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over a year ago
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Hi,the wife is interested in fun with other couples but doesn't want to feel obliged to partake .she also doesn't like the idea of goin somewhere that is specifically for swingers .does anyone know of a place or area in the south that swingers frequent and socialize without the pressure of feeling its the only option. We have been to a club and although she likes the idea she wasn't comfortable .we'd like to pursue our fantasy and it become a reality but both need to grow in confidence .any knowledge or advice would be great . We are sure of what we want and need to ease in . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,the wife is interested in fun with other couples but doesn't want to feel obliged to partake .she also doesn't like the idea of goin somewhere that is specifically for swingers .does anyone know of a place or area in the south that swingers frequent and socialize without the pressure of feeling its the only option. We have been to a club and although she likes the idea she wasn't comfortable .we'd like to pursue our fantasy and it become a reality but both need to grow in confidence .any knowledge or advice would be great . We are sure of what we want and need to ease in . "
Surely that's why you arrange a social meet (or more) to establish how everybody thinks or feels prior to playing or not? |
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We have found that Eureka in Kent is very much a no pressure club. It's a naturist club by day and more 'adventurous' on party nights!
We were both very shy and not at all sure whether we wanted to get involved in this scene. We found the regulars and the staff to be ultra respectful and non pushy. You can do your own thing. If you just want to meet people, enjoy the atmosphere and dance you can.
If you decide you want to go further there are private rooms, couples rooms and mixed rooms to play in.
You do get the occasional idiot but management are quick to deal with issues and they do restrict the new of singles so it's not a sausage fest!
They don't have a alcohol licence so you bring your own, which actually makes for a more cost effective night out! |
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I'd organise a social get together only for people you may like to play with at a later date, or a general social get together, for fab users, where you are a little selective in who is accepted for it, but there's no demand that they're all of potential sexual interest.
You could meet in any bar, café or social space, including running an activity, such as bowling and drinks etc. |
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its a shame she felt uncomfortable at the club but i would keep going - i was terrified the first 2 or 3 times i went but more out of ignorance and niavity - but now i love it - no pressure to play - maybe try meeting at a club with people you have maybe met for a social drink or have been chatting to - and just soak in the atmosphere - i personally find my inhibitions let loose more at a club as i find the whole atmosphere highly arousing |
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Most dry clubs have a non play bar area, we have been to several club nights where we have not played either because no one took our fancy or because things just didn't go that way. Combination of that plus fab socials and lots of talking in between and maybe you will find what you are looking for. |
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