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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After chattin for a few months being told will me do like you and phone chats.
And finding time because both busy then you find out that on several occassions was free but the other person has met with someone else.
After makin a friendship which still told is great.
What would you do ?
Neither lookin for relationship so ill make that clear.
Just feel like had the piss taken out of them.
Genuine replys of advice please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's any number of reasons. The only way to know is to ask the person involved. We no nothing of the backstory. Best thing to do is don't over analyse others behaviour. It'll drive you to distraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think she only added you as friend to enhance her profile. Lots and lots of guys to choose from.
I suppose she may get round to you sometime but dont take it personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can have a good chat friend who has real life commitments that get in the way.
I have been chatting to a lady I met socially once, before she left here. We have now been chatting for 3 years.
She is a nurse and her hours can be unpredictable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you can decide, we don't know the whole dynamic of your friendship. If it is a negative rather than a positive in your life then I would say move on. I have friends though that I've spoken to for ages and for different reasons we've not met yet or because of distance it is difficult to meet easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a Led Zeppelin mug 
*courtesy of the useless information department*
I raise you your Led Zep for my DD mug 
I think I saw it first "
But what have you to offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry had a rethink and ive been lied to and only want advice on this please not sarcy remarks we are all here for fun and friends not to be messed "
Unfortunately on here some people do lie. I had someone tell me he couldn't meet when I was free, then he displayed a veri for that day, he reckoned it was a old one. just move on, there are decent people here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry had a rethink and ive been lied to and only want advice on this please not sarcy remarks we are all here for fun and friends not to be messed "
We've had this a few times from a couple of people. They get 2 chances. Then we block them. If you are happy meeting friends then great but if you are only chatting as a prelude to meeting, blowing you out twice is a pretty good indication its never gonna happen and makes you look a bit desperate if you keep hanging on letting them do it again and again. Just block and move on  |
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"After chattin for a few months being told will me do like you and phone chats.
And finding time because both busy then you find out that on several occassions was free but the other person has met with someone else.
After makin a friendship which still told is great.
What would you do ?
Neither lookin for relationship so ill make that clear.
Just feel like had the piss taken out of them.
Genuine replys of advice please "
On the days that you weren't available - someone else was.
If you are truly a friend be glad she was having a good time.
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What's to say she hadn't been talking to the other guys for longer so met them first?
There is no right to meet someone regardless of how long you have been speaking to them. You are just sounding childish here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op woman here get a lots of offers. And I am sorry to say but you sound like one of a number she can pick and she did not pick you . Maybe she think she is being nice and not saying she don't really wish to meet as know you will not like the truth some woman do that here as really only wish to chat . Why not have a go on a dating site that way you know people are looking for more than sex and could offer you more . And you sound like your looking for more to me as most here wish to shag and move to the next no ties .. Some don't even wish to know who as maybe will never meet again . Some will chat lead you on a never meet, Its maybe knowing you lust after her is what she really likes and that's it. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry had a rethink and ive been lied to and only want advice on this please not sarcy remarks we are all here for fun and friends not to be messed "
The saucy remarks are what makes the forums worth reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a china mug with a snowman on ..... very seasonal
Ok you win since its a seasonal item..goes back into my corner with my DD mug 
Put the kettle on while you're over there "
Milk n sugar ? |
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"I have a china mug with a snowman on ..... very seasonal
Ok you win since its a seasonal item..goes back into my corner with my DD mug
Put the kettle on while you're over there
Milk n sugar ? "
Not for me thanks. Stir it clockwise tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its all letters on a page or words down a phone until you actually meet - it can hurt but you have to put it behind you and carry on - you can even meet and be left with a veri that says how wonderful it was and then never be spoke to again by that person - that's just the way of it sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op woman here get a lots of offers. And I am sorry to say but you sound like one of a number she can pick and she did not pick you . Maybe she think she is being nice and not saying she don't really wish to meet as know you will not like the truth some woman do that here as really only wish to chat . Why not have a go on a dating site that way you know people are looking for more than sex and could offer you more . And you sound like your looking for more to me as most here wish to shag and move to the next no ties .. Some don't even wish to know who as maybe will never meet again . Some will chat lead you on a never meet, Its maybe knowing you lust after her is what she really likes and that's it. x "
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Sorry to sound harsh but I have been the woman in that situation a few times and my reply is that we are not in a relationship and therefore I will meet who I want and when I want, the guys don't appreciate it but I don't dictate on who they should meet, at the end if the day op it's the ladies social life to do with as she pleases |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a china mug with a snowman on ..... very seasonal
Ok you win since its a seasonal item..goes back into my corner with my DD mug
Put the kettle on while you're over there
Milk n sugar ?
Not for me thanks. Stir it clockwise tho "
Why am I stirring it woman ya neither want milk of sugar....jeez just drink it and be thankful I made ya one...pffft |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You say ... Neither lookin for relationship so ill make that clear.
OP You say your friend and that come across strong here in this post. You would not care and have feelings, You would just say go have fun and maybe fit me in when you can. |
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