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"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
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Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!! "
It's certainly the most horrible and elaborate lie I have been told but not the worst lie.
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"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!!
It's certainly the most horrible and elaborate lie I have been told but not the worst lie.
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What, pray tell, was the worst? If you don't mind me asking that is. X |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!!
It's certainly the most horrible and elaborate lie I have been told but not the worst lie.
What, pray tell, was the worst? If you don't mind me asking that is. X"
There are two in close contention but the worst was probably being told that when he said he loved me he was thinking of the other person with my first name he couldn't say it to. That was said a few weeks after I miscarried our baby.
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"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!!
It's certainly the most horrible and elaborate lie I have been told but not the worst lie.
What, pray tell, was the worst? If you don't mind me asking that is. X
There are two in close contention but the worst was probably being told that when he said he loved me he was thinking of the other person with my first name he couldn't say it to. That was said a few weeks after I miscarried our baby.
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What a cunt!
Mine's not that bad.
Just was told he was in love with me...learnt it was a case of out of sight out of mind pretty quickly! broke my little heart though. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
The girl I job share with. She's a terrible liar, but not bright enough to be plausible or to just stick to things that won't be found out within 30 seconds, or just by opening a drawer. It's nothing on the scale of the fibs told above, but it has just robbed her of any credibility. |
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"The girl I job share with. She's a terrible liar, but not bright enough to be plausible or to just stick to things that won't be found out within 30 seconds, or just by opening a drawer. It's nothing on the scale of the fibs told above, but it has just robbed her of any credibility. "
It does that.
Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself. "
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
One guy was a no show for a meet. I sent him a rather sarcastic message after. His response was that he'd broken his leg playing football and was in hospital having pins put in it due to the severity of the break. He accused me of being a bunny boiler and insensitive and that he was glad we didn't meet after seeing what I was 'really' like. Made me feel utterly shit.
A couple of weeks later he posted a status saying how he was looking forward to skiing in France that week. Bastard. |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest. "
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship. "
That sounds insidious.  |
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over a year ago
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My ex would lie about anything and everything. He rang me once to tell me he was out on a job miles away and would be there for hours and so he'd be really late coming for dinner, if at all.
The twat forgot I had a caller display and could see he was ringing from his work number, which was 3 miles up the road. When he eventually turned up I told him his dinner was in the dog!  |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship. "
Ditto. My ex also told lies on a grand scale. His family told me he told his parents he was dying of cancer, yet outlived them. He never had cancer. He got hold of a guy's phone number and told him I'd left him cos he was dying of AIDS (obvious implication that I would be HIV positive). |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship.
Ditto. My ex also told lies on a grand scale. His family told me he told his parents he was dying of cancer, yet outlived them. He never had cancer. He got hold of a guy's phone number and told him I'd left him cos he was dying of AIDS (obvious implication that I would be HIV positive)."
Christ that makes fibbing about who had the last biscuit a bit trivial doesn't it??? What a twat !!! |
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my ex told the bank manager that his parents were stuck in a country that had just been taken over by a military regime and he needed money to get them out.
He got the money and a letter from the bank manager hoping that he managed to get his parents out safely.
They were staying in Wolverhampton at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy in a club that I started seeing... He made up a whole new life!! A few semi true bits thrown in but all twisted. I didn't find out until his lovely ex contacted me (thank goodness she did bless her) he's now engaged to a girl he knocked up while he was with me!!
Its put pay to any future relationships!!! I'll stick to cats and ponies!! Haha   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people lie so easily - they talk to you and you know theyre fibbing and the story goes on - like they almost believe what theyre telling you so much that i dont know whether to laugh or cry for them - i lied once and learnt a very valuable lesson and never do it again but its a way of life for some
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Family lies are the worst.some years ago I was led to believe a jolly big guy with white beard n red suit would leave me toys at Xmas if I was good,well I try to be good but I've had bugger all for decades,I'm starting to think it really was mum n dad after all. |
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Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time . And then told he was dead from a woman who new him too and after all that his sister said he had been working for her in the UK as no work on . I felt like a right fool. lol I think myself lucky I found out what he was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Family lies are the worst.some years ago I was led to believe a jolly big guy with white beard n red suit would leave me toys at Xmas if I was good,well I try to be good but I've had bugger all for decades,I'm starting to think it really was mum n dad after all."
maybe you werent trying hard enough to be good   |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time . And then told he was dead from a woman who new him too and after all that his sister said he had been working for her in the UK as no work on . I felt like a right fool. lol I think myself lucky I found out what he was."
I remember that. It was very heartless.
I think those that create such elaborate fantasies like the drama, even being found out is part of the thrill.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time "
On a not too dissimilar theme, a while ago a chap tried to get a meet with a uniform chaser as he was 'on leave from Afghanistan'. All of his pics were of him in uniform, which he seems to have worn to all of his meets, judging from the verifications and his username reflected being a soldier.
He fell down on two points, one someone had served with him at basic training and he'd not even finished that and two, he'd used the same details on another site, where he was claiming to be a mercenary/security specialist.... |
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"Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time
On a not too dissimilar theme, a while ago a chap tried to get a meet with a uniform chaser as he was 'on leave from Afghanistan'. All of his pics were of him in uniform, which he seems to have worn to all of his meets, judging from the verifications and his username reflected being a soldier.
He fell down on two points, one someone had served with him at basic training and he'd not even finished that and two, he'd used the same details on another site, where he was claiming to be a mercenary/security specialist...."
Its strange why some dream up stories maybe in their head they live it. Narcissistic Personality Disorder maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I busted a 'single guy' I'd met when I went trick or treating with my best friend and her little girl, he opened the door with his wife and son..... His face was priceless!!!! I held it together pretty well until we were down the road and nearly wet myself laughing!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I busted a 'single guy' I'd met when I went trick or treating with my best friend and her little girl, he opened the door with his wife and son..... His face was priceless!!!! I held it together pretty well until we were down the road and nearly wet myself laughing!!!
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wow that's real class .. xx And did take some guts. I bet you never had mail again . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex bf tried to pretend he was in the Paras before we met.
He actually wore his brothers uniform for pics.
The lies kept getting worse.. He cheated on me, but I found put sharpish and caught them at it... At his mothers... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship. "
My ex bf was like that. He'd lie about so many things and then when caught out try to convince me I was stupid or crazy. Everyone else could see it but me though.  |
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I was told by a woman she was divorced - we spoke on the phone without any restrictions on time etc, so all seemed good. I found out when he walked into the coffee shop where we were after following her.
Apparently, I wasn't the first she had done this to, the husband explained that to me as he frogmarched her out! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Its strange why some dream up stories maybe in their head they live it. Narcissistic Personality Disorder maybe."
I think he was working out his chances as a single guy and just comparing them to what he expected them to be if he wore a uniform and played on it. Lee narcissistic, than chancer |
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"Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time . And then told he was dead from a woman who new him too and after all that his sister said he had been working for her in the UK as no work on . I felt like a right fool. lol I think myself lucky I found out what he was.
I remember that. It was very heartless.
I think those that create such elaborate fantasies like the drama, even being found out is part of the thrill.
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And after all that he even asked to see me again .... I passed . You live and lean and it was a lifes lesson for me I had to learn maybe . |
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"Had a man friend saying he was going out on a very dangerous job and a war going on there at the time . And then told he was dead from a woman who new him too and after all that his sister said he had been working for her in the UK as no work on . I felt like a right fool. lol I think myself lucky I found out what he was.
I remember that. It was very heartless.
I think those that create such elaborate fantasies like the drama, even being found out is part of the thrill.
And after all that he even asked to see me again .... I passed . You live and lean and it was a lifes lesson for me I had to learn maybe ."
I too remember that episode with him Jo. Hope he gets knob rot.xxx |
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By *xpresMan
over a year ago
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Was told about this geezer called God n his son called Jesus or sumat.
He had parties n made home brew wine with other punters who made big boats or ate an Apple or a guy who started telling people howto live with 2 paving slabs with rules on... Bible or some bollox like that |
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"Someone told me he had been widowed for many years and was ready to meet new people now. After meeting several times he confessed his wife is still alive and still with him.
Oh goodness! That's 'orrible! What a thing to say!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship. "
Gaslighting. Did you recover? x |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship.
Gaslighting. Did you recover? x"
Yes, thank you .
Gaslighting? |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship.
Gaslighting. Did you recover? x
Yes, thank you .
Gaslighting? "
Google .. |
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Not sure on the worst lie but my mother is a compulsive liar, its so bad that I find it difficult to tell whether its a fabrication on the truth or an out and out lie because when you challenge her, she either denies saying it or ignores you whilst she tries to think up another lie to cover herself. I think its part of her 'victim' personality as she never takes responsibility for anything she does wrong, its always something or someone else fault and puts on this front so people think she is wonderful, tragically they all see her for what she is |
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"Not sure on the worst lie but my mother is a compulsive liar, its so bad that I find it difficult to tell whether its a fabrication on the truth or an out and out lie because when you challenge her, she either denies saying it or ignores you whilst she tries to think up another lie to cover herself. I think its part of her 'victim' personality as she never takes responsibility for anything she does wrong, its always something or someone else fault and puts on this front so people think she is wonderful, tragically they all see her for what she is "
The 'victims' are just the worst. It's sad really as they will ultimately end up lonely. |
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Some people are unable to tell the truth it's frightening and can make you doubt yourself.
A typical fib from her will be about when she washed some pots when we do a change over. She'll claim she washed up the night before and dried. I'll find a wet glass in the cupboard and she'll claim she had a drink in that 20 minutes ago. I then find 3 more wet glasses and she'll claim that she personally used all 4 in the last half hour. The lie is probably more work and hassle than just being honest.
My ex would lie about everything, every, single, little thing until I began to think I was the one who had things wrong. I can't begin to explain the damage that does to a person and a relationship.
Gaslighting. Did you recover? x
Yes, thank you .
Gaslighting?
Google .."
Have googled now...bloomin' 'eck I recognise a lot of that!
Luckily I have a very strong sense of self and I think that experience actually made it stronger. I was very young so not experienced enough in life to recognise it as abuse. |
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'I hope that people know me well enough and realise that I would never do anything to harm the country or anything improper. I never have. I think most people who have dealt with me think I am a pretty straight sort of a guy'.
Anthony Charles Lynton Blair |
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"'I hope that people know me well enough and realise that I would never do anything to harm the country or anything improper. I never have. I think most people who have dealt with me think I am a pretty straight sort of a guy'.
Anthony Charles Lynton Blair"
I guess how you found out is self-explanatory! |
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By *er_kateCouple
over a year ago
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An ex of mine told me she was pregnant so like an gentleman we got back together got a flat I decorated it and furnished it played happy families till she was about two when I came home from my second job early and found her in bed with sumone else sum things better of unsaid happened. I moved out a week later I got a letter of her explaining things and a copy of the paternity test taken when the baby was about six months old ???? |
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I suspect he doesn't bullshit at work... just with family 