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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you behaved differently online or Same as in normal life . ? I know it make some feel more powerful and confident and say and do things here they would never do to your face has it changed you going online?.
Was reading this and found it really very sad in a way and I know things change
Psychotherapist Peter Bradley, said that the desire for so many to adopt a different identity online was a cause for concern because the children were being divorced from reality.
cyberspace is detachable from the real world and a place where you explore parts of their behaviour and personality that they possibly would not show in real life. We can't allow cyberworlds to be happier places than our real communities, otherwise we are creating a generation of young people not functioning adequately in our society.’
Around 10 per cent said they changed aspects of their appearance and their personality for their online activity.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Do you behaved differently online or Same as in normal life . ? I know it make some feel more powerful and confident and say and do things here they would never do to your face has it changed you going online?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah. I'm more outrageous at times on line (in this forum) than in real life. I take the piss and mess around more, mainly because it is a bit of an escape from my normal responsibilities. However my underlying personality is the same just softer in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't say strip to your corset or show us your white bits in vanilla world lol "
you could if you meet me face to face and we liked each other . lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't say strip to your corset or show us your white bits in vanilla world lol "
 very true as the fear of being slapped holds back the sub conscious mind. In cyber world we can hide behind the screen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You now find kids not just kids go in there rooms online for hours and hours not going out a lot .. I know the cyber world is good in lots of ways but so bad in others . And its changed my life as I had not written a letter in my life or nothing until I come online. I Would get others to do it for me. Still not the best but I now give it a go ..   |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I turn away from as many threads online as I do conversations in real life. I don't pick and choose, it's just what I can be bothered with at the time.
Online though, you do have the availability to think before you type.. something which is sometimes not a luxury in life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I turn away from as many threads online as I do conversations in real life. I don't pick and choose, it's just what I can be bothered with at the time.
Online though, you do have the availability to think before you type.. something which is sometimes not a luxury in life"
yes but online it's out there in cyberspace what you say for ever . Not always good . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my friends and all of my workmates know what I get up to here. Same was true in previous job....up to director level.
Why should we behave differently if our behaviour on here is our real selves? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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I'm (male) better face to face, you get feedback off expressions and you gauge better the type of person you are communicating with.
Plus, I suspect Trolls are not at their best face to face.  |
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"Yeah. I'm more outrageous at times on line (in this forum) than in real life. I take the piss and mess around more, mainly because it is a bit of an escape from my normal responsibilities. However my underlying personality is the same just softer in real life."
Same. On here, I'm a slightly more extreme version of me. Why? Because I can. There again, in real life, people don't say stupid things to me as much as they do on here so my ascerbicity is very low level in real life. I really am a well chilled out, polite and relaxed guy - just as the profile says. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm (male) better face to face, you get feedback off expressions and you gauge better the type of person you are communicating with.
Plus, I suspect Trolls are not at their best face to face. "
It's all them goats that need herding.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Do you behaved differently online or Same as in normal life . ? I know it make some feel more powerful and confident and say and do things here they would never do to your face has it changed you going online?.
Was reading this and found it really very sad in a way and I know things change
Psychotherapist Peter Bradley, said that the desire for so many to adopt a different identity online was a cause for concern because the children were being divorced from reality.
cyberspace is detachable from the real world and a place where you explore parts of their behaviour and personality that they possibly would not show in real life. We can't allow cyberworlds to be happier places than our real communities, otherwise we are creating a generation of young people not functioning adequately in our society.’
Around 10 per cent said they changed aspects of their appearance and their personality for their online activity.
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I'm the same here as in the REAL world.
Yet I have met one or two who were so different to their online proifle it alarmed me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you know I think people will one day have sex with their pc or laptop and maybe have things they get off the net to help and plug in and it cybersex you . lol See no need for a real person. Maybe its the things to come. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most of my friends and all of my workmates know what I get up to here. Same was true in previous job....up to director level.
Why should we behave differently if our behaviour on here is our real selves?"
Some people do I find and nothing like the person Online ... over the years meet some .. some better then the person here and some not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you know I think people will one day have sex with their pc or laptop and maybe have things they get off the net to help and plug in and it cybersex you . lol See no need for a real person. Maybe its the things to come. "
Like a vibrator and skype? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you know I think people will one day have sex with their pc or laptop and maybe have things they get off the net to help and plug in and it cybersex you . lol See no need for a real person. Maybe its the things to come. "
Zager and Evans......in the year 2525? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you know I think people will one day have sex with their pc or laptop and maybe have things they get off the net to help and plug in and it cybersex you . lol See no need for a real person. Maybe its the things to come.
Like a vibrator and skype?"
Yes and something like glasses you put on and your there in cyberspace .... you pick what setting and the sort of sex . From kinky to normal. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you know I think people will one day have sex with their pc or laptop and maybe have things they get off the net to help and plug in and it cybersex you . lol See no need for a real person. Maybe its the things to come.
Like a vibrator and skype? Yes and something like glasses you put on and your there in cyberspace .... you pick what setting and the sort of sex . From kinky to normal. lol"
Hmmm.....what's that thing callled?
Second Life?
Do they have a version of that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just as much of an idiot in real life as I am online "
I am as fair and honest as I am in the flesh the only difference between my personas is that I am more confident and bolder in the real world on a one to one basis.
I find it harder to explain myself in cyberspace for fear of being branded a fruit loop lol
It's possibly too late   |
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The same! Am easy going, smiley and happy & know how to conduct myself. I dislike unfairness and bitchy, obnoxious, nasty people and if directed at me or mine in person or on here( for example) I give as good as I get!
Treat others as they treat me ... Am no ones fool .... And in 'real' life am the same ( mrs )
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"The same! Am easy going, smiley and happy & know how to conduct myself. I dislike unfairness and bitchy, obnoxious, nasty people and if directed at me or mine in person or on here( for example) I give as good as I get!
Treat others as they treat me ... Am no ones fool .... And in 'real' life am the
same ( mrs )
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I'd like to know if you use a wardrobe to hang your clothes in, in real life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer virtual reality. I am on Skype and loads of chat rooms like mostly all day lol, if they did body sex suits would be cool, getting orgasms online but yes I gues I come across more confident online as I am abit shy in real world |
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"The same! Am easy going, smiley and happy & know how to conduct myself. I dislike unfairness and bitchy, obnoxious, nasty people and if directed at me or mine in person or on here( for example) I give as good as I get!
Treat others as they treat me ... Am no ones fool .... And in 'real' life am the
same ( mrs )
I'd like to know if you use a wardrobe to hang your clothes in, in real life? "
. Course! |
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I'm more uninhibited in the wider world where I can see and get a sense of who I'm with. In the internet world I may be a bit more to the point but always aim to be as respectful as anywhere else.
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