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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

why cant we name and shame the men on here who offer money for sex i did the right think msg adim about the men who keep doing this i had around three this last two days and there still on fab its are joke

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

because a few woman ask for it...

it is a vicious circle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report. Block. Delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well women offer moneis too for sex here lol.

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

Maybe a suitable name and shame thread all by itself , trouble is that would get abused too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'd never seen this before, until the last few days..3 times now..you'd think they'd be too skint this time of year...

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By *xciter7169Man over a year ago

The Midlands

Wish they'd offer me £ for sex 'sigh'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report it, simples. Let admin deal with them.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can't name and shame anyone. You did the right thing by reporting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people have more money than sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If that's the worst a man has done be thankful.

Don't over dramatise what is essentially a minor issue which is easily ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why cant we name and shame the men on here who offer money for sex i did the right think msg adim about the men who keep doing this i had around three this last two days and there still on fab its are joke "
I agree, anyone reported, male or female, who asks for cash should be thrown out the gang. This about fun not prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's not pleasant at all, but if it's not against the rules then it could be treated as another annoyance.

If site rules say that offering money to someone (or in fact asking for money) is not allowed then yes, that should be made prominent and disallowed.

If I were a woman though, I would just block those kinds of people straight away - the site has that functionality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

Result! Am on me way, you've pulled

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

Calls out loudly "admin"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree, anyone reported, male or female, who asks for cash should be thrown out the gang. This about fun not prostitution.

Jane, I do agree of course. However, please keep in mind that due to your gorgeously sexy looks you are in a rare position when you can choose from many, while the vast majority of guys here are just normal people and thus hardly get any attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

Result! Am on me way, you've pulled

Yessss

no salt on the chips mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

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as in. . A dead seabird ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

Me neither. Sometimes all the effort I go to for a meet I do think I cud get paid for this. Lol. With the shaving and the waxing. And the new underwear. Oy. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

as in. . A dead seabird ? "

Oi, I know I'm a bit wind-swept after being out lunch time but I look a bit better than a dead bird

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many women who aren't prostitutes accept the money,how many men offer women who aren't prostitutes?

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By *ngel_38Woman over a year ago

Staffs

If that's the worst a man has done be thankful.

Don't over dramatise what is essentially a minor issue which is easily ignored. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women who aren't prostitutes accept the money,how many men offer women who aren't prostitutes? "

True. Also... depends on if this is a part of a game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It spoils the fun if folks are injecting money. We say report all who do it and let admin deal with them .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

have i tho i know cant name and shame but we no adim do sod all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

as in. . A dead seabird ?

Oi, I know I'm a bit wind-swept after being out lunch time but I look a bit better than a dead bird

"
but that's the look I go for darling . . I also have a soft spot for an oystercatcher

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

but we no adim do sod all "

they will look at it and if action needs to be taken, I am sure they do....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women who aren't prostitutes accept the money,how many men offer women who aren't prostitutes?

True. Also... depends on if this is a part of a game

It's not a game on here. Role play should be discussed beforehand if that's what they want. I was offered money by a man on a Facebook app,I found it disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got a spare thirty bob.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see getting offered money on this site or anywhere else for that matter to be a huge issue . I see it as just another kink for some , as in they get off on paying for sex on a site where it's freely available . It's easy enough to ignore the messages , report if they offend you , block & delete . MrsD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got a spare thirty bob. "

Too late. Accepted an offer of 38p and a bag of chips

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was offered money by a man on a Facebook app,I found it disrespectful "

That's totally disrespectful, especially if done without knowing someone and being sure they'd like the game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got a spare thirty bob.

Too late. Accepted an offer of 38p and a bag of chips

Damnations. I'd been saving up all year

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i been on here year never till this week had it really upset me / pissed me off too this all about fun if this how its going i be off here in no time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got a spare thirty bob.

Too late. Accepted an offer of 38p and a bag of chips

Damnations. I'd been saving up all year "

Keep it safe, it's a new year in just over a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

as in. . A dead seabird ?

Oi, I know I'm a bit wind-swept after being out lunch time but I look a bit better than a dead bird

but that's the look I go for darling . . I also have a soft spot for an oystercatcher"
I,d rather `knot` Go there I,ve done my little stint for today I,d be puffin anymore..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i been on here year never till this week had it really upset me / pissed me off too this all about fun if this how its going i be off here in no time "

Don't let a few numpties spoil the site for you. You've blocked and reported. Try to forget and enjoy as you did before

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got 38p and a bag of chips........what will that get me

A shag

"
Hey, my first name is shag

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"have i tho i know cant name and shame but we no adim do sod all "

Not true. I've reported a few people and action had been taken.

As admin don't tell the reportee what has been done you have no evidence that no action was taken, it's just that the action you wanted might not have been taken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey, no one's ever offered me money

Where am I going wrong

I've got a spare thirty bob.

Too late. Accepted an offer of 38p and a bag of chips

"
What about the Mushy peas..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i do know i seen one on this in chat room thank you very much and he was the first one i reported three hole days ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If that's the worst a man has done be thankful.

Don't over dramatise what is essentially a minor issue which is easily ignored.

Have to disagree i dont think its a minor issue what it is is a major issue which happens infrequently hopefully but i feel should be dealt with by a ban. The offering or asking for money places this site in a position where it doesnt need to be which is prostitition and i think swift action by Admin to stamp this out would allow this site to maintain the credibility it currently enjoys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i been on here year never till this week had it really upset me / pissed me off too this all about fun if this how its going i be off here in no time "
There,s more geninue people on here than bad don,t let it get To you ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i no there is its really getting harder too see the good men

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"i do know i seen one on this in chat room thank you very much and he was the first one i reported three hole days ago "

Three whole day eh?! Including a weekend? Near to Christmas? Admin have lives too you know.

Just move on. You've done your part, once admin have had time to re_iew the report and decide how they want to deal with it they will. No actual harm was done to anyone was it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i do know i seen one on this in chat room thank you very much and he was the first one i reported three hole days ago

Three whole day eh?! Including a weekend? Near to Christmas? Admin have lives too you know.

Just move on. You've done your part, once admin have had time to re_iew the report and decide how they want to deal with it they will. No actual harm was done to anyone was it? "

This

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Admin wont allow name and shame....if you report the profile Admin always deal with it one way or another.

I will paste onto the next post what they say they do with reports.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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