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I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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over a year ago
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It's about time someone asked this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You believe wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Less likely to meet someone with a crap profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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I meet Indian and Asian girls, in fact I see their ethnicity as a plus as I love dark skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's about time someone asked this. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would influence me yes.
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I'd race to a meet, but only if I was late  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Races deffinately im too fat and outta shape to chase anybody |
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No issue for me. Attraction is more than a skin colour. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Nah, I'll fuck any guy of any race, as long as he's smoking hot.  |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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Skin colour is not a selection criteria for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are an Indian or Asian male, maybe so..
If you are an Indian or Asian woman, probably not. |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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I think you'll find that people are more likely to meet those that actually have some details on their profile, would you be interested in meeting someone who has "....." as their profile text? No matter what your ethnicity is, zero effort equals zero rewards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe people will be reluctant to meet anyone who asks a question in the forum that is longer than their profile.
... doesn't really say a lot.
Have a look around the forums you will see your answer.
But to save you time:
Some women will meet asian men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet black men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet straight men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet men.
Some women will not.
If you are an actual male, prepared to put the time and effort in, respectful to ladies, have no sense of entitlement, and have patience, you will find a lady wanting to meet you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No issue for me. Attraction is more than a skin colour."
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I've never had any problems getting a meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's called choice ,for some it's an issue ,for others not ...for me it's not ,if there's an attraction what's the problem ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as there female and from
The human race it's all cool to me ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I've had sex with hot men of all kinds of races |
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"No. I've had sex with hot men of all kinds of races "
That's encouraging, I'm not bad at the egg and spoon race! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I've had sex with hot men of all kinds of races
That's encouraging, I'm not bad at the egg and spoon race! "
You probably glue it on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not this again.....zzzzzz"
Becoming a daily post.
If certain types don't want to meet you. Move on, simple. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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Age, sexual orientation, height, body size, distance; all play an important role for some people Why would ethnicity be any different?
Some people will meet anyone; some will meet Asians/Indians; and some, like me, won't
Best advice is to give people like me a miss and write to those who will meet Asians/Indians |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Human race is ok, outside of that I am, as yet, undecided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet and fuck any race as I want variety lol |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
Age, sexual orientation, height, body size, distance; all play an important role for some people Why would ethnicity be any different?
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Exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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really lol our meets have Been hot and amazing xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A race? - nah, for the weekend is better!
But seriously, there isn't a race on this planet that I wouldn't want to meet, people are beautiful!!
.....apart from ukippers of course, - they're scumbags!! |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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A lot of women dont meet Asians because they have had or heard about bad experiences had at the hands of Pakistani/Afghan/Arab Muslim immigrant males.
It is really a shame but all groups are tarred by the worst conduct associated with the group. Minorities doubly so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
A lot of women dont meet Asians because they have had or heard about bad experiences had at the hands of Pakistani/Afghan/Arab Muslim immigrant males.
It is really a shame but all groups are tarred by the worst conduct associated with the group. Minorities doubly so. "
But of course women have never had or heard of bad experiences with white males..........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet men I'm attracted to, simple as that really |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
A lot of women dont meet Asians because they have had or heard about bad experiences had at the hands of Pakistani/Afghan/Arab Muslim immigrant males.
It is really a shame but all groups are tarred by the worst conduct associated with the group. Minorities doubly so.
But of course women have never had or heard of bad experiences with white males.......... "
Of course women have bad experiences with white males, but we are not an easily identifiable minority in the UK so when females/couples do have bad experiences with us they tend to block all males.
As I said we all get judged by the worst in our group and minorities doubly so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
A lot of women dont meet Asians because they have had or heard about bad experiences had at the hands of Pakistani/Afghan/Arab Muslim immigrant males.
It is really a shame but all groups are tarred by the worst conduct associated with the group. Minorities doubly so.
But of course women have never had or heard of bad experiences with white males..........
Of course women have bad experiences with white males, but we are not an easily identifiable minority in the UK so when females/couples do have bad experiences with us they tend to block all males.
As I said we all get judged by the worst in our group and minorities doubly so."
I know what you said, dude, - I just chose to leave out the minority part to expose how difficult it must be for them!!
But omg, Asian woman are incredibly beautiful, east west or wherever, but just like on Fab, - the poor old guy gets the sharp end!!!
.....& the violins played......... |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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You could say the same about age, size etc. I truly don't understand why people concentrate on those NOT interested in them instead of those that are! 
As to the question that is seldom asked on here...  ...I only play with white men. |
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"I believe people will be reluctant to meet anyone who asks a question in the forum that is longer than their profile.
... doesn't really say a lot.
Have a look around the forums you will see your answer.
But to save you time:
Some women will meet asian men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet black men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet straight men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet men.
Some women will not.
If you are an actual male, prepared to put the time and effort in, respectful to ladies, have no sense of entitlement, and have patience, you will find a lady wanting to meet you.
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There you go! |
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
Age, sexual orientation, height, body size, distance; all play an important role for some people Why would ethnicity be any different?
Some people will meet anyone; some will meet Asians/Indians; and some, like me, won't
Best advice is to give people like me a miss and write to those who will meet Asians/Indians"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But all said & done, Miss tress, I have to say that from the profiles that I've viewed, the Asian male does tend to be the one getting the hammering.
Preference or no preference, it does seem to be so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmmmmm, ............(ponders)....................(but not for very long).................. ................are fab women then, less atracted to the Asian male than the Fab guys are to the Asian woman?
No, I'm not waving the racism card but........????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Race play in meets?
I immediately thought: "I'm going to win!!"  |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is not so much a racial issue, more of a personal taste.
Why meet up with someone that does nothing for you.
If you have a thing for blondes, would you go with a brunette. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet. "
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,, |
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Wouldnt meet a non white
Call it what you want but i call it CHOICE, which i find a lot of "asian men" on here seem to struggle with, dont you think women should have a choice????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we would never race on a meet! have you ever tried running with your undercrackers round your ankles |
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,, "
Why the issue with accents? What puts you off with either accents that you have quoted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,, "
Thank you so much from two brummies lol ps I had elocution lessons to lose the accent but hubby sounds like a black sabbath member |
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,, "
I dont like the accent either tbh |
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,,
Thank you so much from two brummies lol ps I had elocution lessons to lose the accent but hubby sounds like a black sabbath member "
I'm not from the west Midlands I emigrated here a few years ago from down sarf...there is nothing wrong with the accent to be honest. |
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wish people would stop playing the race card
there are 1001 reasons why guys don't get a meet and my guess us race is quite a long way down the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us its just that gingers not attracted and thats got to be part of it having some kind of attraction otherwise its no fun. Perhaps if the right guy came along we'd go with the flow but they've not turned up yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a thing we both don't like really just like some people like Scouse or Irish accents nothing to do with colour _isscheekychops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not this old chestnut again.
There are loads more men than women on this site, you can't get a meet cos ladies have loads of choice.
Be interesting witty and fun in your profile and messages, and send a lot.
What won't work is playing the victim the race card and being miserable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Race isn't an issue to me but it is to some people.
Personally I don't like Asian men because too pushy and desperate but I do Black men especially from Ghana have melow personalities.
To me it's the person not their orgins or colour of skin.
I'm attracted to dark hair and eyes and happy confident men smell nice and can hold a conversation not arrogant at all |
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"It's just a thing we both don't like really just like some people like Scouse or Irish accents nothing to do with colour _isscheekychops"
Ah right well that's called preference I suppose and there is nowt wrong with having preferences |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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people always focus on the thing they can't control... and leaves them blameless...
it like people will always complain about the thing that excludes them....
oh but its everyone elses fault... those mean nasty pasties!!!!!
I don't see what the Fixation around here seems to be in trying to please everyone!!!! if you did you would just the pandering.... and probably the blandest person on the site!!!!
you are never going to please everyone... so why bother trying!!!
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Has the OP re-appeared in this thread at all?
If not I wouldnt bother explaining it again |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Welcome to the forum OP.
Please don't be put off with people complaining about the subject, some forget that others have never seen the subject before.
To the people who are bored with the subject, maybe avoid the thread altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,, "
This made me laugh - people from Birmingham
S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Welcome to the forum OP.
Please don't be put off with people complaining about the subject, some forget that others have never seen the subject before.
To the people who are bored with the subject, maybe avoid the thread altogether "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has the OP re-appeared in this thread at all?
If not I wouldnt bother explaining it again"
Maybe you shouldn't have commented at all as condescending comments add nothing to the thread or answer the op. |
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"Has the OP re-appeared in this thread at all?
If not I wouldnt bother explaining it again
Maybe you shouldn't have commented at all as condescending comments add nothing to the thread or answer the op. "
By all means inbox and I can explain rather than take this off track. Im here for about 30 mins |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They could be blue with pink spots as far as we are concerned as long as they have a good sense of humour and we get on well before we meet then we don't see a problem. |
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"for us its not so much the colour of the skin but their accents ,we tend to be put off by Pakistan Indian accents ,and people from birmingham lol sorry,,
I dont like the accent either tbh "
What am ya tryen ter soy ? that's racist anent people frum Burminum |
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" But all said & done, Miss tress, I have to say that from the profiles that I've viewed, the Asian male does tend to be the one getting the hammering.
Preference or no preference, it does seem to be so."
I have no way of confirming if that's true or not. However, it doesn't alter the fact that some people tend to focus on those NOT interested in them instead of those who are. Plus, some people are lazy: their profiles have zero content yet blame their ethnicity, age, sexuality etc for their lack of success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playfulsam that lost us haha x |
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"people always focus on the thing they can't control... and leaves them blameless...
it like people will always complain about the thing that excludes them....
oh but its everyone elses fault... those mean nasty pasties!!!!!
I don't see what the Fixation around here seems to be in trying to please everyone!!!! if you did you would just the pandering.... and probably the blandest person on the site!!!!
you are never going to please everyone... so why bother trying!!!
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" But all said & done, Miss tress, I have to say that from the profiles that I've viewed, the Asian male does tend to be the one getting the hammering.
Preference or no preference, it does seem to be so.
I have no way of confirming if that's true or not. However, it doesn't alter the fact that some people tend to focus on those NOT interested in them instead of those who are. Plus, some people are lazy: their profiles have zero content yet blame their ethnicity, age, sexuality etc for their lack of success."
Thats spot on if people concentrated on people who are interested they will become more positively minded and that attracts more people in itself that and a decent profile that gets people interested. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
A lot of women dont meet Asians because they have had or heard about bad experiences had at the hands of Pakistani/Afghan/Arab Muslim immigrant males.
It is really a shame but all groups are tarred by the worst conduct associated with the group. Minorities doubly so. "
I think that this maybe behind peoples reasoning.
With frequently reported major issues towards Asian females, it must be difficult for others to move past with regards towards respecting any females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" But all said & done, Miss tress, I have to say that from the profiles that I've viewed, the Asian male does tend to be the one getting the hammering.
Preference or no preference, it does seem to be so.
I have no way of confirming if that's true or not. However, it doesn't alter the fact that some people tend to focus on those NOT interested in them instead of those who are. Plus, some people are lazy: their profiles have zero content yet blame their ethnicity, age, sexuality etc for their lack of success.
Thats spot on if people concentrated on people who are interested they will become more positively minded and that attracts more people in itself that and a decent profile that gets people interested. "
A positive attitude and concentrating on people who are interested is the best way to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of this thread is probably a bit true, but the major fact is the OP is a single male with 3 dots as his profile.
Think if it was any other shade of the human race, even the green ones people would point out effort = results.
P.s. We don't meet green people, not racist, just preference... And they taste funny |
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over a year ago
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"I believe people will be reluctant to meet anyone who asks a question in the forum that is longer than their profile.
... doesn't really say a lot.
Have a look around the forums you will see your answer.
But to save you time:
Some women will meet asian men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet black men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet straight men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet men.
Some women will not.
If you are an actual male, prepared to put the time and effort in, respectful to ladies, have no sense of entitlement, and have patience, you will find a lady wanting to meet you.
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I don't know why, but this answer sounds best read aloud in Reeves and Mortimer's Otis and Marvin voices. |
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If it makes any difference to me it is slightly on the positive side. I sometimes like the more exotic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Race isn't an issue to me but it is to some people.
Personally I don't like Asian men because too pushy and desperate but I do Black men especially from Ghana have melow personalities.
To me it's the person not their orgins or colour of skin.
I'm attracted to dark hair and eyes and happy confident men smell nice and can hold a conversation not arrogant at all "
Lol a Asian guy desperate for you????? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Race isn't an issue to me but it is to some people.
Personally I don't like Asian men because too pushy and desperate but I do Black men especially from Ghana have melow personalities.
To me it's the person not their orgins or colour of skin.
I'm attracted to dark hair and eyes and happy confident men smell nice and can hold a conversation not arrogant at all
Lol a Asian guy desperate for you????? Lol"
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet. "
I can understand why you don't have any trouble getting meets !
You are gorgeous ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is personal preference nothing racist about it and that is that in our opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Less likely to meet someone with a crap profile."
Or even worse than crap - no words at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!"
I agree with you up to the point of not stating it on your profile what your preferences are. it saves unwanted messages. So I mention my main preference. works for me and I don't want to hear from those offended by that anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Less likely to meet someone with a crap profile.
Or even worse than crap - no words at all. "
Shame on you, discriminating against the illiterate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!
I agree with you up to the point of not stating it on your profile what your preferences are. it saves unwanted messages. So I mention my main preference. works for me and I don't want to hear from those offended by that anyway "
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I meet people that I'm attracted to - colour plays some part in this but not all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wish you luck on your puzzy hunt |
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"No. I've had sex with hot men of all kinds of races
That's encouraging, I'm not bad at the egg and spoon race!
You probably glue it on "
Well that's me rumbled!! |
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
I can understand why you don't have any trouble getting meets !
You are gorgeous !"
Well yeah, that's true!
Of course the after party stuffed parathas help.
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
a land up north..... of leicester |
These threads irk me somewhat, I'm Indian and I would say that I've had as much fun thanks to this site as the next guy. just take things with a pinch of salt op. Fab isn't the be all and end all, at least that's how I treat it |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"These threads irk me somewhat, I'm Indian and I would say that I've had as much fun thanks to this site as the next guy. just take things with a pinch of salt op. Fab isn't the be all and end all, at least that's how I treat it"
Exactly; there is someone for everyone; we should all be happy about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow such a load of responses bet the Umzungoes here say no it don't if you don't know what that word means you can't answer the question |
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People meet who they find attractive, irrespective of race. I don't have figures but it's tough for all single guys, so make sure you're apportioning cause to the right aspect of your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads irk me somewhat, I'm Indian and I would say that I've had as much fun thanks to this site as the next guy. just take things with a pinch of salt op. Fab isn't the be all and end all, at least that's how I treat it"
Love your mirror photo! Reminds me of "Saturday night fever"! |
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!"
Disagree! I'm only interested in white, single, local, sub men. I have a partner and busy life. It's hard enough sorting the wheat from the chaffe: a bland, generic profile wouldn't work for me. Stating my preferences works perfect for me.
I could less if I tried if those it excludes get offended. They'll get over it! |
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By *ominantDogMan
over a year ago
Docklands, Exmoor, Manchester |
"Not for me it doesn't
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see above.
equal opportunities employer...grins |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had one female friend on here last year and one male friend on here right now. Both Indian and both got/have a lot of attention.
For me, race is never an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!
I agree with you up to the point of not stating it on your profile what your preferences are. it saves unwanted messages. So I mention my main preference. works for me and I don't want to hear from those offended by that anyway "
The whole point of a profile is to state your preferences. That is the point! If not every profile would be genetic. Some people are way too sensitive to be on here if they are offended that not everyone wants to fuck them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same as short over tall men, or beards or shaven, depends on what takes your fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attitude, looks,intelligence, all important. Race, not important. It's personal choice in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No race issue everyone has their choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!"
Totally agree with you. Of course people are entitled to fancy whoever they like. There is a way though to state a preference without coming across as an ignorant knob.
If someone has a preference for a particular colour or race - they can quite easily say - "I prefer black/white/Asian" etc.
Not act as though they'd suffer a major meltdown if their inbox was visited by someone not of their preference. Because the way some people state their preferences indicate's they suffer some sort of deep rooted issues
If they're okay coming across that way, they deserve pity not vitriol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!
Totally agree with you. Of course people are entitled to fancy whoever they like. There is a way though to state a preference without coming across as an ignorant knob.
If someone has a preference for a particular colour or race - they can quite easily say - "I prefer black/white/Asian" etc.
Not act as though they'd suffer a major meltdown if their inbox was visited by someone not of their preference. Because the way some people state their preferences indicate's they suffer some sort of deep rooted issues
If they're okay coming across that way, they deserve pity not vitriol
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"These threads irk me somewhat, I'm Indian and I would say that I've had as much fun thanks to this site as the next guy. just take things with a pinch of salt op. Fab isn't the be all and end all, at least that's how I treat it
Love your mirror photo! Reminds me of "Saturday night fever"!"
lol! I was actually in the shower |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone had their tastes and reasons.
However what isn't right is stereotyping a race or culture from what you may have read or seen, you can't tarnish everyone with the same brush.
Those who have preferences should keep it to themselves rather than stating it on their profiles.
My profile would be longer than it is of I mentioned all of my dislikes or preferences!
Totally agree with you. Of course people are entitled to fancy whoever they like. There is a way though to state a preference without coming across as an ignorant knob.
If someone has a preference for a particular colour or race - they can quite easily say - "I prefer black/white/Asian" etc.
Not act as though they'd suffer a major meltdown if their inbox was visited by someone not of their preference. Because the way some people state their preferences indicate's they suffer some sort of deep rooted issues
If they're okay coming across that way, they deserve pity not vitriol
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Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's important to more than will admit it
there are certain nationalities I'm not attracted to and I have also been turned down for not being English, shit happens just move on |
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no my profile content was removed for some reason but I.have updated it |
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exactly u know this though its not your fault for not being English is it. I don't see anything bad looking at u. in your pics in fact I would say you are beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best move south..... |
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"You believe wrong"
No they dont! I have read many a profile stating they do not meet black or asians.
Its not everyone granted...but there are some! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You believe wrong
No they dont! I have read many a profile stating they do not meet black or asians.
Its not everyone granted...but there are some!"
and some only want to meet black or Asian people it's up to them u can't force people too fancy u ! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We meet who we want when we want when the feeling is reciprocated of course. Sometimes race does play a part for specific meets and not for others due to what we are specially looking for from that meet. We've recently decided to expand our experience into different areas as we develop this part of our life and race does not come into it as what we want out of the meet will be very different to what we've experienced so far. |
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BBQ is Asian and we've not had a problem! |
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"It's about time someone asked this. "
Yes. I do enjoy the stimulation of the novel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it doesn't matter to a lot of people but I only meet white british or Italian people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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It makes no difference to me. It is all about personality and if I click with someone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found it does.
All well and good when people message me and we begin talking with compliments both ways. But once they ask me what's my race (and i have nothing to hind) then i find myself blocked and the interest gone out the window.
It's true. And to be honest, if you're not experiencing it. You'd be thinking i'm chatting bollocks.
It happens though. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that it does..
A few times we've got taking with someone on here and irs all goin well until they see pics of both of use and we get the 'I don't meet black people' message!
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I'm back after being banned from this forum for outing a raciest
she mailed me saying I don't meet black people because there all sleazy dodgy and are thieves
I copied her text to me and was promptly banned for 48 hours
I've checked through my inbox to find her mail but she's no longer on site
I wonder why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm back after being banned from this forum for outing a raciest
she mailed me saying I don't meet black people because there all sleazy dodgy and are thieves
I copied her text to me and was promptly banned for 48 hours
I've checked through my inbox to find her mail but she's no longer on site
I wonder why "
Good to hear she is gone! |
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers."
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try not to be competitive during a meet. I never try to come first.
Oh hang on, not quite what you meant by race was it, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet whoever catches my eye. Someone that excites me in mind and body.. Skin colour is just that, a colour! |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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The only race that matters is who gets the last slice of Battenberg cake. . And I always win. . . . Otherwise a definite No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
But to save you time:
Some women will meet asian men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet black men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet straight men.
Some women will not.
Some women will meet men.
Some women will not.
If you are an actual male, prepared to put the time and effort in, respectful to ladies, have no sense of entitlement, and have patience, you will find a lady wanting to meet you.
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Totally spot on. Like as previously mentioned hight, weight, hair, cock size and smoking ect all play a part.
Depends on the individual.
There is def a greater balance of women who say they don't meet Asian tho than black, white or oriental |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved."
Lol true - any hole a goal.
Relationship though? Different matter altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet. "
might have something to do with the fact that you are shhhmoking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does to me.
I'm not sexually attracted to Black women.
And I'm Black myself.
My Dad is the same. My mum is white. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's something there although I can't quite put my finger on it |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved."
Really? I have been turned down for being black/Asian. I have been dis-invited to parties too when they found out I am not white. Apparently, my pictures make me look tanned and I was being deceptive by not making it clear that I am not white.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's true and in London you have to be a bbc to meet the women here lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's true and in London you have to be a bbc to meet the women here lol."
Not true. ...I've chatted to many a bbc who struggle to meet women in London. |
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
That's because you're so good "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's true and in London you have to be a bbc to meet the women here lol.
Not true. ...I've chatted to many a bbc who struggle to meet women in London. "
You are right and as well meant on 95% on womens profile they are after them. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"That's true and in London you have to be a bbc to meet the women here lol."
nah, sky is better, much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved.
Really? I have been turned down for being black/Asian. I have been dis-invited to parties too when they found out I am not white. Apparently, my pictures make me look tanned and I was being deceptive by not making it clear that I am not white.
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I think he meant most men obviously not all men and some couples are more fussy because there are two of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers"
Cos here are loads of men for them to fuck so don't need to complain lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved."
From experience that's not true, I'm Sicilian and have been turned down for not being English a few times |
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved.
Really? I have been turned down for being black/Asian. I have been dis-invited to parties too when they found out I am not white. Apparently, my pictures make me look tanned and I was being deceptive by not making it clear that I am not white.
I think he meant most men obviously not all men and some couples are more fussy because there are two of them."
Yes, exactly that. Shall we say 99% of men?
The two of you who said you'd been knocked back because you weren't white and English... Do you know if any females were involved in those decisions? I ask because history shows us no matter how racist a white male may be he's still gonna fuck a non-white female. |
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Especially if he can keep it on the down low. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Especially if he can keep it on the down low."
I have had men on their own tell me I was trying to pass as white. The party situations were more complex. Men had invited me and then uninvited me when others attending said they wouldn't go if there were non-whites. |
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"Especially if he can keep it on the down low.
I have had men on their own tell me I was trying to pass as white. The party situations were more complex. Men had invited me and then uninvited me when others attending said they wouldn't go if there were non-whites."
You've gotta stop attracting that 1% Lickety |
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Race irrelevant for us here. Love all skin shades, and have liked people from all races we've ever met.
Instead we discriminate on attitude, safety, respect, willingness to confirm an actual female in the couple ahead of a meet, smoking, and spelling in profiles and messages. That cuts out quite enough people thanks very much |
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over a year ago
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"I've never had any problems getting a meet.
Funnily enough, I've never read a single Asian/Indian girl on here complain about lack of offers.
That's because men don't care what race they fuck as long there's a vagina involved.
Really? I have been turned down for being black/Asian. I have been dis-invited to parties too when they found out I am not white. Apparently, my pictures make me look tanned and I was being deceptive by not making it clear that I am not white.
I think he meant most men obviously not all men and some couples are more fussy because there are two of them.
Yes, exactly that. Shall we say 99% of men?
The two of you who said you'd been knocked back because you weren't white and English... Do you know if any females were involved in those decisions? I ask because history shows us no matter how racist a white male may be he's still gonna fuck a non-white female."
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"Race irrelevant for us here. Love all skin shades, and have liked people from all races we've ever met.
Instead we discriminate on attitude, safety, respect, willingness to confirm an actual female in the couple ahead of a meet, smoking, and spelling in profiles and messages. That cuts out quite enough people thanks very much "
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"I'm not sure but I'm under the impression that race play an important role in meet. I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
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Doesn't bother me in the slightest - it's not something I even think about. |
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over a year ago
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"It does to me.
I'm not sexually attracted to Black women.
And I'm Black myself.
My Dad is the same. My mum is white. "
You're not black - you're mixed race.
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I think you're either attracted to someone or not and if it is an issue for another person then it's inconsciquiencal because you probably would not meet up anyway. Personally I find different races a bit more attractive because of the difference. I tend to be sensual so am drawn to difference as it's something new and unexplored. |
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"I think you're either attracted to someone or not and if it is an issue for another person then it's inconsciquiencal because you probably would not meet up anyway. Personally I find different races a bit more attractive because of the difference. I tend to be
sensual so am drawn to difference as it's something new and unexplored."
Very true. I too love the contrast.
Different shades rubbing up, merging and banging.
When my other half and I make love - it's like a coffee and cream explosion
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"I think you're either attracted to someone or not and if it is an issue for another person then it's inconsciquiencal because you probably would not meet up anyway. Personally I find different races a bit more attractive because of the difference. I tend to be
sensual so am drawn to difference as it's something new and unexplored.
Very true. I too love the contrast.
Different shades rubbing up, merging and banging.
When my other half and I make love - it's like a coffee and cream explosion
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Sounds Yum! |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
"It is not so much a racial issue, more of a personal taste.
Why meet up with someone that does nothing for you.
If you have a thing for blondes, would you go with a brunette."
well said !
Why always try to put it down to race, its a personal preference thing for us, our bodies our game, do you believe we should change our choices because you feel hard done by, accept and move on ..... we do when we don't suceed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think if i got to know someone it wouldn't matter so much but meeting a stranger just for sex is different. |
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"I believe people don't meet you if your indian or Asian I think.
I meet Indian and Asian girls, in fact I see their ethnicity as a plus as I love dark skin."
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I struggle with the race issue.
I have friends from a lot of countries, I struggle with some ideologies.
Racist? Possibly.
Love humanity - totally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Especially if he can keep it on the down low.
I have had men on their own tell me I was trying to pass as white. The party situations were more complex. Men had invited me and then uninvited me when others attending said they wouldn't go if there were non-whites."
That is a party I would avoid like the clap... |
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Nope! |
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I'd like to think not, but I guess it's sometimes reflective of wider society, just a microcosm
It'll be important for some, not so much for others. Think there's a difference between being attracted to someone of a different race and being racist (though I don't think that's the nub of the thread )
So long as people are comfortable in their own skin and like the cut of the jib in others I think that's the key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. If i fancy you, the colour of your skin doesn't matter |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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All down to polite individual preference.
Some people refuse to meet small height people, bald people, certain colour haired people. Some avoid certain personalities, attitudes, sexual bias.
There's masses of do's donts, likes dislikes etc.
Basically they go for what appeals so if race is one of their likes or dislikes so be it.
Simple really. |
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"All down to polite individual preference.
Some people refuse to meet small height people, bald people, certain colour haired people. Some avoid certain personalities, attitudes, sexual bias.
There's masses of do's donts, likes dislikes etc.
Basically they go for what appeals so if race is one of their likes or dislikes so be it.
Simple really."
I so agree, if there is no mutual attraction then there is no point to the meet...xx |
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