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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well been chatting to my best mates sister... been getting on fantastic and now she wants to meet up... she has made it very clear that it will be more than a drink.... in fact she said we can had a drink afterwards..... am i crossing a line that should not be crossed????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeing as you can't keep quiet about it on here there is a big likelihood he will find out. Do you think he will mind that a big mouth has shagged his sister and told everyone about it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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dont know why this has posted twice.... no done anything with her and he aint on hear so won't see the post..... it just more of a question to say am i crossing a line or should i just go for it and deal with aftermath as and when it comes up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello Tonguebyname,
I really can't understand all the negative answers.
She is, I'm assuming, an adult and can make her own mind up to do what and with whom she wants? The fact that she is your mate's sister is irrelevant and if he thinks there's something wrong with that it's his attitude that is wrong.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no line to be crossed. She isn't YOUR sister. I assume she is above age of consent. No problem.
I have a friend on here. Her (then) 19 yr old daughter asked to come back to Malvern and stay the weekend. Didn't hesitate and had a great time. We then both told her mum....she was fine with it and is still a good friend and occasional playmate!
Boots......fill 'em mate! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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bobby my phone posted it twice for some unknown reason..... as for the sister.... yes we are both adult and both single so maybe there is no need for concern but its what happens if it gose down hill..... is it worth risking a friendship of over 20 years for a bit of fun..... who know what will happen.... and he dont have to know any details dose he |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i don't see it as a problem like someone esle said it would be his issue not yours. And would he be that bothered? If you have been mates for so long then it should be ok... And he won't want to know the grizzly details. But you must treat her with respect as that will be his main problem i would think... |
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Omg I've had the exact same thing happen to me. She likes me and is always being cheeky with me. Even my mates wife has said why don't I take her out for a drink??
What she doesn't know is my mates sister is sending me texts asking to come round and get my cock sucked. As tempting as it was i had to refuse..... |
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Don't see the problem here myself. You're both adults it actually doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. I don't know who makes up all these bullshit unseen rules that you shouldn't do this or that.
Why do you even think there'll be fall out after? All I see is two consenting adults who want to have some fun. Go for it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for all the points guys most taken on board..... i can honestly say i don't know what i will do.... maybe go for a beer with my mate and see what he says about it.... he could be happy he could be totally deaf against it time will tell..... once again thanks everyone |
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"bobby my phone posted it twice for some unknown reason..... as for the sister.... yes we are both adult and both single so maybe there is no need for concern but its what happens if it gose down hill..... is it worth risking a friendship of over 20 years for a bit of fun..... who know what will happen.... and he dont have to know any details dose he "
It posted it in two separate forums too,
clever these smart phones.  |
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"bobby my phone posted it twice for some unknown reason..... as for the sister.... yes we are both adult and both single so maybe there is no need for concern but its what happens if it gose down hill..... is it worth risking a friendship of over 20 years for a bit of fun..... who know what will happen.... and he dont have to know any details dose he
It posted it in two separate forums too,
clever these smart phones. "
maybe he stutters  |
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Something tells me that the fact you're asking this question means that you probably already know that something is up.
Your relationship with best friend of over twenty years should be worth more than a shag. A relationship is a different thing.
Identify what the issue is. If you are a guy of high standards you can find shags. And if you're a guy of high moral standards then you don't do anything to unsettle your bond. Friends are there in good times as well as the bad. You don't create the bad stuff to help test your bonds.
I can't tell whether he's cool with it all, come what may. But you've taken your unease about it and raised it publicly so I assume its a poor idea. |
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