Possibly a question best answered by the ladies in here. I have a meet arranged for next week, and the couple insist on safe sex and condoms must be used. I haven't used a condom in years, and was just wondering.... are the ribbed condoms more pleasurable for the lady, rather than just normal ones? |
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"Why don't you ask the lady you are meeting what she prefers? She may have a preference.
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DUH ! how thick am i, LOL... thou it wasn't really until i went to the shop today and saw the different choices available...that got me wondering which condoms you ladies liked the most, and how different it feels.
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I use ribbed ones at the minute, can't really tell any difference? Am really wet though so think that doesn't help.
The extra thin ones feel really good, they're the only ones I can tell a difference with so far. |
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I personally prefer the extra safe ones - and will provide them for anyone who isn't a regular partner.
She may have a similar preference. Or she might not. You should ask. |
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Plus if it's been a while check you don't have any latex allergies. And that any you do pick actually feel comfortable for you. I have started to use "Mates skyns" and find them best for me.
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"I use ribbed ones at the minute, can't really tell any difference? Am really wet though so think that doesn't help.
The extra thin ones feel really good, they're the only ones I can tell a difference with so far."
I did see them also and thinking it would give the most natural feeling like not wearing one. Just a little concerned that being extra thin they stand more chance of splitting. |
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"I personally prefer the extra safe ones - and will provide them for anyone who isn't a regular partner.
She may have a similar preference. Or she might not. You should ask."
Thanks for your reply ...Extra safe ? Does that mean 'thick' does that reduce the sensation ?
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"Plus if it's been a while check you don't have any latex allergies. And that any you do pick actually feel comfortable for you. I have started to use "Mates skyns" and find them best for me.
Have fun "
I've never had any issues before ( thou it was years ago ) maybe they have also changed the lubricants they use. Something else for me to consider. Lol.
Think I will just buy several different packs all of the flavours / sizes / textures etc. Variety is the spice of life I guess. Lol.
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"I recently used dimpled ones. They felt nice
My thought was that these may have a slightly enhanced feeling  . And obviously it's important that te lady gets the best feeling possible. Thanks. "
He bought them for a change,he said they might feel better for me. I must admit it was a different sensation. I've also used the extra thin ones which haven't split so far,even on a larger member. He said it feels like he isn't wearing anything. The extra safe ones I've used smell terribly and I itch afterwards until I shower. |
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If you havent used them for a few years it may be a good idea to practice putting them on.
Its a real mood killer when a guy comes to put one on and hasn't got a clue!! 
We have actually walked out of a play room and left a guy sat struggling to get a condom on !
Hope you have a fun meet .
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The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards  |
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"If you havent used them for a few years it may be a good idea to practice putting them on.
Its a real mood killer when a guy comes to put one on and hasn't got a clue!!
We have actually walked out of a play room and left a guy sat struggling to get a condom on !
Hope you have a fun meet .
XXX"
Thanks. From years gone past I agree it can ruin the moment. Thumbling about with them!!! . . If I recall correctly the last time I used one the lady put it on for me, which was actually very nice. But I will take your tip on board. It will also give me the chance to feel the different ones before my meet, and make a suitable choice. Think I will just buy a variety pack lol.
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"If you havent used them for a few years it may be a good idea to practice putting them on.
Its a real mood killer when a guy comes to put one on and hasn't got a clue!!
We have actually walked out of a play room and left a guy sat struggling to get a condom on !
Hope you have a fun meet .
XXX
Thanks. From years gone past I agree it can ruin the moment. Thumbling about with them!!! . . If I recall correctly the last time I used one the lady put it on for me, which was actually very nice. But I will take your tip on board. It will also give me the chance to feel the different ones before my meet, and make a suitable choice. Think I will just buy a variety pack lol.
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You can fan them out in front of her and say pick a condom,any condom  |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards "
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice. |
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"If you havent used them for a few years it may be a good idea to practice putting them on.
Its a real mood killer when a guy comes to put one on and hasn't got a clue!!
We have actually walked out of a play room and left a guy sat struggling to get a condom on !
Hope you have a fun meet .
XXX
Thanks. From years gone past I agree it can ruin the moment. Thumbling about with them!!! . . If I recall correctly the last time I used one the lady put it on for me, which was actually very nice. But I will take your tip on board. It will also give me the chance to feel the different ones before my meet, and make a suitable choice. Think I will just buy a variety pack lol.
You can fan them out in front of her and say pick a condom,any condom "
Lmao. Like kids on a sweet shop |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice. "
I have no idea its all complicated :/ i have very sensitive skin so i think the thicker ones actually chafe me |
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It's amazing how many men don't have the first clue about how to put one on or can't stay hard to put one on. Quite worrying really! Such a turn off. Great that you are being so considerate |
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"It's amazing how many men don't have the first clue about how to put one on or can't stay hard to put one on. Quite worrying really! Such a turn off. Great that you are being so considerate "
I always try my best to please . |
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Also, you say they insist on safe sex and condoms must be used......that implies to me that you are happy to go bareback otherwise, how would your wife feel about you bringing home herpes, chlamydia or worse? |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards "
i use the durex ultra thin & real feel ones too....never had issues with them either |
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"Also, you say they insist on safe sex and condoms must be used......that implies to me that you are happy to go bareback otherwise, how would your wife feel about you bringing home herpes, chlamydia or worse? "
Thanks again. But I was after condom advice. Not marriage guidance. |
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"I use ribbed ones at the minute, can't really tell any difference? Am really wet though so think that doesn't help.
The extra thin ones feel really good, they're the only ones I can tell a difference with so far.
I did see them also and thinking it would give the most natural feeling like not wearing one. Just a little concerned that being extra thin they stand more chance of splitting. "
Like someone else sadid, never split yet.
I think condoms are all tested to the same standard anyway? |
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"Also, you say they insist on safe sex and condoms must be used......that implies to me that you are happy to go bareback otherwise, how would your wife feel about you bringing home herpes, chlamydia or worse?
Thanks again. But I was after condom advice. Not marriage guidance. "
Not looking for marriage guidance? Well, that's patently obvious. But, maybe you should think twice before risking the happiness of all your family, your children, your parents for a cheap fuck?  |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice.
I have no idea its all complicated :/ i have very sensitive skin so i think the thicker ones actually chafe me "
Nonynoxyl 9 which is the spermicide that is on many of the extra safe condoms causes irritation in a lot of people - it melts nail polish so that's how strong it is!
The world health organisation and the nhs have suggested that the irritation caused by this stuff can cause sores which mean that it makes sex more risky instead of safer! I find it triggers my eczema internally and triggers thrush. So I generally supply my own condoms. |
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"Also, you say they insist on safe sex and condoms must be used......that implies to me that you are happy to go bareback otherwise, how would your wife feel about you bringing home herpes, chlamydia or worse?
Thanks again. But I was after condom advice. Not marriage guidance.
Not looking for marriage guidance? Well, that's patently obvious. But, maybe you should think twice before risking the happiness of all your family, your children, your parents for a cheap fuck? "
dont ruin this thread ! ... which so far has had only useful and helpful advice, if you want to message me privatley then feel free, or start your own thread on marriage guidance. thanks. |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice.
I have no idea its all complicated :/ i have very sensitive skin so i think the thicker ones actually chafe me
Nonynoxyl 9 which is the spermicide that is on many of the extra safe condoms causes irritation in a lot of people - it melts nail polish so that's how strong it is!
The world health organisation and the nhs have suggested that the irritation caused by this stuff can cause sores which mean that it makes sex more risky instead of safer! I find it triggers my eczema internally and triggers thrush. So I generally supply my own condoms."
Good god, that sounds dodgy...unless i was paint stripping as well. ... i iwll give those a miss ! ...
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"Possibly a question best answered by the ladies in here. I have a meet arranged for next week, and the couple insist on safe sex and condoms must be used. I haven't used a condom in years, and was just wondering.... are the ribbed condoms more pleasurable for the lady, rather than just normal ones?"
My friend i met can only use skyns. Felt very nice  |
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"I like Skyns latex-free extra lube ones. Very nice feeling.
Thats a few people have suggested Skyns.... i will defo try some of those thanks for your input "
Another vote for Skyns here but I can't emphasise enough that you need to speak to the lady concerned. |
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"I like Skyns latex-free extra lube ones. Very nice feeling.
Thats a few people have suggested Skyns.... i will defo try some of those thanks for your input
Another vote for Skyns here but I can't emphasise enough that you need to speak to the lady concerned. "
Thanks... an email is on its way to the couple concerned, waiting for a reply and i will post her preference |
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Thanks... an email is on its way to the couple concerned, waiting for a reply
and i will post her preference "
No need for that. The couple concerned are the only ones who need to be involved in my opinion. |
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"I personally prefer the extra safe ones - and will provide them for anyone who isn't a regular partner.
She may have a similar preference. Or she might not. You should ask.
Thanks for your reply ...Extra safe ? Does that mean 'thick' does that reduce the sensation ?
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Yeah it does.
But it also means they're less likely to get ripped or torn.
And since you're cheating on your wife, you might want to think about being as safe as possible since otherwise you're going to have to have a plan in place to potentially explain how you caught an STD or need to provide for a child... |
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"I personally prefer the extra safe ones - and will provide them for anyone who isn't a regular partner.
She may have a similar preference. Or she might not. You should ask.
Thanks for your reply ...Extra safe ? Does that mean 'thick' does that reduce the sensation ?
Yeah it does.
But it also means they're less likely to get ripped or torn.
And since you're cheating on your wife, you might want to think about being as safe as possible since otherwise you're going to have to have a plan in place to potentially explain how you caught an STD or need to provide for a child..."
Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects. |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects. "
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk." |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk.""
Thanks, so much free advice here |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
Thanks, so much free advice here "
Hopefully they take their own advice too eh |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk.""
My thread was about Condoms, not mine or the other couples reproductive status.
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
Thanks, so much free advice here
Hopefully they take their own advice too eh "
i am confident this couple are 101 % safe otherwise i wouldn't entertain them. |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
Thanks, so much free advice here
Hopefully they take their own advice too eh
i am confident this couple are 101 % safe otherwise i wouldn't entertain them. "
I was talking about the people giving you advice on here |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
Thanks, so much free advice here
Hopefully they take their own advice too eh
i am confident this couple are 101 % safe otherwise i wouldn't entertain them.
I was talking about the people giving you advice on here "
Oh LOL, sorry, misunderstood you.... im sure the wise people on here, practice what they preach ! |
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Thanks to all the people that have taken the trouble to reply to this thread, i really only expected a few comments half a dozen if i was lucky, didn't think i would get such a response, but got lots of very useful tips. Thanks to everyone, Paul
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk.""
I've had a full hysterectomy including removal of my cervix...
I always use condoms but it's purely for health reasons I couldn't get pregnant if I fucked every man on the planet.... 
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
I've had a full hysterectomy including removal of my cervix...
I always use condoms but it's purely for health reasons I couldn't get pregnant if I fucked every man on the planet....
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No risk of you getting pregnant then . Let me know if you ever get my way, and I could be one of those men ! Lol. And promise to use a condom for health reasons only. . Have fun. .
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If I got pregnant it'd be a miracle. I've been steralised, got the coil because of heavy bleeding and GP offered to start me on the Pill too to try and stop the bleeding AND I always use condoms!!! |
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Seems lots of people use condoms simply for health protection these days and not birth control. I guess that's the modern world we live in. And very wise to use them if you have any doubt about your partner. |
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"I recently used dimpled ones. They felt nice
I like Skins dimpled. They're very fine but there definitely something a bit different with them."
I'm very sensitive inside anyway,I can't describe the sensation except to say it was intense |
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I like Skins dimpled. They're very fine but there definitely something a bit different with them.
I'm very sensitive inside anyway,I can't describe the sensation except to say it was intense "
Think I'm sold on these Skyns. Seems you ladies like them |
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"If I got pregnant it'd be a miracle. I've been steralised, got the coil because of heavy bleeding and GP offered to start me on the Pill too to try and stop the bleeding AND I always use condoms!!!
Seems lots of people use condoms simply for health protection these days and not birth control. I guess that's the modern world we live in. And very wise to use them if you have any doubt about your partner. "
I think a wise person would use them for any encounter other than with a trusted long term partner. They don't protect one hundred per cent though.....something to be aware of if there are people other than oneself to consider. |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice.
I have no idea its all complicated :/ i have very sensitive skin so i think the thicker ones actually chafe me
Nonynoxyl 9 which is the spermicide that is on many of the extra safe condoms causes irritation in a lot of people - it melts nail polish so that's how strong it is!
The world health organisation and the nhs have suggested that the irritation caused by this stuff can cause sores which mean that it makes sex more risky instead of safer! I find it triggers my eczema internally and triggers thrush. So I generally supply my own condoms."
I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
Skyns latex free have never caused any problems. |
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"The real feel ones are amazing and havent split on me yet and ive had some rather vigorous sex with a guy using them!
Maybe also find out if she has a preference.. I personally cant use some brands as they leave my lady bits sore afterwards
Blimey something else for me to consider, is it the lubricant that makes you sore ? I am tempted by the real feel ones and want it to feel as good as possible.
I will have to contact my new friends and check on their preferences. Thanks for the advice.
I have no idea its all complicated :/ i have very sensitive skin so i think the thicker ones actually chafe me
Nonynoxyl 9 which is the spermicide that is on many of the extra safe condoms causes irritation in a lot of people - it melts nail polish so that's how strong it is!
The world health organisation and the nhs have suggested that the irritation caused by this stuff can cause sores which mean that it makes sex more risky instead of safer! I find it triggers my eczema internally and triggers thrush. So I generally supply my own condoms.
I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
Skyns latex free have never caused any problems. "
I like the idea of lasting longer, but not at the expense of causing the lady discomfort. |
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I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems. "
oh i detest them, numbs your knob and can't feel a thing.....why would anyone want that?? |
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I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
oh i detest them, numbs your knob and can't feel a thing.....why would anyone want that??"
And they numb your mouth if you suck a cock that's had one on |
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I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
oh i detest them, numbs your knob and can't feel a thing.....why would anyone want that??
And they numb your mouth if you suck a cock that's had one on"
numbpties - sorry went through my mind had to type |
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I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
oh i detest them, numbs your knob and can't feel a thing.....why would anyone want that??
And they numb your mouth if you suck a cock that's had one on"
careful with that hot post sex cup of tea if you are deep throating |
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I've got vulval dermatitis from condoms. I rattled durex by asking what agents might cause allergic reactions. Turns it's the ones that claim to make the bloke last longer that cause most problems.
oh i detest them, numbs your knob and can't feel a thing.....why would anyone want that??
And they numb your mouth if you suck a cock that's had one on
careful with that hot post sex cup of tea if you are deep throating "
I let it cool a bit |
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Thanks, but there is no risk of pregnancy just the health aspects.
"Just" the health aspects. (And unless she has no uterus or ovaries... there's generally still a risk."
Thanks, so much free advice here
Hopefully they take their own advice too eh
i am confident this couple are 101 % safe otherwise i wouldn't entertain them.
I was talking about the people giving you advice on here
Oh LOL, sorry, misunderstood you.... im sure the wise people on here, practice what they preach ! "
If you are referring to me then I certainly do. Only ever have casual sex with the full consent of my husband and usually in his presence. Rarely indulge in penetration with other men because of the risks of STIs, even with a condom |
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