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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...   "
And they say romance is dead...............not at all! |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong... And they say romance is dead...............not at all!"
I think I'm just a picky fucker lol....I'll get over it shortly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm feeling incredibly turned on this morning, and am probably gonna have to bring myself to climax for a little relief - whilst this will no doubt feel great, it still seems a terrible waste of the inevitable explosion of hot white semen, that really should be over or inside a beautiful woman to be fully savoured. |
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"stay positive - think how good its gonna be when you have the next one  Sx
I know the poor fucker "
Been there. I was celibate for over a year and when that freight train hit (and believe me it HIT) an old friend helped me out. His face was a picture when I'd finished with him. Couldn't get away quick enough. I scared the heck outta the poor guy. He got over it tho and helps me out quite often these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong... "
Try a year! Plus your beautiful, so I'm surprised by that! |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...
Try a year! Plus your beautiful, so I'm surprised by that!"
Cheers for the compliment....but even beautiful people go without  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...
Try a year! Plus your beautiful, so I'm surprised by that!
Cheers for the compliment....but even beautiful people go without "
True that! If I had a chance to meet you I would be there like a bolt!
Hopefully your dry spell runs out soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once my cold has gone and the grandchildren are back to school I'm going to seriously get it (his words) from one of my regular partners. I'm a little scared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell when it hits you....it hits you like a bloody freight train...just saying  "
I feel your pain lol. If only we were closer and help each other out. X |
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Long weekend? 4 months? Pah, amateurs! We've had sex approximately 3 times in the last 16 months!!! (yes, we're married and yes, sex together!) Oh the shame!
No one warns you about the impact a child will have on your relationship (or tired levels lol)
*Her* |
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I haven't met anyone since the World of Warcraft expansion came out....
Not related honest .
I've stuck a met up for tonight, but if I don't hear owt within the next hour, I'm going to play wow instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated."
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't had sex since September...I'm like a fusion reactor of pent up sexual intensity..."
Fusion Reactors only 'last' for a few seconds at best.......but we are working on it.
10x hotter than the Sun in the vessel though
I know....... I work in Nuclear Fusion research
Don't tell anyone coz it's a secret...
Sorry for the swerve... Carry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't had sex since September...I'm like a fusion reactor of pent up sexual intensity...
Fusion Reactors only 'last' for a few seconds at best.......but we are working on it.
10x hotter than the Sun in the vessel though
I know....... I work in Nuclear Fusion research
Don't tell anyone coz it's a secret...
Sorry for the swerve... Carry on"
The analogy still holds true as I probably wouldn't last very long lol, but oh what a spoonful of sugar those moments would be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't had sex since September...I'm like a fusion reactor of pent up sexual intensity...
Fusion Reactors only 'last' for a few seconds at best.......but we are working on it.
10x hotter than the Sun in the vessel though
I know....... I work in Nuclear Fusion research
Don't tell anyone coz it's a secret...
Sorry for the swerve... Carry on
The analogy still holds true as I probably wouldn't last very long lol, but oh what a spoonful of sugar those moments would be "
I did think that, but didn't like to say lol
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday "
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated."
Yes. imagine if a single man would do a similar thread, I think the responses might be difernt lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A"
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The hell is wrong with half you people......go get laid! Ffs......it ain't that difficult......
It is, cos I can't be arsed to move off my sofa (due to beer, food and films) and so the only sexual gratification I can be bothered with at the mo, is a wank  "
I don't have those issues....don't own a telly, on a diet so not eating much and don't particularly drink alot. That plus a wank isn't overly appealing......
Think I'll stay old school and try find a lady to pop it in |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game "
 Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me!"
When supply (single males) exceeds demand (by single women), the price (acceptable standard of single male) goes up - make sense now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The hell is wrong with half you people......go get laid! Ffs......it ain't that difficult......
It bloody is! "
Well.....I can't help you there I'm afraid
You may just have to wait till someone to your liking shows up.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
wouldnt be the proudest thing ever, but some have d*unken one night stands and use the excuse 'oh i was d*unk' to validate their piss poor choice in men/women
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me!
When supply (single males) exceeds demand (by single women), the price (acceptable standard of single male) goes up - make sense now?"
Just because we may have more choice, doesn't mean it is any easier to find someone your attracted to and compatible with |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The hell is wrong with half you people......go get laid! Ffs......it ain't that difficult......
It bloody is!
Well.....I can't help you there I'm afraid
You may just have to wait till someone to your liking shows up..... "
I am aware of that I'm afraid, not holding my breath though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch.."
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
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I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game "
Everyone can 'afford' to have high standards - it's just some choose not to.
The reason nobody pipes up with 'seriously' remarks when men say they haven't had sex for ages is simple.
Women generally don't shove virtual tongues up peoples arses on forum threads in the vain hope of getting noticed and increasing their chances of getting a meet.
As for the numbers game? For the gazillionth time - a guy could be one of only ten males on the site with thousands of females and couples. If none were interested or attracted to him he'd still get no meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak?"
exactly.. if i was starving id be grateful of anything.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak?"
I'd rather have steak but would bite your hand off for the bread...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak?
exactly.. if i was starving id be grateful of anything.. "
You know as well as I do though that a lot of folk on here wouldn't admit to lowering their standards ay times of need......wouldn't want to appear desperate now would they....... |
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong... "
maybe u need to make a bigger effort or be less fussy..im sure u could get laid if u really wanted to ,theses enough guys on here and out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Everyone can 'afford' to have high standards - it's just some choose not to.
The reason nobody pipes up with 'seriously' remarks when men say they haven't had sex for ages is simple.
Women generally don't shove virtual tongues up peoples arses on forum threads in the vain hope of getting noticed and increasing their chances of getting a meet.
As for the numbers game? For the gazillionth time - a guy could be one of only ten males on the site with thousands of females and couples. If none were interested or attracted to him he'd still get no meets.
A"
Are you sure of the women don't shove virtual tongues up mens asses to get noticed..jeez A one canny be so naive as a reg forumite surely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak?
I'd rather have steak but would bite your hand off for the bread......"
im in the boat where the less i have of sex the less i care about getting it. Its not everything to me, id masturbate to sort the short term relief and if i needed more id seek out what i want.
Enough males on here for a female to get some sort of action regardless of the standards required.. just depends on how much effort a person is willing to put into getting it..
if they cant find anything they arent that in need of it or arent trying hard enough to make the effort in getting it.
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...
maybe u need to make a bigger effort or be less fussy..im sure u could get laid if u really wanted to ,theses enough guys on here and out there"
I'm sure I can.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The hell is wrong with half you people......go get laid! Ffs......it ain't that difficult......
It bloody is!
Well.....I can't help you there I'm afraid
You may just have to wait till someone to your liking shows up.....
I am aware of that I'm afraid, not holding my breath though "
I wouldn't.....your likely to pass out before someone turns up in all honesty....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me!
When supply (single males) exceeds demand (by single women), the price (acceptable standard of single male) goes up - make sense now?
Just because we may have more choice, doesn't mean it is any easier to find someone your attracted to and compatible with "
Maybe, but on the plus side at least you can either:
A. Open your inbox and see what offers you've got
B. Browse the site and have a look yourself, with the confidence that, because single males rarely have more than a couple/handful of messages to read at any one time, if you write them one it'll probably be read - there're no guarantees that they'll respond of course, but at least you have the benefit of their attention as an individual for a moment, as opposed to being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Everyone can 'afford' to have high standards - it's just some choose not to.
The reason nobody pipes up with 'seriously' remarks when men say they haven't had sex for ages is simple.
Women generally don't shove virtual tongues up peoples arses on forum threads in the vain hope of getting noticed and increasing their chances of getting a meet.
As for the numbers game? For the gazillionth time - a guy could be one of only ten males on the site with thousands of females and couples. If none were interested or attracted to him he'd still get no meets.
A
Are you sure of the women don't shove virtual tongues up mens asses to get noticed..jeez A one canny be so naive as a reg forumite surely "
I did say 'generally'.
And certainly nowhere near the extent that guys do.
There'll always be exceptions!
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The closest ive come to any sexual activity in the last 4 months (close to my record of abstinence) is having my ex stop the night so she could wake up christmas morning with our son and all I got was a glimpse of her nipples and a cuddle which has made sexual frustration whack me in the face like the sharp side of a cricket bat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Everyone can 'afford' to have high standards - it's just some choose not to.
The reason nobody pipes up with 'seriously' remarks when men say they haven't had sex for ages is simple.
Women generally don't shove virtual tongues up peoples arses on forum threads in the vain hope of getting noticed and increasing their chances of getting a meet.
As for the numbers game? For the gazillionth time - a guy could be one of only ten males on the site with thousands of females and couples. If none were interested or attracted to him he'd still get no meets.
A
Are you sure of the women don't shove virtual tongues up mens asses to get noticed..jeez A one canny be so naive as a reg forumite surely
I did say 'generally'.
And certainly nowhere near the extent that guys do.
There'll always be exceptions!
A"
oh theres lots of exceptions....lots |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...
Try a year! Plus your beautiful, so I'm surprised by that!
Cheers for the compliment....but even beautiful people go without "
You look gorgeous in your pictures........is everyone near you mad not wanting to meet you. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Everyone can 'afford' to have high standards - it's just some choose not to."
And do you think there's any actual basis for those standards or do people just pull them out of their arses with no justification?
"The reason nobody pipes up with 'seriously' remarks when men say they haven't had sex for ages is simple.
Women generally don't shove virtual tongues up peoples arses on forum threads in the vain hope of getting noticed and increasing their chances of getting a meet"
So women have more pride and self worth then - why do you think this is?
"As for the numbers game? For the gazillionth time - a guy could be one of only ten males on the site with thousands of females and couples. If none were interested or attracted to him he'd still get no meets."
But the fact that he'd at least stand a chance of getting their attention means that he could tailor his approach in a more effective way, thus raising his chances of meeting people he's interested in, rather than failing simply because they're too busy dealing with (or deleting) another slew of would be suitors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i was absolutely gagging for a shag like some make out they are.. id drop my standards and get one just to cure the itch..
When you're ravenous would you rather have a piece of bread or a steak?
I'd rather have steak but would bite your hand off for the bread......
im in the boat where the less i have of sex the less i care about getting it. Its not everything to me, id masturbate to sort the short term relief and if i needed more id seek out what i want.
Enough males on here for a female to get some sort of action regardless of the standards required.. just depends on how much effort a person is willing to put into getting it..
if they cant find anything they arent that in need of it or arent trying hard enough to make the effort in getting it.
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I dont get overly frustrated tbh.....a wank will clear it for me easily enough, I'm just lucky enough not to have to go searching to hard to find sex...(you know my situation with certain things)
But yes....I agree......there is someone for everyone on here if they can be arsed..
Suppose it comes down one thing....when the frustration outweighs the effort, they'll go find someone to fuck |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm heading into about my 4th month of not having a shag...land I'm on fab I mean what's going wrong...
Try a year! Plus your beautiful, so I'm surprised by that!
Cheers for the compliment....but even beautiful people go without
You look gorgeous in your pictures........is everyone near you mad not wanting to meet you. X "
It's not a case of people not wanting to meet me...it's a case that I might actually not want to meet them. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with."
Takes us (and I suspect many others!) seconds to decide which messages to instantly delete.
Like many we _iew the profile first - so 90% of messages won't even get read. We are fully able to decide that someone isn't for us by their profile without having to read a message.
Hence the speed you refer to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with.
Takes us (and I suspect many others!) seconds to decide which messages to instantly delete.
Like many we _iew the profile first - so 90% of messages won't even get read. We are fully able to decide that someone isn't for us by their profile without having to read a message.
Hence the speed you refer to.
A"
Unlikely given that the example I gave is typically attributed to site newcomers who have probably not worked out how to stealth browse yet - and yet don't show up in 'who's _iewed my profile' - so no, they probably didn't _iew my profile. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The fact that so many guys leap in with the 'seriously?! Guys must be mad around your area!' whenever a woman says she hasn't had sex in a while, whereas a single male is met with complete ignorance for saying the same, pretty much sums up why so many guys are so sexually frustrated.
Stop over thinking things....it's Sunday
Or maybe it's because the women have higher standards and would rather go without than settle for less?
A
I suppose they can afford to have high standards when so favoured by the numbers game
Sorry but that doesn't make sense to me!
When supply (single males) exceeds demand (by single women), the price (acceptable standard of single male) goes up - make sense now?
Just because we may have more choice, doesn't mean it is any easier to find someone your attracted to and compatible with
Maybe, but on the plus side at least you can either:
A. Open your inbox and see what offers you've got
B. Browse the site and have a look yourself, with the confidence that, because single males rarely have more than a couple/handful of messages to read at any one time, if you write them one it'll probably be read - there're no guarantees that they'll respond of course, but at least you have the benefit of their attention as an individual for a moment, as opposed to being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with."
I think some people are terribly naïve on here.
I would easily contact men on here who interest me, unfortunately that pool is very very small, if you were to look at what is on offer in my area and how the men have gone to the effort of having a 1 liner profile that basically says, 'here, looking for fun' with the obligatory cock shot, how on earth could I possibly resist them?
Or the daily status messages about 'need someone to suck my cock before 3pm' hey, I'm with you there, I am totally spoilt for choice!  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with.
Takes us (and I suspect many others!) seconds to decide which messages to instantly delete.
Like many we _iew the profile first - so 90% of messages won't even get read. We are fully able to decide that someone isn't for us by their profile without having to read a message.
Hence the speed you refer to.
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Unlikely given that the example I gave is typically attributed to site newcomers who have probably not worked out how to stealth browse yet - and yet don't show up in 'who's _iewed my profile' - so no, they probably didn't _iew my profile."
Or maybe they did.
Who knows! 
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"I would easily contact men on here who interest me, unfortunately that pool is very very small, if you were to look at what is on offer in my area and how the men have gone to the effort of having a 1 liner profile that basically says, 'here, looking for fun' with the obligatory cock shot, how on earth could I possibly resist them?
Or the daily status messages about 'need someone to suck my cock before 3pm' hey, I'm with you there, I am totally spoilt for choice! "
If you go back and read what I said, you'll see I've already covered this.
I too find there are very few people here I find attractive enough to want to message, and that 'cock sucking before 3pm' remark, rest assured I see plenty of similar things in womens profiles on here that are equally off putting to me - the difference is that when either of us DO find someone we want to message on here, the chances of you successfully making contact with your choice, as opposed to me mine, is vastly in your favour. |
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"being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with.
Takes us (and I suspect many others!) seconds to decide which messages to instantly delete.
Like many we _iew the profile first - so 90% of messages won't even get read. We are fully able to decide that someone isn't for us by their profile without having to read a message.
Hence the speed you refer to.
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Unlikely given that the example I gave is typically attributed to site newcomers who have probably not worked out how to stealth browse yet - and yet don't show up in 'who's _iewed my profile' - so no, they probably didn't _iew my profile.
Or maybe they did.
Who knows!
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Maybe....but probably not. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I would easily contact men on here who interest me, unfortunately that pool is very very small, if you were to look at what is on offer in my area and how the men have gone to the effort of having a 1 liner profile that basically says, 'here, looking for fun' with the obligatory cock shot, how on earth could I possibly resist them?
Or the daily status messages about 'need someone to suck my cock before 3pm' hey, I'm with you there, I am totally spoilt for choice!
If you go back and read what I said, you'll see I've already covered this.
I too find there are very few people here I find attractive enough to want to message, and that 'cock sucking before 3pm' remark, rest assured I see plenty of similar things in womens profiles on here that are equally off putting to me - the difference is that when either of us DO find someone we want to message on here, the chances of you successfully making contact with your choice, as opposed to me mine, is vastly in your favour."
Ok on that note I probably agree with you |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"being met with the yellow wall of ignorance, or instant bulk delete (evidenced by the speed at which they are - not nearly enough time to actually pay proper attention to the message and who wrote it before making your mind up) that single males so often put up with.
Takes us (and I suspect many others!) seconds to decide which messages to instantly delete.
Like many we _iew the profile first - so 90% of messages won't even get read. We are fully able to decide that someone isn't for us by their profile without having to read a message.
Hence the speed you refer to.
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Unlikely given that the example I gave is typically attributed to site newcomers who have probably not worked out how to stealth browse yet - and yet don't show up in 'who's _iewed my profile' - so no, they probably didn't _iew my profile.
Or maybe they did.
Who knows!
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Maybe....but probably not."
If thinking that helps.....crack on.
You seem to be the unluckiest guy on the site with everything working against you. Yet others seem to manage to arrange meets, get messages read and enjoy life on Fab using the same site facilities and functions.
It must be the other people/gender numbers/some bizarre site glitch. What else could it be?
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"I would easily contact men on here who interest me, unfortunately that pool is very very small, if you were to look at what is on offer in my area and how the men have gone to the effort of having a 1 liner profile that basically says, 'here, looking for fun' with the obligatory cock shot, how on earth could I possibly resist them?
Or the daily status messages about 'need someone to suck my cock before 3pm' hey, I'm with you there, I am totally spoilt for choice!
If you go back and read what I said, you'll see I've already covered this.
I too find there are very few people here I find attractive enough to want to message, and that 'cock sucking before 3pm' remark, rest assured I see plenty of similar things in womens profiles on here that are equally off putting to me - the difference is that when either of us DO find someone we want to message on here, the chances of you successfully making contact with your choice, as opposed to me mine, is vastly in your favour.
Ok on that note I probably agree with you "
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If the whole site put as much effort into finding a meet as they do debating opinions, we'd all be kicking back with a cigarette feeling all post coital tomorrow morning.........
Fab swingers? More like mass debaters |
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"Once my cold has gone and the grandchildren are back to school I'm going to seriously get it (his words) from one of my regular partners. I'm a little scared "
I can help you out too If Needed!!!!! |
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