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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why? |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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I don't have my cock out on our profile my arse yes but my cock no. I don't have a problem getting my cock out of really needed but don't believe it is. Guess its partly because we are mainly looking for people for Tigs to play with for my pleasure but also my chicks not they're for all and sundry.
Not as bothered about my arse as an sure there are already photos of it in a younger state on the internet 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because the women of fab forum land are offended by them."
yesterday i exchanged comments on a thread with a lady who was openly critical about blokes not showing their cocks, saying that only cock pics were hot pics.
(even though her profile, as normal says she didn't like cock pics!)
Fab is full of every flavour!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't have any cock photos and if I'm honest im not a fan of open pussy shots. I believe that photos are there to tease and leaving some to the imagination is always better...... Aka I've a small cock hahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it kind of feels a little too much too soon ?
Most people probably like being appreciated visually and think they have turned someone on, but to be honest. ...they're rather odd looking things 
Without being sappy ...A woman's body to me is aesthetically beautiful as one (yes I'm probably genetically designed to feel that ) so just one part of her isn't a woman ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because the women of fab forum land are offended by them.
yesterday i exchanged comments on a thread with a lady who was openly critical about blokes not showing their cocks, saying that only cock pics were hot pics.
(even though her profile, as normal says she didn't like cock pics!)
Fab is full of every flavour!! "
She is in a minority. You only have to read any thread asking for profile advice and they are straight on it with the no cock pics comments. Personally i like to see what i could be getting intimate with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say don't worry about what other site members choose to include or omit from their profiles and concentrate on providing your own profile with the sort of up-front information that attracts favourable attention from compatible swingers.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
Women had advised that I'm more likely to get a meet if I show face and not just cock pics x |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
here and there, thereabouts |
"Personally I don't have any cock photos and if I'm honest im not a fan of open pussy shots. I believe that photos are there to tease and leaving some to the imagination is always better...... Aka I've a small cock hahahahaha "
I like the tease photos. I like the pics in underwear more than naked unless they are being coy.
Given I also vet any potentials for Tigs I don't want to see 10 pics of your cock from different angles. One will do thank you. I have my own to look at LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did have a couple of private cock pics, but I deleted them because I never shared them."
Actually, that's not true: I show my cock in a couple of pics, but not just cock close-ups |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm...
1) I'm a little shy
2) A cock is a cock and not really a distinguishing feature unless it's particularly large or small - I'm in between the two extremes - which is why I'd never message anyone looking for a W/E+ willy
3) I'm more than a cock and felt my profile text ought to be the focal point
4) Most women/couples that I've connected with have admitted they'd rather not see a pic and would prefer to see it in person as they unwrap me
5) if a woman/couple wishes to see my cock - they need only ask
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless you've got a vag like wooky hole caves I don't think penis size matters too much! It's the man surrounding the penis and the personality - the whole package - that turns me on - and i'd assume most women are the same? Xxx |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
because everyone is adult enough to know what a cock looks like by now.... and unless someones does something special like give me the horse racing results or forecasting the weather, I think we all know they all tend to look the same and do the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?
because everyone is adult enough to know what a cock looks like by now.... and unless someones does something special like give me the horse racing results or forecasting the weather, I think we all know they all tend to look the same and do the same thing"
Ohhhh ..... no-no-no...... Soz Brother Fabio but when it comes to cock discernment I think I've got it licked and have more than enough hands on experience to safely say some cocks can look utterly O'rrible and not the sort of thing you'd even want in you hand let alone anywhere your gob or up ya chuffer..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is a cock pick is so important?!? I would never post it even privately, yet alone publicly.
It's the same as asking a woman to post a pussy pic before meeting her. Offputting and pointless I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had them in friends pics, that's it. Wouldn't put it in public - my cocks got an important job and I wouldn't want it getting recognised."
Lolololol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer pictures to leave something to the imagination, there are no fully nude or close up cock or fanny shots on our profile
They are quite a big turn off for us to see close ups |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is a cock pick is so important?!? I would never post it even privately, yet alone publicly.
It's the same as asking a woman to post a pussy pic before meeting her. Offputting and pointless I think.
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I couldn't disagree more. I won't get intimate with something I don't like the look of. Best find out before going to all the effort if arranging a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?
because everyone is adult enough to know what a cock looks like by now.... and unless someones does something special like give me the horse racing results or forecasting the weather, I think we all know they all tend to look the same and do the same thing
Ohhhh ..... no-no-no...... Soz Brother Fabio but when it comes to cock discernment I think I've got it licked and have more than enough hands on experience to safely say some cocks can look utterly O'rrible and not the sort of thing you'd even want in you hand let alone anywhere your gob or up ya chuffer..... "
You put it so much better than me! |
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
. Cock pictures should always be accompanied by a face , otherwise they are meaningless. |
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"Because the women of fab forum land are offended by them.
yesterday i exchanged comments on a thread with a lady who was openly critical about blokes not showing their cocks, saying that only cock pics were hot pics.
(even though her profile, as normal says she didn't like cock pics!)
Fab is full of every flavour!!
She is in a minority. You only have to read any thread asking for profile advice and they are straight on it with the no cock pics comments. Personally i like to see what i could be getting intimate with."
I'm not bothered by cock pics and agree it's handy to see the goods before hand. But there was a profile on here a while back with 130 photos and every single one was of his cock. ha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And by wanting to see a cock doesn't mean that that is all I want and I'm not interested in the man etc etc etc....I'm here to enhance my sex life. I want to have sex with aesthetically pleasing interesting guys ....just because I can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cock pics - dammed if you damned if you don't.
I have to laugh at the ladies saying "I know what a cock looks like, once you've seen one you've seen them all" and yet there must be something magically unique about their tits and arse because they have umpteen pics of them. Ladies we all know what tits look like, we encountered them at a very early age and us have arses too so there's nothing special in yours.
Having said that keeping posting the pics because familiarity does not breed contempt as far as the female body is concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cock pics - dammed if you damned if you don't.
I have to laugh at the ladies saying "I know what a cock looks like, once you've seen one you've seen them all" and yet there must be something magically unique about their tits and arse because they have umpteen pics of them. Ladies we all know what tits look like, we encountered them at a very early age and us have arses too so there's nothing special in yours.
Having said that keeping posting the pics because familiarity does not breed contempt as far as the female body is concerned."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are certain things on here that have become almost taboo - that is because someone has expressed a dislike and others have followed suit. There becomes a situation where people wont disagree for fear of the dreaded 'being shot down in flames'.
Cock shots, married men etc are two examples. Someone somewhere expressed a love of men's bottoms, others agreed and now many men have the obligatory bottom shot, then we had the suit craze.
Many men won't display a close up cock pic simply because it may hinder their chances of sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I have a brain! After all I am looking for someone I can connect with I don't like seeing pussy pics either on a profile intelligence is key I like to be intrigued "
Yes. Absolutely so do I. But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time."
What's an offputting cock I wonder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time.
What's an offputting cock I wonder "
One i don't like the look of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I have a brain! After all I am looking for someone I can connect with I don't like seeing pussy pics either on a profile intelligence is key I like to be intrigued
Yes. Absolutely so do I. But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time."
You mean length, girth, shape, shaved or not actually matters. But, but, but ladies on here say they're are the same.
Next you'll be telling me there is no Santa |
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By *horltzMan
over a year ago
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"But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time.
What's an offputting cock I wonder "
Warts and green ooze perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
My cock shot is purely there to show off my piercing this is something that some ladies dont like so knowing I have one may help with decision making |
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"Because I have a brain! After all I am looking for someone I can connect with I don't like seeing pussy pics either on a profile intelligence is key I like to be intrigued
Yes. Absolutely so do I. But if I find out when we're about to get down to business that you have an off putting cock, no matter how well we have connected intellectually, it won't happen so what a waste of time."
If someone wanted to see it I am willing to show it, I have had conversations with people who have demanded to see my cock before we even started talking now that I find very shallow that's why I have said I have a brain I am more than a cock! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
I took the advice of the forums and hid all my cock pics.
I then took the advice of the forums then made all my cock pics public.
Then I decided to just keep one pic public and the rest for friends. I may act like a cock from time to time but there is so much more to me than my tackle.
I now just please myself and keep the pics I want to show public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few of the said pictures on my profile, but only in private. I have a bit of a full body one, hopefully nobody is offended by it, but can't see a valid reason for not having a cock pic.
Yeah, it may not be what people want to see,so don't look. Simple! Let's not forgot what the site is all about!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think that variety and imagination make for better pics. You have to try and stand out from the crowd and a profile full of cock shots offers nothing in the way of expressing ones personality. Unless you are a complete dick that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to see one good cock pic on a profile, along with torso shots. We've 'left it to the imagination' before and wished we hadn't.
Those who say all cocks are the same can't have seen many. And even if that were true, then the same would have to be said for tits, arse, legs and pretty much every other part of the anatomy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't display a cock shot in the public area because it stimulates a plethora of messages from adoring women and jealous men. "
Walter Mitty is in the building |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's an offputting cock I wonder "
"One i don't like the look of "
Is there a "Scarlet's Hall of Shame" then? Most offputting 100 or so cocks in known history not to attract any Seduction?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now just please myself and keep the pics I want to show public."
And this is the advice i always give to anyone asking. But somehow i always get drowned out by the "keep your cock hidden" brigade. Ho hum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I now just please myself and keep the pics I want to show public.
And this is the advice i always give to anyone asking. But somehow i always get drowned out by the "keep your cock hidden" brigade. Ho hum. "
Maybe you get drowned out by all the stamping of feet and bawling "I don't want ..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
If you want to see mine you do it in person
At the end of the day it's my choice to not have public pictures and to not send or have cock pics.
The way I see it, is if you don't like or it offends use the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From reading the forums and profiles it seems that most women arnt interested in seeing cock pictures.
As I am interested in attracting women it would seem counterproductive to have cock pictures plastered all over my profile.
I do have some saucy pictures in my friends section. |
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"From reading the forums and profiles it seems that most women arnt interested in seeing cock pictures.
As I am interested in attracting women it would seem counterproductive to have cock pictures plastered all over my profile.
I do have some saucy pictures in my friends section. "
Don't believe everything you read mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From reading the forums and profiles it seems that most women arnt interested in seeing cock pictures.
As I am interested in attracting women it would seem counterproductive to have cock pictures plastered all over my profile.
I do have some saucy pictures in my friends section.
Don't believe everything you read mate "
Well opinions vary and people do often say one thing and do another.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
Why? Because by virtue of being a penis owner, I don't see any reason why I would feel the need to post photos of it's existence to anyone?
The question I think, is why men do it? What's the point? Oh look, you own a penis, well done.
It's the same for closeup gynaecological looking photos of womens vaginas - why do women do that as well? It's just weird. You all own one, I don't need to see inside it. |
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"From reading the forums and profiles it seems that most women arnt interested in seeing cock pictures.
As I am interested in attracting women it would seem counterproductive to have cock pictures plastered all over my profile.
I do have some saucy pictures in my friends section.
Don't believe everything you read mate
Well opinions vary and people do often say one thing and do another.
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I see it this way if I had a cock pic on my profile most women will tell you cock is a cock. And if I don't I have cock pic the general rule is I must have a little one, you can never win. I do what pleases me if they don't like it there are lots of profiles with cock pictures to pick from . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people do it cos they can, there is no where else in life that you are allowed to do such a thing.
It feels naughty to expose ourself doesn't it, problem is every one else is doing and it becomes mundane. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people do it cos they can, there is no where else in life that you are allowed to do such a thing.
It feels naughty to expose ourself doesn't it, problem is every one else is doing and it becomes mundane. "
I think it makes men look like idiots, to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say that I'm too keen on seeing them either. "
It's only opinion, but I do think it makes people look a bit thick as well. Oh look here's my cock, or my vagina - whoopee, well done you for owning genitals and waving them around.
Having something to say is a lot more interesting to me. |
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"There are certain things on here that have become almost taboo - that is because someone has expressed a dislike and others have followed suit. There becomes a situation where people wont disagree for fear of the dreaded 'being shot down in flames'.
Cock shots, married men etc are two examples. Someone somewhere expressed a love of men's bottoms, others agreed and now many men have the obligatory bottom shot, then we had the suit craze.
Many men won't display a close up cock pic simply because it may hinder their chances of sex "
. Good point . Best to check the goods on display prior to meeting . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I now just please myself and keep the pics I want to show public.
And this is the advice i always give to anyone asking. But somehow i always get drowned out by the "keep your cock hidden" brigade. Ho hum. "
It's good advice! If you try to please everybody, you end up pleasing nobody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
I dont because is doesn't define who I am. I'm a person not a cock or a piece of meat eeep that's what women say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont have pictures of my pussy on show as i dont find those images tasteful, but thats my preference.
Id happily meet a gent having never seen his cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont have pictures of my pussy on show as i dont find those images tasteful, but thats my preference.
Id happily meet a gent having never seen his cock "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No cocks here and why. Simple really no offence to those that have but I'm not a cock. I even try not to look at my perv list. That 1 scary cock fest place. Shudder"
No but you do have a big shiny helmet |
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"No cocks here and why. Simple really no offence to those that have but I'm not a cock. I even try not to look at my perv list. That 1 scary cock fest place. Shudder
No but you do have a big shiny helmet "
Owww yes don't tell any 1 but I've a collection and I even pay for it too. Gowd the shame of it all |
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"No cocks here and why. Simple really no offence to those that have but I'm not a cock. I even try not to look at my perv list. That 1 scary cock fest place. Shudder
No but you do have a big shiny helmet
Owww yes don't tell any 1 but I've a collection and I even pay for it too. Gowd the shame of it all "
Disgusting! You probably polish them and strap them on as well. Pure filth! |
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"No cocks here and why. Simple really no offence to those that have but I'm not a cock. I even try not to look at my perv list. That 1 scary cock fest place. Shudder
No but you do have a big shiny helmet
Owww yes don't tell any 1 but I've a collection and I even pay for it too. Gowd the shame of it all
Disgusting! You probably polish them and strap them on as well. Pure filth! "
Every chance I get. In fact ive 1 bad boy I payed £700 for but its such a perfect tight fit and I know it wrong and I need some help but I just love sticking my head right up it filthy little hole awwwwww oops I made a mess again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
We don't show ours, but we do have cock pics.
We like to keep a little something back for a meet.
TBH we would both be put off meeting someone if it was all about the cock.
When we look for others, if there isn't a cock pic, we aren't bothered, but if there is one or two we'll have a browse.
If there is nothing else but cock pics, we would ignore the profile.
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
Judging by the responses, it seems some men think that by putting up a cock pic they would somehow be 'defined' by it. Really? Is a single cock pic so powerful that it can describe an entire person, regardless of any other pics they have on display, and despite what they might say in their profile? A ludicrous notion, to say the least.
Perhaps some men fear that they will come across as shallow by showing a cock pic? If so, it's an irrational fear, considering that this site is supposedly populated with liberated adults seeking NSA sex.
As for the idea that men who display cock pics are thick, idiots or 'cocks' themselves, we are happy to report that we've met a few (cough) and not one of them fitted these descriptions.
As others have said, do what you think is right for you, but don't leave out the cock pic just because you think someone is going to judge you on it, and it alone. That would say more about them than about you. |
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"Judging by the responses, it seems some men think that by putting up a cock pic they would somehow be 'defined' by it. Really? Is a single cock pic so powerful that it can describe an entire person, regardless of any other pics they have on display, and despite what they might say in their profile? A ludicrous notion, to say the least.
Perhaps some men fear that they will come across as shallow by showing a cock pic? If so, it's an irrational fear, considering that this site is supposedly populated with liberated adults seeking NSA sex.
As for the idea that men who display cock pics are thick, idiots or 'cocks' themselves, we are happy to report that we've met a few (cough) and not one of them fitted these descriptions.
As others have said, do what you think is right for you, but don't leave out the cock pic just because you think someone is going to judge you on it, and it alone. That would say more about them than about you."
But the thread is asking us to make a judgement? So I don't see why you have a problem with us.....making a judgement! |
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I never used to have any up....now I have a couple.
I was always in 'seen one, seen 'em all' 'i'm more than a penis' and 'leave something to the imagination' school of thinking.....but I was getting bored of just having face and bod pics up so thought sod it, i like my cock, i'll slap a couple of pics up on public.....it doesent make much difference I don't think having one or two in there ya know...long as you haven't got 47 pics up of it I think its fine. If someone didn't meet me because of the choice to display two cock pics amongst thirty or whatever others then I'm not sure I want to meet such highly strung folk.....
Everyone knows blokes have a cock so why show it....I know most women have legs and I see pics of those, bums, boobs, all kinds of bits they have as standard and they still get shown....what makes a cock different? |
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"Judging by the responses, it seems some men think that by putting up a cock pic they would somehow be 'defined' by it. Really? Is a single cock pic so powerful that it can describe an entire person, regardless of any other pics they have on display, and despite what they might say in their profile? A ludicrous notion, to say the least.
Perhaps some men fear that they will come across as shallow by showing a cock pic? If so, it's an irrational fear, considering that this site is supposedly populated with liberated adults seeking NSA sex.
As for the idea that men who display cock pics are thick, idiots or 'cocks' themselves, we are happy to report that we've met a few (cough) and not one of them fitted these descriptions.
As others have said, do what you think is right for you, but don't leave out the cock pic just because you think someone is going to judge you on it, and it alone. That would say more about them than about you.
But the thread is asking us to make a judgement? So I don't see why you have a problem with us.....making a judgement! "
OP asks for guys who have chosen not to display a cock pic to explain why. Where does he ask for anyone to make a judgement? |
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
My cock if part of me. I have one, maybe two photos of it in my galleries (not checked at the time of writing this).
I have more no-cock shots simply because of happenstance (I just thought a particular photo opportunity arose at the time and that warranted recording for posterity). |
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By *RR68BMan
over a year ago
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I read a lot of times women saying fed up with cock pics especially when guys are sending them in messsges. I get it. So I don't do it as an avatar because women if thry choose can see all thst as a profile. I see it as a respect for women thing. By having your dick as a profile pic you're basically waving it in front of their face, |
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over a year ago
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I completely understand the vulgarity associated with parading cock pics on ones profile. Guys who do that do seem to be leaning more towards the NSA sex-end of the swinging spectrum rather than giving prospective playmates a more rounded _iew of their profile.
Or maybe they're insecure about the rest of their body... |
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What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
. A profile should contain a detailed description of your hobbies and interests plus interesting full body pictures including some of your cock as part of your whole body and preferably erect . With lots of detailed information members can then make an informed decision about whom they want to meet. To some members apart from the other factors mentioned , size of head , length and girth will be important selection factors . Without photo proof how do they decide ?. The content of your profile must also be interesting. Some couples I meet specifically state they they require well hung . That is their choice . |
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"But the thread is asking us to make a judgement? So I don't see why you have a problem with us.....making a judgement!
OP asks for guys who have chosen not to display a cock pic to explain why. Where does he ask for anyone to make a judgement?"
The thread is a discussion about to have or not to have = we make our opinions known = we make a judgement. I don't see any difference. |
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?. A profile should contain a detailed description of your hobbies and interests plus interesting full body pictures including some of your cock as part of your whole body and preferably erect . With lots of detailed information members can then make an informed decision about whom they want to meet. To some members apart from the other factors mentioned , size of head , length and girth will be important selection factors . Without photo proof how do they decide ?. The content of your profile must also be interesting. Some couples I meet specifically state they they require well hung . That is their choice ."
Who are you to say what a profile should contain?
It should contain whatever the hell the person wants to say about themselves. If that is a multitude of cock pics that is up to him and the members of fab will decide whether that appeals to them or not.
What is it with all the preachers on here ffs |
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"I completely understand the vulgarity associated with parading cock pics on ones profile. Guys who do that do seem to be leaning more towards the NSA sex-end of the swinging spectrum rather than giving prospective playmates a more rounded _iew of their profile.
Or maybe they're insecure about the rest of their body..."
Not at all......mine were added recently for a bit of a change.....doesent mean I now want to fuck and go.....far from it....I love collecting friends as much as if not more than sex.....
And again no....I'm very happy with the rest of me...I've met plenty folk without displaying anythibg but face and bod.....
And for a rounded profile, should that not include a bit of everything? I have many face pics, bod pics, arty farty pics and a long waffling bit of text about myself....so why not spice it with just one or two Willy snaps? |
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"I completely understand the vulgarity associated with parading cock pics on ones profile. Guys who do that do seem to be leaning more towards the NSA sex-end of the swinging spectrum rather than giving prospective playmates a more rounded _iew of their profile.
Or maybe they're insecure about the rest of their body..."
lol got both pics of torso and cock, good with a mix |
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over a year ago
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I used to have one on my profile but i started getting self conscious, i didn't want someone i know seeing something i don't want them to see, plus a lot of women's profiles state they don't like cock pics. |
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"People aren't preaching, they're merely saying a preference. I have an opinion, so do you - what's the problem?"
Aw come on, different opinions are fine, of course they are but when someone states "a profile should contain ..." then that's a little preachy is it not? |
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"People aren't preaching, they're merely saying a preference. I have an opinion, so do you - what's the problem?
Aw come on, different opinions are fine, of course they are but when someone states "a profile should contain ..." then that's a little preachy is it not?"
I didn't see that bit - fair point. |
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Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that. |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that. "
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex... |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex..."
And swingers do what? |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex...
And swingers do what?"
Ogle cocks obviously |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex...
And swingers do what?"
Swing...
Some are here to chat, some are here to perv, some are cuckold so only the wife plays and hubby only gets to hear about it. Some have given up swinging but stay on the site to chat with friends. Some are here to waste peoples time arrange meets but never turn up.
Some are also here to have sex. If you think the swinging lifestyle is just about the sex, maybe I have the wrong end of the stick... |
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"What if someone's cock (hmmm) is so big that it can't fit into a photo?"
Take the camera more than an inch from your knob that will probably work fine for you then |
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"And by wanting to see a cock doesn't mean that that is all I want and I'm not interested in the man etc etc etc....I'm here to enhance my sex life. I want to have sex with aesthetically pleasing interesting guys ....just because I can.
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Hilda, does your doctor approve?
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"sometimes I think men who have got rather small ones don't have any pictures or they are shy, so that would put me off."
Hahaha!!! Do that's why we don't whack them out? |
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"sometimes I think men who have got rather small ones don't have any pictures or they are shy, so that would put me off.
Hahaha!!! Do that's why we don't whack them out? "
That's funny |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex...
And swingers do what?
Swing...
Some are here to chat, some are here to perv, some are cuckold so only the wife plays and hubby only gets to hear about it. Some have given up swinging but stay on the site to chat with friends. Some are here to waste peoples time arrange meets but never turn up.
Some are also here to have sex. If you think the swinging lifestyle is just about the sex, maybe I have the wrong end of the stick..."
oh my! Check whats on the end ya holding! |
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over a year ago
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex...
And swingers do what?
Swing...
Some are here to chat, some are here to perv, some are cuckold so only the wife plays and hubby only gets to hear about it. Some have given up swinging but stay on the site to chat with friends. Some are here to waste peoples time arrange meets but never turn up.
Some are also here to have sex. If you think the swinging lifestyle is just about the sex, maybe I have the wrong end of the stick..."
It's all about sex, doing it, talking about it, sharing it... Yes some people talk about other things on here but that's no different to joining a bikers club and then talking about golf to somebody |
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?. A profile should contain a detailed description of your hobbies and interests plus interesting full body pictures including some of your cock as part of your whole body and preferably erect . With lots of detailed information members can then make an informed decision about whom they want to meet. To some members apart from the other factors mentioned , size of head , length and girth will be important selection factors . Without photo proof how do they decide ?. The content of your profile must also be interesting. Some couples I meet specifically state they they require well hung . That is their choice ."
Like fuck its my profile I do what I like with it I mean do people even read them? |
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"Point is we're all on here for one thing, mutual fun... Society demanded such a website as fab swingers where mostly its used to find sex with somebody/couples eyc you find attractive or share a common interest, well, anybody approaching me is going to want to see what I've got on offer so beyond my profile text I show both my torso and cock.
No point being a prude about a cock when this is a sex site based on exactly that.
Its a swingers site based on swingers. Not everyone is here for sex...
And swingers do what?
Swing...
Some are here to chat, some are here to perv, some are cuckold so only the wife plays and hubby only gets to hear about it. Some have given up swinging but stay on the site to chat with friends. Some are here to waste peoples time arrange meets but never turn up.
Some are also here to have sex. If you think the swinging lifestyle is just about the sex, maybe I have the wrong end of the stick...
It's all about sex, doing it, talking about it, sharing it... Yes some people talk about other things on here but that's no different to joining a bikers club and then talking about golf to somebody "
To be fair , many also meet other swingers and don't use fab for meets as a rule... Just use it ta keep in touch with others they already know .. Are swingers out there also who don't use fab or similar sites at all ... Yeap sex is a part of it, but to some there is much more ... Is an induvudual thing I guess? |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I prefer to see cock pics, well at least 1 decent one, as long as there are other pics of the rest of the man too.
For me personally there is such a thing as being too small. I would hate to waste a guy's time chatting, get to the stage where he shows or I have to ask for a cock pic just to find out he's just too small  |
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"I prefer to see cock pics, well at least 1 decent one, as long as there are other pics of the rest of the man too.
For me personally there is such a thing as being too small. I would hate to waste a guy's time chatting, get to the stage where he shows or I have to ask for a cock pic just to find out he's just too small "
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"sometimes I think men who have got rather small ones don't have any pictures or they are shy, so that would put me off.
Hahaha!!! Do that's why we don't whack them out? "
Well I wouldn't be interested anyway if I didn't like his face. |
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"I am curious about what makes men NOT post pics of their cocks on here?
What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?. A profile should contain a detailed description of your hobbies and interests plus interesting full body pictures including some of your cock as part of your whole body and preferably erect . With lots of detailed information members can then make an informed decision about whom they want to meet. To some members apart from the other factors mentioned , size of head , length and girth will be important selection factors . Without photo proof how do they decide ?. The content of your profile must also be interesting. Some couples I meet specifically state they they require well hung . That is their choice ."
shouldn't a profile be exactly how people wish it to be? Never realized there was a tick list? As for details, aint people right then, in selecting themselves what they choose to disclose to others? .... |
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I'll be honest I've got a nice enough cock, certainly get's complimented on occassion. But I'd never put a picture up. I'm not going to be defined by my cock. |
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"I'll be honest I've got a nice enough cock, certainly get's complimented on occassion. But I'd never put a picture up. I'm not going to be defined by my cock."
How does having a single cock pic define you? I just don't get it |
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"I'll be honest I've got a nice enough cock, certainly get's complimented on occassion. But I'd never put a picture up. I'm not going to be defined by my cock."
I suppose its different if you go to clubs. |
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over a year ago
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It looks much bigger in close ups than it actually is and some women go like Oh my God! I dont know if I can handle that. So I felt its better keeping it as a surprise. Well Hope they dont run away when they pull down my pants |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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I've pictures of my cock on my profile when I use it as my avatar it seems to attract more attention to my profile than the other pictures I use.
I'm here to attract people for fun and hopefully frolics.... If this feature of me attracts people I'll use it |
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What I am asking about is the close-ups showing just the cock and nothing else.
My question excludes profile owners with pictures of play in between two, or more, people where you see the cock as part of the play situation.
Those of you who don't have a single cock shot on you profile, is it a choice? If yes, then why?"
I don't have any on display on my profile out of choice because I'm much more than just a cock |
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Why does having a cock pic on display mean that you are being defined by your cock our that you aren't more than just a cock?? I don't get it. just because I have my tits/arse on display doesn't mean that is all I am...just that I thought that those who might want to meet me might want to see what they will be getting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not having any public ones has never hindered me getting meets with the women I want to meet.
Equally, a pussy shot has never convinced me to meet a women I hadn't already decided I wanted to meet.
I have though on occasion had to ask couples i have met to take down 'action' pictures of me taken during meets. That's probably for another though. |
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"Why does having a cock pic on display mean that you are being defined by your cock our that you aren't more than just a cock?? I don't get it. just because I have my tits/arse on display doesn't mean that is all I am...just that I thought that those who might want to meet me might want to see what they will be getting! "
I've asked this as well and I'm still waiting for an answer.
How in the name of fuck does a picture of your cock define you?
Anyone? |
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"Why does having a cock pic on display mean that you are being defined by your cock our that you aren't more than just a cock?? I don't get it. just because I have my tits/arse on display doesn't mean that is all I am...just that I thought that those who might want to meet me might want to see what they will be getting!
I've asked this as well and I'm still waiting for an answer.
How in the name of fuck does a picture of your cock define you?
Anyone?"
Some of the men I have met had big cocks, I didn't like them though, so it doesn't mean much. |
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"Why does having a cock pic on display mean that you are being defined by your cock our that you aren't more than just a cock?? I don't get it. just because I have my tits/arse on display doesn't mean that is all I am...just that I thought that those who might want to meet me might want to see what they will be getting! "
That's it, completely. People trot out the 'define' word without ever giving any thought as to what the hell they mean. Presumably because they don't know what they mean. When I see a pic of someone's foot in a shoe (there are lots these), I don't ever feel that person has defined themselves in any way, shape or form. Why would it be different for a cock pic, I wonder. |
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I just figure most of you ladies prefer not to choose us men on the basis of our cock. I have them if asked. I have also been accused of being gay by showing arse pics. My public gallery is much shorter now after many forum chats but I must say its not changed a thing either way. Have fun everyone each to their own opinion |
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"I just figure most of you ladies prefer not to choose us men on the basis of our cock. I have them if asked. I have also been accused of being gay by showing arse pics. My public gallery is much shorter now after many forum chats but I must say its not changed a thing either way. Have fun everyone each to their own opinion "
If you adjust your profile based on feedback from the vocal minority, you'll end up with no pics and a crap profile. Project what you want to project.
By the way, the arse in the shower pic is pretty good - you just need to wear some slippers |
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