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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"surely bulk delete means u miss some diamonds in the rough?"
i bulk delete after scan reading the subect title
if theyre interested theyll be persistent lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they disappear below the fold, they're gone forever as far as I'm concerned. My inbox moves too quickly to stay on top of, I'd rather focus on those I've previously met anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sure bulk delete means I miss some ------------ probably miss out on quite a few 'gems' and it makes me feel a little guilty ------ but if theyre interested they'll message again. I tend to put it in my status that I've had to do a bulk delete too .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a nice problem to have  "
I don't tend to receive nice messages. A lot are offensive, rude or inappropriate. It's a pain to sort through them, let alone being expected to reply to them. |
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"Sounds like a nice problem to have
I don't tend to receive nice messages. A lot are offensive, rude or inappropriate. It's a pain to sort through them, let alone being expected to reply to them. "
Fair point, that sucks. Looks like I fell victim to thinking that the grass is always greener... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"first messages are offensive? that seems rather harsh! or are these people who are pestering when you've refused? x"
No, first messages. I receive several saying they'll fuck me like the slut I am (I'm not a slut) or they'll force their fetishes on me. For example, I've been messaged 3 times today by 3 different people if I'll shit for them. One man even had requirements for the dress I wore whilst I did it, yet didn't even say hello in the message.
Anyway, it shouldn't matter if it's a first message or not... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when your messages get out of control do you just leave them to stack up or try get through them all?"
I have so many filers in place and a narrow age range so I don't have that problem. Plus for the first four weeks I was back I blocked everyone so no one could message me anyway which has helped as some still think I'm unmessageable   |
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i'm shocked at how many people are getting horrible messages. i mean obviously as a single male you dont get even close to half what a couple or single female do. but horrible messages are few and far between. guess there is a serious stereotype being formed of single guys by the idiots being disrepectful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was inundated with a message just last week...managed to get it answered just about though, I try and answer the message that builds up in my inbox every month by setting three or four mins a month to one side just for answering it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm shocked at how many people are getting horrible messages. i mean obviously as a single male you dont get even close to half what a couple or single female do. but horrible messages are few and far between. guess there is a serious stereotype being formed of single guys by the idiots being disrepectful x"
It doesn't put me off single men as a whole, it just puts me off checking my messages religiously. The men I've met have been nice. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"first messages are offensive? that seems rather harsh! or are these people who are pestering when you've refused? x
No, first messages. I receive several saying they'll fuck me like the slut I am (I'm not a slut) or they'll force their fetishes on me. For example, I've been messaged 3 times today by 3 different people if I'll shit for them. One man even had requirements for the dress I wore whilst I did it, yet didn't even say hello in the message.
Anyway, it shouldn't matter if it's a first message or not..."
Have you reported them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filters in place. When they are not I apply common sense. Not read my profile, one liner, cock pic avatar just delete. Those that have made an effort (cut and paste is not effort) even if not interested will send thanks but no thanks. The others chat and see where it leads. Works for me. If it offends anyone tough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"first messages are offensive? that seems rather harsh! or are these people who are pestering when you've refused? x
No, first messages. I receive several saying they'll fuck me like the slut I am (I'm not a slut) or they'll force their fetishes on me. For example, I've been messaged 3 times today by 3 different people if I'll shit for them. One man even had requirements for the dress I wore whilst I did it, yet didn't even say hello in the message.
Anyway, it shouldn't matter if it's a first message or not...
Have you reported them?"
The obscene or aggressive ones, yes. It's a bit of a shame to see some post on the forums though as it makes reporting seem a little pointless even though they were bloody rude. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"when your messages get out of control do you just leave them to stack up or try get through them all?
I don't ever have that problem  "
This is me too...even in the past when I've taken all filters off I don't get inundated - could be I'm a minger or just that I've shagged everyone local |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"when your messages get out of control do you just leave them to stack up or try get through them all?
I don't ever have that problem
This is me too...even in the past when I've taken all filters off I don't get inundated - could be I'm a minger or just that I've shagged everyone local "
I reckon its cos I'm a minger. Or at least my back is. |
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"I was inundated with a message just last week...managed to get it answered just about though, I try and answer the message that builds up in my inbox every month by setting three or four mins a month to one side just for answering it. "
That's funny |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I'm invisible to search and they still stack up. I have a long old session when I've got a spare hour or two, answer where appropriate, delete where appropriate and save those I may want to message when I have time to play. It's not a foolproof system but it makes me feel less like I'm swamped in Fab admin and using it for the elements that make it fun for me. |
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"Some go unlos before you get a chance to reply,can't wait an hour some people
Ooo I get this sometimes too. Very strange!"
I delete all messages after I send them regardless if they have been read or not.Unless we have messaged previously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had this problem to be honest. I ALWAYS reply though, unless it's just a "Hi" or "Hey"......
Not really a problem us single guys have to deal with...lol |
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