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What the ???? (thread closed by moderator) explain!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok can the moderator that closed the thread
tonight might just slip by explain what the problem was/is??
privately if need be
Can't see any rules broken??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it might be because we're only getting one side of the story. There was probably nothing more constructive to be said and with people suggesting that they could know who the woman was it was probably seen to be getting rather unfair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Correct Angel. Xxx |
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I can guess why this one will likely follow.... if that's any help. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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The explanation why the thread was closed is at the end of it!
Don't see why a further explanation is needed tbh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the thread had run it's course and as said, it was kinda one sided, so I think no harm was done by closing it and no there weren't really any benefits to keeping it open. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The explanation why the thread was closed is at the end of it!
Don't see why a further explanation is needed tbh! "
presume : ok this is just one side of a story and it is another member you are talking about.
I would report the person involved incase there has been a pattern of the same thing.
Is what's being referanced here. Ok box time!
1-Not named & won't
2-wouldn't expect public airing when won't even reply to me!
3-not reporting as I don't know her side either
4-yes it's my side only but to be fair Im saying it as it is & I know it's my word - I value honesty & don't like the implied bias
5-I understand the constructive banter may be at an end but isn't a chat forum exactly that - a chat forum NOT an analysis & review page.
6-personally I have gainned a bit of support & understanding from what members have said privately & openly. If someone else can benifit from my mistake great
if a moderator closes a forum maybe they should have a facility to anonymously mail the OP or offender the reason!
Goes back to manners & knowing why someone acts that way!!!
(((HE RAISES HIS VOICE)))
THE WHOLE REASON I GOT PISSED OFF IN THE FIRST INSTANCE!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you posted and you got a of 'deserved' sympathy.
now you are just bleating and throwing your toys out your pram.
move on.
ps, you mentioned a local couple, go meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're really not doing yourself any favours now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to be honest here and I'm not taking anybodys side, but I have seen similar 'one sided' threads which have run a lot longer than this one was allowed to do ..
I think sometimes it depends uopn who poats the thread .....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too loud man! Now this just makes you appear to have obsessive tendencies and anger management issues! Let it go. Xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take it you have not really absorbed some of the good advice that have been said in the other thread.
Move on, and put it behind you.
Keep droning on about it makes you really needy and desparate, and very unattractive! Sorry!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're really not doing yourself any favours now."
fair enough & I do appreciate the comment. 
Just wound up lol
anyway it's a lovely day & I want to enjoy it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So stop acting like a dog with a bone, get over it and move on.
Enjoy your afternoon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meow meow bleat bleat! But no wuff wuff any more hehehehe
rant over lol
off to pick up my hand bag, dummy & missing toys!!!  |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"if a moderator closes a forum maybe they should have a facility to anonymously mail the OP or offender the reason!
Goes back to manners & knowing why someone acts that way!!!
(((HE RAISES HIS VOICE)))
THE WHOLE REASON I GOT PISSED OFF IN THE FIRST INSTANCE!!!!!!
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As I said in my post, which you quoted, the answer was already given why the thread was closed so there was and is no need for you to get a mail from anyone to give you the same reason again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well noone ever said this was a democracy.
Like it or not mods can do what they want to who they want without reason.
And they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a very generalised and uncalled for statement 'England'
Mod's are here for a reason, this thread being a good example!
Paddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you have not really absorbed some of the good advice that have been said in the other thread.
Move on, and put it behind you.
Keep droning on about it makes you really needy and desparate, and very unattractive! Sorry! "
That was my impression from the original post.
The OP does appear desperate and needy: not the type of person you want to encounter swinging.
Whilst I did feel a small grain of sympathy with the original post, I don't with this whine feast: very unattractive indeed.
Draw a line, let it go and move on before you put others of meeting you! |
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
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Isnt this all getting alittle out of hand?!??!
Why dont we all just let it go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moderator explained fairly and clearly the reasons and I agree with them.
This thread is spurious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it you have not really absorbed some of the good advice that have been said in the other thread.
Move on, and put it behind you.
Keep droning on about it makes you really needy and desparate, and very unattractive! Sorry! "
Drone...... love that word.... one of mine that is ......hawwwwww x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very generalised and uncalled for statement 'England'
Mod's are here for a reason, this thread being a good example!
Paddy"
Not at all, it's the truth, never said there was anything wrong with it. It's their site, their forum, their rules.
Wasn't uncalled for or general. Was a clear explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very generalised and uncalled for statement 'England'
Mod's are here for a reason, this thread being a good example!
Paddy
Not at all, it's the truth, never said there was anything wrong with it. It's their site, their forum, their rules.
Wasn't uncalled for or general. Was a clear explanation."
It's NOT their site. They operate under the guidance of the site owners im pretty sure. Im also sure they'd be answerable if they became meglomaniacs..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a very generalised and uncalled for statement 'England'
Mod's are here for a reason, this thread being a good example!
Paddy
Not at all, it's the truth, never said there was anything wrong with it. It's their site, their forum, their rules.
Wasn't uncalled for or general. Was a clear explanation.
It's NOT their site. They operate under the guidance of the site owners im pretty sure. Im also sure they'd be answerable if they became meglomaniacs..... "
Ok fair enough, a small distinction. My point is still valid though - they are here operating under some guidelines and rules and we must obey those rules. regardless of our views as to the fairness of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is it not possible for an op to delete their own thread? someone may have had a situation explained to them or may have asked (in their mind) a honest question only to be ridiculed or insulted.
i'm not talking about this thread as we think he went on too long about it,but if the mod can end a thread why can't the op? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"is it not possible for an op to delete their own thread? someone may have had a situation explained to them or may have asked (in their mind) a honest question only to be ridiculed or insulted.
i'm not talking about this thread as we think he went on too long about it,but if the mod can end a thread why can't the op?"
They can report their own thread and ask for it to be removed, then it is up to Admin or a Mod to remove it if they see a valid reason for doing so. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Ok can the moderator that closed the thread
tonight might just slip by explain what the problem was/is??
privately if need be
Can't see any rules broken??
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If you read the explanation I gave on the end of the thread you will see I explained.
No more explanation needed.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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PS this one is getting shut now. If you wanted a private explanation as well, you could have mailed the mod concerned and I could have mailed you with the same explanation. |
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