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By *Pebble- OP Woman
over a year ago
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i've sat both sides of this fence, chafs after a while lol
i host Kink?BDSM events where we try to over lap for just a few hours with the swingers, to cater to those that are curious/interested
it seems its a marmite experiment 
a lot of folk into Kink/BDSM do whatever they do with limited (often no) sexual content, a lot of swingers don't mix in Kink/BDSM
i'd be interested in your opinions on this
thanks xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinky people find swinging uninteresting as it just vanilla sex with random or not so random people.
Swingers are either scared of kink or have no understanding why it's pleasurable.
They are very different interests although since more and more kinky people use this site they might have something in common? |
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spoke in depth with a guy who was a master and he says that kink is all about understanding and total trust where as swinging is sex with another.
Totally gets what he means but a little bondage does not hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously..
There is a difference between Kink and BDSM.
A very distinct difference.
Me personally, I'm not into BDSM..but I am into kinky shit... 
I don't mean "shit"..in THAT way.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously..
There is a difference between Kink and BDSM.
A very distinct difference.
Me personally, I'm not into BDSM..but I am into kinky shit...
I don't mean "shit"..in THAT way. "
I struggle with articulating what I like. I'd rather leave slightly kinky things to avoid misinterpretation and risks being taken again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say more than 60% of females profiles round my way include the line "sub looking for domme" or "looking to be controlled" or words to that affect.
Seems a very 'grey' area  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say more than 60% of females profiles round my way include the line "sub looking for domme" or "looking to be controlled" or words to that affect.
Seems a very 'grey' area "
Similar near me, loads of profiles saying now owned |
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