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"how do you define a swinger? we personally think thats cpls are swingers. singles arent? im not having a go at singles we have met both single fems and single guys but im just saying a single isnt a swinger? ok let the sparks fly .,... lol auds xx "http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/19896 il come back to this later lol  | |||
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However, all things evolve over the passing of time and now I am more ready to accept single status people as swingers | |||
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"I hate the term swinger and don't class myself as one 70s parties where you all chuck your keys in the fruit bowl comes to mind " I know what you mean. I mean really, who has a fruit bowl these days! | |||
"I hate the term swinger and don't class myself as one 70s parties where you all chuck your keys in the fruit bowl comes to mind I know what you mean. I mean really, who has a fruit bowl these days!" Or nylon flares?.....ok don't answer that one | |||
"i know what you mean but i think both sngles and couples are swingers... all though singles i suppose you could call players or something similar.... not meanig to offend. but ye we are all swingers... you're not getting out of the tarring that easy you singles you x lol "to me "player" has a negative conotation...someone who will say anything to get you to sleep with them...I would rather not be thought of as a player... | |||
"how do you define a swinger? we personally think thats cpls are swingers. singles arent? im not having a go at singles we have met both single fems and single guys but im just saying a single isnt a swinger? ok let the sparks fly .,... lol auds xx "Its a matter of choice. What is in a word anyway and why should anyone really care? | |||
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"seems that without us single none affiliated cocks for loan having accomodation we share for the benefit of the swinging couples community there wouldnt be a great deal of it going on to be excluded from "There are plenty of hotels about to play in. I have has some great times in them. | |||
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"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!! "I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun. If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other. | |||
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"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other."Totally agree with Rugby... took the words right out of our mouths | |||
"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other."Note I didn't say ALL couples!  | |||
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""Swingers" in our opinion relates to established couples, married or otherwise, fb`s not included. Singles, again in our opinion, tag along for a "free ride", there, said it (off to the Anderson shelter for a wee while). "Free ride?!! | |||
"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other.
Note I didn't say ALL couples! "Personally I think any couples who swing because they are missing something with your partner shouldn't be swinging. The sad part is a lot of people think that couples do this because of that reason, and I am guessing for the majority that isn't the case. We get the old " your man can't satisfy you so you are looking for others" a lot and that we also get from the couples we turn down who are looking for another female to join them. I think it is an insult to be honest, but thats just me. I don't see anyone saying singles are not allowed into swinging though so I don't know why there are some defensive posts about. Whatever we are all on here for, it is allowed as long as it is legal. | |||
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"Oh, I posted too late, someone just did say singles shouldn't be allowed "Keep up woman hehehehehehehehehe | |||
"Oh, I posted too late, someone just did say singles shouldn't be allowed
Keep up woman hehehehehehehehehe"I need faster fingers !! | |||
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"LOL.....nope not going to say it "Chicken !! | |||
""Swingers" in our opinion relates to established couples, married or otherwise, fb`s not included. Singles, again in our opinion, tag along for a "free ride", there, said it (off to the Anderson shelter for a wee while). "Ouch! lol So singles really have no part in this scene? Nice to know we are are makeweights and playthings for the anointed few lol | |||
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"Swingle" already has its own definitions -
1 a wooden tool for beating flax and removing the woody parts from it
2 the swinging part of a flail
Definition 1 might be the one that the person who said singles shouldn't be in the scene would like i.e. they can use a Swingle to beat us all off the site with!! | |||
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"Singles having sex is just that…. sex. It requires no more values and beliefs than any Tom Dick or Janet out on the pull in town on a Saturday night. " no more values? I am single and I have single sex. the reason i use this site is because i do have a different set of values to those that go out on a saturday night, get d*unk and have a quick fumble with a complete stranger whose name they will never remember and repeating this event so regularly that they dont recall how many they've had. No call to them, if that satisfies them, then crack on and no harm done to me. i value myself and sex to the point that I would rather meet a few playmates who i can establish something mutually satisfactory with based on total respect and understanding. | |||
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""Swingers" in our opinion relates to established couples, married or otherwise, fb`s not included. Singles, again in our opinion, tag along for a "free ride", there, said it (off to the Anderson shelter for a wee while).
The insinuation is that the single is getting a 'free ride' with the partner.
If that's true however, then so is the converse - the partner is getting a 'free ride' with the single.
Thus making the statement redundant.
Free ride?!!" | |||
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"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!! "I don't need to enhance my sex life, I like to enhance my sex life. As for not wanting to play with my partner, I turn down at least 8 couples a day because the "magic" isn't there and I prefer playing with my partner where the magic is ALWAYS there. We don't meet single women or single men off the internet but occasionally play with them when we meet them at a club, because sometimes that's how our mood is. We play with others perhaps once every 3 months, or 3 times a week if we meet the right people at the right time, we have sex with each other every day. That's us can't speak for anyone else. | |||
"Singles having sex is just that…. sex. It requires no more values and beliefs than any Tom Dick or Janet out on the pull in town on a Saturday night. no more values? I am single and I have single sex. the reason i use this site is because i do have a different set of values to those that go out on a saturday night, get d*unk and have a quick fumble with a complete stranger whose name they will never remember and repeating this event so regularly that they dont recall how many they've had. No call to them, if that satisfies them, then crack on and no harm done to me. i value myself and sex to the point that I would rather meet a few playmates who i can establish something mutually satisfactory with based on total respect and understanding. " And who is to say Tom, Dick and Janet don't want that? Recreational sex is recreational sex... no matter where you get it, how often you get it or how many you get it from. In the context of the comment.... singles having recreational sex do not need to believe in 'swinging' to have a bit of rumpy pumpy.... couples having rumpy pumpy with additional people to their pertner do. | |||
"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other.
Note I didn't say ALL couples!
Personally I think any couples who swing because they are missing something with your partner shouldn't be swinging.
The sad part is a lot of people think that couples do this because of that reason, and I am guessing for the majority that isn't the case.
We get the old " your man can't satisfy you so you are looking for others" a lot and that we also get from the couples we turn down who are looking for another female to join them.
I think it is an insult to be honest, but thats just me.
I don't see anyone saying singles are not allowed into swinging though so I don't know why there are some defensive posts about.
Whatever we are all on here for, it is allowed as long as it is legal."We've had variations of this conversation before, when you asked me personally if I thought you did MFM because I thought your OH was some how lacking. I said - honestly - it never crossed my mind. You only have to read some posts on here, usually on a Sunday, after a couple have had a no show to get the impression that they were really gutted the other party(ies) didn't turn up, and almost as an aside it's, oh well, at least my partner was there, so at least I got a shag. Whilst other couples bounce on having a no show and they couldn't give a monkies as they had a brilliant night just the two of them. It's a matter of perception! I don't play with couples so I could care less, people have told me I should be on a fetish site could care even less. I'm here for my enjoyment, and people get defensive when others try to take a lofty attitude about who should and shouldn't swing! | |||
"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other.
Note I didn't say ALL couples!
Personally I think any couples who swing because they are missing something with your partner shouldn't be swinging.
The sad part is a lot of people think that couples do this because of that reason, and I am guessing for the majority that isn't the case.
We get the old " your man can't satisfy you so you are looking for others" a lot and that we also get from the couples we turn down who are looking for another female to join them.
I think it is an insult to be honest, but thats just me.
I don't see anyone saying singles are not allowed into swinging though so I don't know why there are some defensive posts about.
Whatever we are all on here for, it is allowed as long as it is legal."Singles get defensive because some people say they are not swingers in a site called fabswingers so do the math. There is an underlining element of resentment by some coupled towards single males. People can deny it all they like but it is a fact. | |||
"Hmmmm...I wonder what the couples that seem to need others to enhance their sex lives would do if there weren't single people to play with. Perish the thought...only play with each other?!! Not having a go mind, each to their own, personal preferences and all that...just wondering!!
I don't know about other couples but we don't NEED other people to play with to enhance our sex life, but we choose someone now and then to have extra fun.
If there was no one out there to play our games, our sex life wouldn't suffer as we have each other.
Note I didn't say ALL couples!
Personally I think any couples who swing because they are missing something with your partner shouldn't be swinging.
The sad part is a lot of people think that couples do this because of that reason, and I am guessing for the majority that isn't the case.
We get the old " your man can't satisfy you so you are looking for others" a lot and that we also get from the couples we turn down who are looking for another female to join them.
I think it is an insult to be honest, but thats just me.
I don't see anyone saying singles are not allowed into swinging though so I don't know why there are some defensive posts about.
Whatever we are all on here for, it is allowed as long as it is legal.
We've had variations of this conversation before, when you asked me personally if I thought you did MFM because I thought your OH was some how lacking.
I said - honestly - it never crossed my mind.
You only have to read some posts on here, usually on a Sunday, after a couple have had a no show to get the impression that they were really gutted the other party(ies) didn't turn up, and almost as an aside it's, oh well, at least my partner was there, so at least I got a shag. Whilst other couples bounce on having a no show and they couldn't give a monkies as they had a brilliant night just the two of them.
It's a matter of perception!
I don't play with couples so I could care less, people have told me I should be on a fetish site could care even less.
I'm here for my enjoyment, and people get defensive when others try to take a lofty attitude about who should and shouldn't swing! "To be honest, not remembering the conversation, but maybe then as now it might have been your comments that made me ask you. I am guessing though on the other point, that a no show is a pain in the arse and could be described as dissapointing or even that the person was gutted. For us, me especially I get a whole bunch of nerves and exceitment mixed when going on a meet, it is a build up thing, so by the time the person is meant to be at the meeting place I would be well ready for a horny meet.....so I think it would be disappointing if they bailed, even if I did have the OH here too. I now agree, that there are a couple of lofty attitudes of swinging on this thread, so you were right on that one, I had typed my answer before I saw the first one. As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples. | |||
Free love n peace to all
Who said the "fun" had gone out of the forums???? | |||
"As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples." my mum would disagree with that....she'd say none of us should be on here
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"how do you define a swinger? we personally think thats cpls are swingers. singles arent? im not having a go at singles we have met both single fems and single guys but im just saying a single isnt a swinger? ok let the sparks fly .,... lol auds xx "There is a pub called "The Swinger" on the outskirts of Nottingham on the road to Hucknall. It used to be the tram terminus and the term "Swinger" referred to the swinging of the pole that carried the power so that it faced backwards instead of forwards so that the tram could go back instead of turning around. That's how the pub got the name Swinger anyway. | |||
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"As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples. my mum would disagree with that....she'd say none of us should be on here
"I would imagine a lot of mums would say the same thing  | |||
"As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples. my mum would disagree with that....she'd say none of us should be on here
"Your mum used to be great fun on here, one of the best forumites we had. Then she had to delete her profile 'cos you showed up... | |||
"As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples. my mum would disagree with that....she'd say none of us should be on here
Your mum used to be great fun on here, one of the best forumites we had.
Then she had to delete her profile 'cos you showed up...
"aww, will pass it on, though must say.....she wasnt as complimentary of you.... | |||
"As you say, and I have said, as long as it is legal everyone is allowed on the site,there was one time we got told we shouldn't be here either as we don't play with couples. my mum would disagree with that....she'd say none of us should be on here
Your mum used to be great fun on here, one of the best forumites we had.
Then she had to delete her profile 'cos you showed up...
aww, will pass it on, though must say.....she wasnt as complimentary of you...."We had our differences of opinion, i'll grant you that. And if i'm being honest about it i was a bit of a tosser back in those days so she's probably right. *waits for the OBVIOUS response* | |||
" We had our differences of opinion, i'll grant you that. And if i'm being honest about it i was a bit of a tosser back in those days so she's probably right. *waits for the OBVIOUS response*" it wasnt your opinion that she spoke lowly of...like most women, she doesn't really listen, just waits for the pause in the sentence so she can cut in. | |||
" We had our differences of opinion, i'll grant you that. And if i'm being honest about it i was a bit of a tosser back in those days so she's probably right. *waits for the OBVIOUS response* it wasnt your opinion that she spoke lowly of...like most women, she doesn't really listen, just waits for the pause in the sentence so she can cut in. " 'so she can cut in' and TELL me what i think! | |||
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"say swinger, I think Austin Powers "Do I make you horny baby, do I? Oh behave!!! | |||
