Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think. |
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In all honesty..l agree, it's rubbish to think giving oral is a submissive act. Though I can see how perhaps being asked to lay on a bed and having a female ride your mouth/tongue may seem submissive.
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then  "
unless the wall stops you sliding down  |
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then
unless the wall stops you sliding down "
Indeed oh sexy one, indeed  |
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then "
I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do. |
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then
I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."
You could still tell her to bend over, assume the position because you're going to tongue fuck her til she screams.... doesn't sound submissive to me 
Maybe she just doesn't like oral very much or has not experienced being driven to begging during it lol |
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then
I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."
So you are doing as she says? |
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"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."
Sounds like they have ideas about what they enjoy and what they don't enjoy.
Not everyone shares the same ideas - fortunately. |
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then
I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."
try tying her to the bed, ordering her not to cum.... then licking her till shes at the brink. repeat this 5 times not allowing her to orgasm. not too submissive now is it |
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"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."
I love oral sex. Just thought I'd say.  |
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Not being rude to anyone. But, lately (from what i can see on profiles and around fab), it seems to be all about this sub/dom behaviour. I just don't get it.
Seems like a sudden influx of it all to me.
But. Back to the topic at hand - that's a load of frog bollocks in my opinion. I like to lick pussy and it does not make me sub in anyway nor do i feel as though i'm being dominated.
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I don't see it as a submissive act if the man enjoys doing it. A Dominant man should still want to please a woman sexually or he's not being a true male. That's my take on it anyway |
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"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."
more like men use the excuse of being dom to get out of giving oral cause they just selfish buggers |
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"I don't see it as a submissive act if the man enjoys doing it. A Dominant man should still want to please a woman sexually or he's not being a true male. That's my take on it anyway "
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"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then
I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do.
So you are doing as she says? "
Doing as she says? You like being told what to do? |
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When I give oral sex to a lady I am in control. I decide how what and when. She is a passenger as drive the action.
I like to tease and play brinkmanship with her orgasm. Love the feeling of her pulling my head in further and grinding her orgasm out against my face.
So OP...those ladies who said that are obv missing a trick somewhere. |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
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Oral sex a submissive act? Totally up to the mouth of the giver, surely? If a guy wants face sitting, he would be a sub ? otherwise controlling the oral sex given he would be Dom and who cares as long as the receiver enjoys it! |
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I really cannot see how giving oral makes you a submissive man unless she is ordering you to do it of course.
I love being made to cum again and again at the tongue of my OH.
I didn't used to like oral, I much preferred to give than receive but that's because I wasn't relaxed enough while receiving...I was too worried I wasn't reacting right which sounds odd but I hope someone gets me lol as soon as I learned to just go with what was happening and enjoy the moment the orgasms came thick and fast!!
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Any behaviour is what you want to make of it. Eating chocolate is a protest statement against climate change, etc.
Some sexual acts can be made to be more dominant or submissive, such as oral or fucking, but they don't implicitly have that, unless you potentially adapt it or attach your meaning to it. |
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Yet another strange take on the Dom/Sub relationship 
My Bitch just yanked my Dick out n raped it with her Tonsils 
Does that make me submissive? I dont think so 
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