.. you know its not real but the concept and idea is nice in theory
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
Thats why its fiction, bit like getting lost in a real time book.. you know its not real but the concept and idea is nice in theory
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until it all goes tits up
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
Thats why its fiction, bit like getting lost in a real time book.. you know its not real but the concept and idea is nice in theory
until it all goes tits up
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but thats the beauty of it,, your both totally aware its not real
an example 'wish i had someone to cuddle up to at night'
then someone sends a reply back describing in detail how they would hold you, feeling their body heat against yours etc..
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
Thats why its fiction, bit like getting lost in a real time book.. you know its not real but the concept and idea is nice in theory
until it all goes tits up
but thats the beauty of it,, your both totally aware its not real
an example 'wish i had someone to cuddle up to at night'
then someone sends a reply back describing in detail how they would hold you, feeling their body heat against yours etc..
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so what happens when one party doesn't want to play the game anymore?
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
Thats why its fiction, bit like getting lost in a real time book.. you know its not real but the concept and idea is nice in theory
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I agree. Had some great and sexy chats on here with people that are miles away. Its never going to happen but the fantasy and being wanted is nice. X |
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"I don't deal in fiction. If a meet isn't arranged within a few messages then I'm not interested. I used to cyber and chat years ago so the novelty wore off then."
this |
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"Cant imagine couples to do this to be fair but you never know..
When your chatting via online messages to someone who lives miles and miles away, your both totally aware a senario is very unlikely to happen, yet you still go along with it because for those few moments it feels like your not alone and its nice to be appriciated/wanted/craved/desired etc..
like your in a bubble, ignorant to the real world but it feels nice?"
There are a few men we chat like this with. It can be a very pleasant diversion. |
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet. "
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cant imagine couples to do this to be fair but you never know..
When your chatting via online messages to someone who lives miles and miles away, your both totally aware a senario is very unlikely to happen, yet you still go along with it because for those few moments it feels like your not alone and its nice to be appriciated/wanted/craved/desired etc..
like your in a bubble, ignorant to the real world but it feels nice?"
Yes couples do it too, all groups. It's not for everyone but it works for some.
It's great if both parties know it's just fantasy. Some people think it's real and the 'fakes/ timewasters' tag comes up... |
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
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I didn't say you couldnt chat to people, i have talked to lots of people I will never meet. What I can't see is the point of wanting to feel desired by someone your never going to meet seems a completely pointless exercise
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
I didn't say you couldnt chat to people, i have talked to lots of people I will never meet. What I can't see is the point of wanting to feel desired by someone your never going to meet seems a completely pointless exercise
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Lots do though, hence the endless forum flirting/ love ins/ kiss fuck pass etc etc threads. |
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
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I agree with you iconic. In the past I have chatted and calmed etc with guys I knew I would never meet. It was fun, it scratched an itch at the time. Being desired by someone you have a connection with, even online only is nice at times.
I can imagine that if it went in too long then complications could creep in such as wanting yo move a situation on further but not being able to or not letting someone else into your life because you have become too involved in your online fantany etc. |
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
I didn't say you couldnt chat to people, i have talked to lots of people I will never meet. What I can't see is the point of wanting to feel desired by someone your never going to meet seems a completely pointless exercise
Lots do though, hence the endless forum flirting/ love ins/ kiss fuck pass etc etc threads. "
and then the to common public fall outs which are always fun to watch  |
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"Would be a bit pointless time, can't see the point in being desired by someone your never going to meet.
I don't agree with this, so you think that people can only chat if they are definitely going to meet?
This is cyberland, it can be whatever you want it to be. It doesn't have to be serious, it can be fleeting, it can be totally selfish etc etc.
Im personally not into private messaging, I prefer the interaction in cyberland of a lot of people, hence why I enjoy the forum, but I think it can be fun for others
I didn't say you couldnt chat to people, i have talked to lots of people I will never meet. What I can't see is the point of wanting to feel desired by someone your never going to meet seems a completely pointless exercise
Lots do though, hence the endless forum flirting/ love ins/ kiss fuck pass etc etc threads. and then the to common public fall outs which are always fun to watch "
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Many people get a kick out of being desired by others whom they have no interest in meeting, whether they do so in private message, on the forum, in the chat and directing rooms etc. It can certainly be an immense thrill, it isn't serious and many just accept it fir what it is.
Whether you talk to people intimately by private message, whether you get a thrill out of taking photos and displaying different ones regularly, whether you are hooked on fabbed pictures and getting on the hot pics thingy, whether you constantly post threads in order to be noticed, whether you put a show on cam in the directing rooms, whether you build an online persona which you believe others will be attracted to and play up to that, whether you get a thrill out of becoming 'most gorgeous female / male in forum awards etc etc. Many of us enjoy some kind of adoration and on the whole its harmless, online fun.
There can be a time when it gives slightly awry and can become hurtful and destructive. |
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