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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I travel all over the UK with my work as a contracts manager and obviously I have been thinking that t would be fun to see if I could meet with people possibly during the day or if I am in a hotel for the night then meet for the evening !!!
However it would be at very short notice maybe a day or 2 before or even the same day !! so my question is would you be offended if I contacted you to say some thing like
I am in your area on business today !! and wondered if you might like to meet up ... so bearing in mind it may only be a meet that day or a meet overnight would you be offended.
Would like your considered opinion guys thx
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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For some reason I read the thread title as "onions please "
No, we wouldn't be offended to get a mail like that, but normally the answer is no thanks as we normally get those mails through the week when we don't play with playmates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt be offended at all if i got such a message, my problem is im a single working mum so last min meets arnt always possible for me as i have to work my meets round work and the kids, but if i got such a message and i was free i'd be more than happy to pop along to a local hotel for a drink and maybe some fun if we liked each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I state no hotel meets: ever!! Therefore some randy saleman (my interpretation, NOT saying you are) contacting me because he has nothing to do while in my area and too cheap to visit a prostitute would annoy me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some reason I read the thread title as "onions please "
No, we wouldn't be offended to get a mail like that, but normally the answer is no thanks as we normally get those mails through the week when we don't play with playmates."
Should have gone to Specsavers, lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am beginning to think the same thing !!  "
Although I imagine someting over 8 inches with a couple of onion sized accoutrements wouldn't escape your beady eye |
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"You imagine right 
hello, hello
my name is Rene VIII and i'm selling ze onions next weekend in Derby.
you vill recognise me, i am ze one with the stripey top."
Why does that sound so German in my head?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i respond to every message as its only polite. i rarely meet anyone for a meet under these circumstances, but have met people for drinks.
social company can be fun too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have Friends I visit when away on Business whom I've met on the Forums and Site, I think once you get to know someone then it doesn't matter if your visiting the Area or not as you have clicked in some way, remember how many People use the Forums compared to how many People are actually on the Site who dont post in the Forums, your chances are still fair !
There are also the People who much prefer someone from Miles away so they have no chance of bumping into you in the Street, you can't match everyones requirements but you will match some  |
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"please be advised that depending on the answers here some people may be getting a message in their in box lol
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well in that case
hehe
wouldnt be offended and have often had this sort of meet as i can do short notice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hypothetically it wouldn't offend us at all but in reality a msg like that would remind me of the double glazing salesmen trawling the streets and knocking on doors saying exactly the same, we're in you are today and thought .......!!!
Now they just get on my tits! They usually look smarmy and tend to make my skin crawl with there 'tango'd' appearance and whiter than white teeth!LOL
It would probably be a no thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ha love the replies !!!
can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol
I work for a construction company and I carry out site surveys !!! this also involves me dressing up in hard hat hi vis jacket rigger boots... lol deffo not the village people look before you all start lmao......
Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.
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"doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA.."
hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB
better not mention i keep my own limited company |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA..
hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB
better not mention i keep my own limited company"
so when u in southampton then ????? the Devere is nice .... |
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"doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA..
hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB
better not mention i keep my own limited company"
MGB= Mushroom Grow Bag
dont be fooled ladies
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It very much depends how the message is worded... some peeve me off a tad - as previously stated by another - it sometimes sounds more like someone looking for a freebie hooker.
Best bet is start with the 'meet today' folk. |
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"doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA..
hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB
better not mention i keep my own limited company
MGB= Mushroom Grow Bag
dont be fooled ladies
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you've named,
i'm shamed,
Ref, REF!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not offended but i prefer to meet socially first, so if you fancy a coffee next time you are in gloucester fine but dont push the hotel bit, always makes me feel obligated to have sex with someone, fed up with pushy idiots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not offended but i prefer to meet socially first, so if you fancy a coffee next time you are in gloucester fine but dont push the hotel bit, always makes me feel obligated to have sex with someone, fed up with pushy idiots "
dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control...... .ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control...... .ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes "
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Their loss, not yours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control...... .ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes
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Their loss, not yours! "
this whole lifestyle is about choice ...i want to look in my wardrobe mirrors and see someone behind me that i want to look at who makes me smile !!! im not here for the obligatory shag ,,,im one fussy lady .im guessing you are too ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I state no hotel meets: ever!! Therefore some randy saleman (my interpretation, NOT saying you are) contacting me because he has nothing to do while in my area and too cheap to visit a prostitute would annoy me. "
Yep...kinda see it from that prspective myself...not for me at all... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this whole lifestyle is about choice ...i want to look in my wardrobe mirrors and see someone behind me that i want to look at who makes me smile !!! im not here for the obligatory shag ,,,im one fussy lady .im guessing you are too ! "
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On the rare occassions when I lowered my standards, the results are not favourable or pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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following on from the diverse replies I would just like to say...
I would never ever push the hotel side of things and, like I have already said sometimes I am not in town for very long but it would be nice to meet with people from the area for a cuppa or a sandwich !!! whatever really.
And it's great to meet new people and hopefully make new friends along the way and if something else good comes out of it the thats fantastic..
Once again thank you for you honest replies.
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"Ha love the replies !!!
can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol
I work for a construction company and I carry out site surveys !!! this also involves me dressing up in hard hat hi vis jacket rigger boots... lol deffo not the village people look before you all start lmao......
Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.
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bloody hell it sounds like you have my old job or something very simular.
when i was doing the traveling bit all the time i never contacted anyone to meet, however i dont think we would be offended by the contact but on the other hand we dont meet blokes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha love the replies !!!
can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol
I work for a construction company and I carry out site surveys !!! this also involves me dressing up in hard hat hi vis jacket rigger boots... lol deffo not the village people look before you all start lmao......
Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.
bloody hell it sounds like you have my old job or something very simular.
when i was doing the traveling bit all the time i never contacted anyone to meet, however i dont think we would be offended by the contact but on the other hand we dont meet blokes.
Steve "
well I imagine a few people have similar jobs, and it has only just occured to me that why not try and meet people while I am in their area !!!!
Seems to me a great way to make some great new friends !!! and like I said it is not about getting notches on the bedpost HONEST !!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we get mail like this all the time, some classics include, will be near you tonight fancy coming to my hotel for a fuck,
we never would meet like this as we prefere to have repeat meets with the same people, also if its a single male, we would think that maybe he is playing away from home.
however im sure many do meet like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I travel all over the country with my job and hotels are more like a second home to me. I know where i am going a week before i go so i arrange something then if i can.
I wouldn't say i have people queuing outside the hotel but i have had a few meets which can beat the boredom of watching the television.
I change my area to wherever i am going and put myself on the meets section and take it from there. |
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