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Have you lost the fab buzz
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
I have.....  . It's great meeting new people having a social and a flirt and knowing you will have possibly great sex....I'm just not feeling it at the moment and it makes me feel a bit . I might get it back in the new year lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I felt that way the last few months too. Sometimes I luvre it other times the whole thing gets on my nerves. I think that's pretty normal tho, well as normal as anyone can be! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sort of. Life's taken over and it's made it near impossible to plan meets in advance, so now I'm being the type of annoying person I hate and sending texts like "hey, I'm in your area tonight and free" to friends. The desire's still there though. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've been thinking along similar lines, I'm not sure it's fulfilling my needs and wants fully, I enjoy the social side obviously the sex side as well, I think I might be looking for something else. ;-?
I Might feel different tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it lost its sparkle over a year ago. I still like to frequent the forums though. Even of its just the morning thread. I have too much time on my hands right now |
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I think when you come on here first it's "oh my god"......and like everything in life,,it gets boring....
So now i prefer a social meet with a nice person and if it leads to something good and well......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to say I've got mine back after about 18 months. I had a few meets in the meantime but things were said after one particular meet that made me feel used and totally crap about myself so I left
I don't meet many or often anyway but I'm enjoying my time back this time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before i started participating in the forums i was close to giving up on the site. Chatting on here has found me with new friendsvfrom across the country, some even wanting to meet me.
My overall meet rate hasn't changed but i feel in some way I am still participating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's the time of year.
I enjoy the forums but only certain types of thread.
I'm mostly here to stay in touch with those of you I consider friends.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interest in fab went about a month ago and hasn't really come back. Been dating again and seem to be enjoying that rather than here. Hopefully it will come back |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Interest in fab went about a month ago and hasn't really come back. Been dating again and seem to be enjoying that rather than here. Hopefully it will come back "
I have to say I'm on the same wavelength I've been on a couple of dates...one or two have been disasters but that's the wonders of dating lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit to feeling a bit fed up..
I know as a singly male we are one in 14ish so i am realistic but Im not feeling it at the moment.. Maybe time for a break  |
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I think it's been a long time since I had a real buzz about this sort of thing. I have been meeting for 3.5 years but the real excitement wore off after about 6 months. Don't get me wrong I still enjoy the odd meet but the novelty most definitely wore off. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm not sure I ever had a buzz from my Fab experience. I don't meet as often now as work comes first, my priorities have changed and when I meet I want more of a guaranteed "product". It's still my sex connection though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interest in fab went about a month ago and hasn't really come back. Been dating again and seem to be enjoying that rather than here. Hopefully it will come back
I have to say I'm on the same wavelength I've been on a couple of dates...one or two have been disasters but that's the wonders of dating lol "
I think I need to get back on the saying scene .. I think if feel happier with that than fab at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I only really come here for the forums anyway. I have no expectations and I feel better that way.
I just come on here to _iew your arse...  "
it's a good arse.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go through phases like that all the time & will often hide my profile and step back for a bit until I feel ready to jump back into it all again. "
Same here, I've done that a few times this year. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Life on Fab will always be a rollercoaster - ups and downs, twists and turns, the occasional thrill, adrenaline rushes - combined with the dull, slow bits inbetween.
As it should be.
It's a part of life. Not the be all and end all. If it becomes too much of a priority it will always disappoint.
Take it for what it is - the chance for social interaction (virtually or physically) on a more 'adult' level and something that's fun. If the fun element stops that's when it's good to slow down, step back and have a breather.
There are far more important things in life than Fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoyed this place more back in 2011 when I was first on here but that was before I was 30! The last couple of years my intentions are more on finding a relationship than a one off.
The thrill of getting ready for a meet has been replaced with wanting to have a hot chocolate and a smooch on the sofa with a permanent guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't rely on fab at all, we don't really meet that often anyway as real life is very busy, we probably only use fab for socials and the forums at the moment.
So can't say that it has or that it hasn't lost it's buzz. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have..... . It's great meeting new people having a social and a flirt and knowing you will have possibly great sex....I'm just not feeling it at the moment and it makes me feel a bit . I might get it back in the new year lol "
Yeah I'm a bit like this at the moment anyway. I just dont get Christmassy and the whole month of December makes me feel a little empty.. I could quite happily go to sleep now and wake up in 2015. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interest in fab went about a month ago and hasn't really come back. Been dating again and seem to be enjoying that rather than here. Hopefully it will come back
I have to say I'm on the same wavelength I've been on a couple of dates...one or two have been disasters but that's the wonders of dating lol "
Now I could tell you about a couple of disastrous dates haha.. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I enjoyed this place more back in 2011 when I was first on here but that was before I was 30! The last couple of years my intentions are more on finding a relationship than a one off.
The thrill of getting ready for a meet has been replaced with wanting to have a hot chocolate and a smooch on the sofa with a permanent guy!"
You are managing to make me feel old.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is just a small part of it for me. We do lots of different types of things and tend not to use Fab for meets very often. The real world is much more fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I suspected...
As you suspected what?.... "
You only have to read the forums with all the rants and moans to pick up on the fact that many aren't enjoying the lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in winter most of us hibernate more. I go through phases here, sometimes I love it and sometimes I really don't. When I don't, I will either hide my profile or have deleted my profile before to have a complete break. I love the forums though and they draw me back every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I suspected...
As you suspected what?....
You only have to read the forums with all the rants and moans to pick up on the fact that many aren't enjoying the lifestyle "
I'd love to know the percentage of forum users that don't meet. |
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Ha! I guess it's kind of reassuring that 'real life' intrudes sometimes. It's good to appreciate that at the end of the day sex is just sex. I try so hard to prioritise real life over fun - if given the choice between a speculative club visit and dinner with friends the latter wins every time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel suitably refreshed knowing im
not the only one who has lost that fabs buzz ... 8 years on ( not all on fabs) I think its time to hang up the swinging boots. Still love the social element but beyond that it just doesn't excite the way it did .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like a roller coaster for me, at the minute it's good but know that it might take a dip soon! I'll stay on the ride a bit longer and enjoy the forums in the meantime |
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I feel a bit sad reading some of these posts, we have found fab to be fun, hard work at times but ultimately the more effort you put in the better the rewards. We are 3 years into our swinging experience & its been a roller coaster of ups and downs but ultimately a positive addition to our relationship. I now understand about pushing boundaries and also setting limits. I get it that a single your wants & needs will change as so will a couple,I wish everyone on here finds happiness in whatever way they want xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go through phases like that all the time & will often hide my profile and step back for a bit until I feel ready to jump back into it all again. "
I've been like that all the time I've been here...sometimes I love it, sometimes it's a chore. Think taking a step back every now and then so I miss it helps me enjoy it more if that makes sense. Plus I have a couple of friends I can rely on whether I'm live or hidden on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had such a fun year, lots of meets, New experiences, New people - but I'm on such a downer now.
Hopefully Christmas with family, real life friends will perk me up.
I sense a change in my Fabs life... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in my 4th year on here... not met anyone for almost a year due to a hectic life and now that I have time I feel like I've completely lost all interest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes the site has lost its shine for me. I do read the forums but I'm nowhere near as active as I once was.
We don't really get the time to enjoy the scene as we once did and I like to have things to look forward to. Work and general life has made this more difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit that Fab has become a bit stale over the last year. Maybe it's me, I don't really know, but I'm not getting excited about meetings any more. It's getting harder to organise a meeting what with real life raising its head all the time lol! I hope I feel different soon, otherwise I may just give it all up!! |
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We also get a bit fed up at times but that's only cos all the time wasters wear you down
We look forward to weekends when we are free to meet so always make arrangements and most of them either don't turn up or phone with a pathetic excuse but luckily I still like coming on here cos a lot of it is so comical and there is buger all on telly lately
For us thesedays a meet is a bonus
Even better when they read the profile,first
Next year might be better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm planning on leaving in the new year. Reassess what I want relationship wise. I've met some great people on here but the guys I really like always end up having a partner tucked away somewhere and the truely singles seem to be a bit odd.
Also I have very little free time and swinging (clubs ) appear to have taken it over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It comes and goes with me hence why I have been gone n back at various points.
J keeps us here nowadays really.
He thinks you lot are hilarious  "
J's cool. You both are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From reading all the comments I think the fact that I've never been able to meet very often and only get to clubs a couple of times a year seems to have worked in my favour, as after a few years on here I'm still excited about meets with new and old friends. |
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Ive lost the fab buzz too.
not met anyone from here in 6 months might be even longer.
just keep my profile active mainly to read forums as there are some belters to read.
ive found sex has just gone way down in my list of priorotys and isnt that important in my life currently.
I put that energy into other areas.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We also get a bit fed up at times but that's only cos all the time wasters wear you down
We look forward to weekends when we are free to meet so always make arrangements and most of them either don't turn up or phone with a pathetic excuse but luckily I still like coming on here cos a lot of it is so comical and there is buger all on telly lately
For us thesedays a meet is a bonus
Even better when they read the profile,first
Next year might be better"
it will be  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Today is a new day and it's nearly "
Yep! 
Last working day til after Xmas and then only in for two til new year!
Looking forward to some quality time of with Fox, Foxcub, the woofer, family and friends - and of course NYE at Xtasia!
Roll on the arrival of the fat bloke in red!
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Today is a new day and it's nearly
Yep!
Last working day til after Xmas and then only in for two til new year!
Looking forward to some quality time of with Fox, Foxcub, the woofer, family and friends - and of course NYE at Xtasia!
Roll on the arrival of the fat bloke in red!
A"
Not for me I don't break up until next week hope you have a great Christmas you have loads to celebrate |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"From reading all the comments I think the fact that I've never been able to meet very often and only get to clubs a couple of times a year seems to have worked in my favour, as after a few years on here I'm still excited about meets with new and old friends. "
That's great. I'm just being a misery guts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive lost the fab buzz too.
not met anyone from here in 6 months might be even longer.
just keep my profile active mainly to read forums as there are some belters to read.
ive found sex has just gone way down in my list of priorotys and isnt that important in my life currently.
I put that energy into other areas.
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I think this is why so many singles seem to lose the buzz. For me fab is only ever an enhancement so getting a meet isn't important. I have a family and a wonderful husband so i don't really need anything from fab. It's always been way down on my priorities. I _iew it as a luxury. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From reading all the comments I think the fact that I've never been able to meet very often and only get to clubs a couple of times a year seems to have worked in my favour, as after a few years on here I'm still excited about meets with new and old friends.
That's great. I'm just being a misery guts. "
Would you like me to slap you about the face with a wet kipper? ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it's just nice to have a chat..
I meet 2 girls on here regularly for a chat and coffee.....we are so relaxed..
Even took one to the Arsenal a couple of weeks ago.....
Xx"
Was that the last you saw of her then? Must remember that as a way of ending a friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been up in down myself recently. .
But did start to date again as like many of you wanted more.... I lasted six weeks. Lol... before I was looking for a meet.... I'm just finding it increasingly difficult to find the time to meet ...
I have kids so my time is restricted to when they are at school. .. of course it's around my work to.... I think one of the reasons I wanted to date and find that special someone that I can have around my kids. .. anyhow will start to date after exmas again. I am not short of meets I just like something different. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today is a new day and it's nearly "
There is a BIG world out there and 1000000s of lovely men OP and I hope in 2015 you find him ...... The one that's special to you. XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find it can be a bit up and down the way I feel about it. Still meeting....have a few regular ladies I see....one in particular is a real good friend but don't really see that as anything to do with fab, although we did meet here. We keep our fab lives separate now....though we do show each other the stupid messages we get, especially her....there are a massive amount of nobs on here!
I've another naughty gym bunny I see a few times a month but there are times when I feel I can take it or leave it fab wise.
Still loving you guys in the forums tho.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is interesting. The majority if the posters expressing lack of interest are single. I wonder if the approach of friends and family times like Christmas, coupled with the cold dark weather, make singletons hanker for cosy nights with a loved one? |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"From reading all the comments I think the fact that I've never been able to meet very often and only get to clubs a couple of times a year seems to have worked in my favour, as after a few years on here I'm still excited about meets with new and old friends.
That's great. I'm just being a misery guts.
Would you like me to slap you about the face with a wet kipper? ? "
Go on then I might enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You ever done running ????
Do I look like I run to you.... "
Maybe you could . lol if he is good looking and sexy and a nice butt, you can run behind . And keep saying you need a rest and the kiss of life . lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I suspected...
As you suspected what?....
You only have to read the forums with all the rants and moans to pick up on the fact that many aren't enjoying the lifestyle
I'd love to know the percentage of forum users that don't meet."
Over the three and a half years we have been on and off fab , we too have pondered over this question .
We would guess it would be a very high percentage and this in itself explains why such a low % of fab users come on the forums .
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You ever done running ????
Do I look like I run to you.... Maybe you could . lol if he is good looking and sexy and a nice butt, you can run behind . And keep saying you need a rest and the kiss of life . lol "
Lol I'd need the kiss of life anyway lol |
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"It is interesting. The majority if the posters expressing lack of interest are single. I wonder if the approach of friends and family times like Christmas, coupled with the cold dark weather, make singletons hanker for cosy nights with a loved one? "
Yes it does. I am throwing myself into the bossom of family and friends.
But I havent lost the buzz either. |
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"I've lost my way, feels like I'm an afterthought.
Not got a lot of family.. Wont really see anyone over Xmas.
So I'm working some of it.
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Awwwwwww we should have organised a mid England Xmas day bring a plate dinner. So many of us on our own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have lst my fab buzz a tiny bit recently I do enjoy the sex but I think I am meeting to many couples now I like to be a bit more sensual but I feel like I'm stepping on toes or to many do's and donts I respect all boundaries.
But It would be great to find that nice sexy play buddy i can take out and chill with but it has not happend yet ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're the same at the moment. Unless it lands on our laps we don't do anything. We're the laziest swingers in town. "
best way to be,,i don't take much on this site seriously,its just a giggle now n then.
oh and it does land on yer lap now n then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit.....a bit of football does test a woman....
But if she can put up with it.....you're ahead of the bunch
Xx"
If she will wear gloves, stand between the sticks and will catch a ball for 90 minutes, I'd say she's a keeper |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
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We've been on here a bit less than normal recently and haven't really been actively looking.
It doesn't mean we are not as interested, we've just had other things to focus on.
Had a couple of FAB parties to see us through the cold winter nights though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lst my fab buzz a tiny bit recently I do enjoy the sex but I think I am meeting to many couples now I like to be a bit more sensual but I feel like I'm stepping on toes or to many do's and donts I respect all boundaries.
But It would be great to find that nice sexy play buddy i can take out and chill with but it has not happend yet ??"
Shame you aren't nearer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have too. All the endless NSA sex is boring, nobody getting to know me and what I like. Plus all the "hi" messages from people who can't even be arsed to take 2 mins to read a profile has left me quite despondent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I suspected...
As you suspected what?....
You only have to read the forums with all the rants and moans to pick up on the fact that many aren't enjoying the lifestyle
I'd love to know the percentage of forum users that don't meet.
Over the three and a half years we have been on and off fab , we too have pondered over this question .
We would guess it would be a very high percentage and this in itself explains why such a low % of fab users come on the forums .
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Could be right for some but a bit of an assumption/generalisation.
I use the forums regularly...and I meet (as my numerous verifications show). I have a meet with a regular FB tonight and will spend the rest of the weekend with a very close FWB. Both met from here and both know each other.
Xmas will be spent with FWB and my sister. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that meeting at a club is far better, these pages are ok once you have met people but I think the chances of meeting because of the pages are slim. I have had a marvelous time at the spa and will continue to have success there, here- well time will tell.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis. "
I'm not fed up just looking for a girlfreind soon not just sex and 3somes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally think women in general struggle at this time of year. There's so much other stuff going on, I'm too knackered to be arsed with it through December. Plus I always seem to get ill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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veryone has good times and bad. I have left fab many times over the years as have had enough. Think one of the difficult things is for the genuine swingers to stand out. I remember another site that no longer exists and was really friendly but these days everyone seems to know about fab. As soon as they have no luck on social dating sites they join here lol |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have..... . It's great meeting new people having a social and a flirt and knowing you will have possibly great sex....I'm just not feeling it at the moment and it makes me feel a bit . I might get it back in the new year lol
Didnt last long, you created a Happy Thread "
I'm a person who can't stay miserable for long it's too much like hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis. "
I don't meet regularly and I'm thoroughly enjoying my time on fab, thanks!! |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis.
I don't meet regularly and I'm thoroughly enjoying my time on fab, thanks!! "
Good for you...just because people don't meet regularly does not make them miserable people and you are far from miserable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you've lost the Fabswingers buzz
There's plenty you can do.
Take a close up pic of your cock
While wanking on the loo.
Better still get a can of lynx
To show how big you're not
Cut and paste' fancy a fuck'
And send it out a lot.
And if you think Fab's lost its wow
and want a change from all the farce.
You can always get the buzz right back
By sticking a wand right up your arse
Poor attempts at humour care of YeOldeWitchDoc's Brain Farts
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis.
I don't meet regularly and I'm thoroughly enjoying my time on fab, thanks!!
Good for you...just because people don't meet regularly does not make them miserable people and you are far from miserable "
Now......where did I put that kipper??  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis.
I don't meet regularly and I'm thoroughly enjoying my time on fab, thanks!!
Good for you...just because people don't meet regularly does not make them miserable people and you are far from miserable
Now......where did I put that kipper?? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"seems like the most miserable people on here are the ones who aren't meeting people on a regular basis.
I don't meet regularly and I'm thoroughly enjoying my time on fab, thanks!!
Good for you...just because people don't meet regularly does not make them miserable people and you are far from miserable "
It just seems like that, from what I have noticed. |
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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago
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This thread is such an interesting read. Well done OP.
We are the same as most by the sounds of it. Thank goodness lol.
We both work long hours and get tired. In these dark winter months all you want to do is get home. Nice hot shower then a chill out.
We still want to flirt a little and visit the odd club, but this time of year is just a busy time with family stuff.
Nice to know we are among like minded people in more ways than one. Lol.
Now. Nice glass of port to warm the cockles
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not meeting just now and I haven't been miserable for 3 years....
Well I know why your not miserable.
why"
I have been reading some of your posts for years and its obvious. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not meeting just now and I haven't been miserable for 3 years....
Well I know why your not miserable.
why
I have been reading some of your posts for years and its obvious."
cause i am a big old bundle of merriment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the labyrinth you slowly make your way towards the center... then you suddenly take a detour and you're right out at the perimeter again... before suddenly finding yourself at the center. In terms of where we're at with Fab I'd say we're right out at that perimeter. I'd like to think that in the new year we'll finally be making our way into the center. But I've given up trying to predict when that's gonna happen. 2015 could easily slip by. But it's not really all that important is it? As long as we're in love and enjoying life... that's most important
Fab is so unreal and doesn't seem to work for a lot of people anyway. It strikes me that, when we do get going on things, we may not need it at all. Besides, between sex and love I'll choose love every time. Swinging is an extra, a bonus, I'm really looking forward to doing it, but I'm not gonna put any unnecessary pressure on our relationship. I can wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not meeting just now and I haven't been miserable for 3 years....
Well I know why your not miserable.
why
I have been reading some of your posts for years and its obvious.
cause i am a big old bundle of merriment "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment I am really enjoying myself but there have been time where I have felt disenchanted with the whole thing. Its a fun ride and it does throw some curved balls at you but if you can find someone to play with on a regular basis then all the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vera hardly ever comes on anymore and I feel a fake as it says we are a couple. We also having to assess where we are as a couple (fuck buddies) and does feel like it could be the end of the road, I've probably wasted far too much time on fab and now I'm feeling melancholy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sort of. Life's taken over and it's made it near impossible to plan meets in advance, so now I'm being the type of annoying person I hate and sending texts like "hey, I'm in your area tonight and free" to friends. The desire's still there though. "
Wish you were my friend |
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