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OK..So what do Hugs really do for you?
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.  "
Think we all do at times. Respecting a persons wishes is the order of any day. Enforced/unwelcome hugs make people feel worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends who's giving them and why. When I'm suffering with a bout of PTSD I just want everyone to bugger off and not speak to me. Trying to hug me is the last thing anyone should do. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.
Think we all do at times. Respecting a persons wishes is the order of any day. Enforced/unwelcome hugs make people feel worse. "
Yes I agree cause then the person who doesn't want to hug doesn't want to hurt the feelings of the hug giver then ends up feeling worse than when they started  |
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone. "
If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic  |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.
If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic "
Obviously you are easily confused this evening it makes perfect sense to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends....if I'm very emotional a well meaning hug will send me over the edge and I'll dissolve into tears.
If I'm down then a hug is a good pick me up. |
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I love hugging. I feel close to people I spend time with and it's good to share your connection by doing more than just sex. And if you do some of what I do then the person you are with will need care and attention 
I also just love hugging |
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.
If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic Obviously you are easily confused this evening it makes perfect sense to me. "
My answer not help then? more analysis please fab community.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think they definitely can make the hug giver and receiver feel better. Depends on the dynamics between them. Although when I'm ill, I generally prefer to be left alone , but when I'm sad - I like hugs. When someone runs into your arms for a hug, that's the best feeling in the world. |
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"It usually makes me feel good when it's someone I love.
if It's off a dude, I'm conscious of the crotch distance "
Sorry why are you fantasising about his cock? (Fruedian slip if ever I read one ) |
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"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone."
God yes, I love long luscious hugs that go on and on - from the right fella!! There's nothing conveys emotional warmth like a good hug!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill?  "
I guess it depends what is causing the person to feel sad ... and also what part of illness they are having to come to terms with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill?
I guess it depends what is causing the person to feel sad ... and also what part of illness they are having to come to terms with "
well Yer can put some clothes on before I hug Yer you saucy minx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I'm ill, I want everyone to F**k off and leave me alone 
If I'm feeling a bit down a cwtch can work wonders
If it's a really sad occasion then I'd rather not have a cwtch as that would bring on the tears...or make them worse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love hugging. I feel close to people I spend time with and it's good to share your connection by doing more than just sex. And if you do some of what I do then the person you are with will need care and attention
I also just love hugging "
This 
I love hugging it's such a wonderful thing, it relaxes me and makes me feel more wanted and cared for than just sex alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts
plus, who wants a snotty shoulder  "
Definitely snot |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts
plus, who wants a snotty shoulder
Definitely snot"
That's snot funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It usually makes me feel good when it's someone I love.
if It's off a dude, I'm conscious of the crotch distance
Sorry why are you fantasising about his cock? (Fruedian slip if ever I read one )"
Where did I say anything about "fantasising"? |
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