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over a year ago
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I remember watching on a channel 4 show that men seem to be the ones always asking the question whether size matters, women don't, apart from the greedy ones of course, as long as you know how to use it, don't stress yourself out about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
The one who didn't have a face like a cow's backside! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Although just the once I want to try a huge bugger ( have not found anyone with a huge one that I want to play with yet as all they want to talk about is the size of their cock ) as long as it isn't tidgy then size isn't a huge issue.
The way it looks is though  |
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?
The one who didn't have a face like a cow's backside!"
Very good point, that fellas fail to consider (I suspect the earlier poster was right that this is an issue that bothers blokes much more than it bothers women - usually). If a lady had to choose between a Brad Pitt with a tiny acorn and an Andrew Lloyd Webber with a mighty oak, the decision would probably be fairly easy!
Fortunately for all of us, everyone is different, so there's someone out there for each of us - maybe even lots of someones? |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
Ask Karen and she would take the 6 incher every time. Too many big cocked blokes try and get it all in which makes it extremely uncomfortable. For some reason they see the squirming around because its hurting and think the squirming is because she's enjoying it. They soon get the reality when she pushes them away and says enough.
I reckon there are lots of other ladies who think the same as Karen does as well. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"so it is really size...... or is it girth? no wonder men get confused!! lol
and since the g spot is only a little way in.... the bigger the cock, the more you miss it!!
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Well a tidgy one would probably be no good especially for doggy as the female wouldn't be able to join in too.....but girth is a good thing , especially if it takes your breath away as it goes in.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although just the once I want to try a huge bugger ( have not found anyone with a huge one that I want to play with yet as all they want to talk about is the size of their cock ) as long as it isn't tidgy then size isn't a huge issue.
The way it looks is though "
That really is the truth of it. When we've had contact with W/E biguys all they've gone on about is the size of their cocks. It's so shallow.
I'm no DonkeyKong, but I'm no Mr.Midget either and Siren says she likes the grith more than the length so if she's pleased with it that's all I need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men are far more obsessed by their cock size than any woman i know"
I`ve got a prick thats 5`10 and 15 st.
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I hope he doesn`t see this, well, wtf. 
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Goose xx.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Although just the once I want to try a huge bugger ( have not found anyone with a huge one that I want to play with yet as all they want to talk about is the size of their cock ) as long as it isn't tidgy then size isn't a huge issue.
The way it looks is though
That really is the truth of it. When we've had contact with W/E biguys all they've gone on about is the size of their cocks. It's so shallow.
I'm no DonkeyKong, but I'm no Mr.Midget either and Siren says she likes the grith more than the length so if she's pleased with it that's all I need to know."
I think the men we have spoken to with huge cocks think that that is all they need, and yes, I know it is NSA sex we are looking for, but you have to have some sort of converstation other than "look how big my cock is" for the chat inbetween the fun don't you.
As others have said, I think it is men who worry about it too much, as long as the cock looks suckable and is big enough to have sex with then I don't see a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As theres a few on here that say its men who are obsessed with cock size far more than women I thought id better see if it was male of female that started the thread
It was a male......but with an ambiguous name,I thought it was a couple 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As theres a few on here that say its men who are obsessed with cock size far more than women I thought id better see if it was male of female that started the thread
It was a male......but with an ambiguous name,I thought it was a couple
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think this thread can be closed then |
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Apparently size does matter on a primeval instinctual level. The female of our species is by nature promiscuous, like most animals, so as to produce the best offspring from the best sire. So even though it might be at an unnoticeable sub-conscious level the female will tend to go for the fitter, bigger, stronger male. In the same context that males are attracted to females with wide hips and large breast, the female will also be attracted to a larger cock and heavy balls as well as overall stature and muscle.
But then most, and in some cases all the sex we humans have is purely recreational and so instincts don’t need to play a part but they might |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
The person I felt most comfortable about would get the meet. I've had big small thick and thin and honestly too big can sometimes be painful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?
Ask Karen and she would take the 6 incher every time. Too many big cocked blokes try and get it all in which makes it extremely uncomfortable. For some reason they see the squirming around because its hurting and think the squirming is because she's enjoying it. They soon get the reality when she pushes them away and says enough.
I reckon there are lots of other ladies who think the same as Karen does as well."
I agree!!! Too long can hurt I would take a fat six incher rather than a skinny long one anyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say that girth is more important than size. Im not interested in huge cocks, just looking at them makes me think of pain rather than pleasure.
A nice girth that does make you gasp as it goes in is gorgeous, it is nicer than very skinny cocks. other than that just a normal sized one. I had to say really small ones are a little disappointing. Ok a lot of guys say its what you do with them, well what else can you do but push it in and out. There are certain positions that cant be achieved with a very small guy so my preference is one big enough to do all positions with, one that fills me when he thrusts hard into me and a nice girth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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me and my partner sucked this very very well endowed man on bi night at Chams. bloody he was huge - no way would i have had sex with him. I couldnt take very much of him into my mouth and it was that big it stretched my mouth (and ive got a big mouth) - it was ok to suck, great that my partner did it too but i wouldnt have had sex with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although just the once I want to try a huge bugger ( have not found anyone with a huge one that I want to play with yet as all they want to talk about is the size of their cock ) as long as it isn't tidgy then size isn't a huge issue.
The way it looks is though "
Well big ones can be good if used in the right way, otherwise it can be a put off. There are also other factors such as width, firmness to be considered. I think the way and touch a guy has is more important. Some guys have such a sensual touch and others can leave you wanting in that sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so it is really size...... or is it girth? no wonder men get confused!! lol
and since the g spot is only a little way in.... the bigger the cock, the more you miss it!!
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u are right, a cock with a curve does the job nicely. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IMHO, I believe size does matter especially if one likes to perform HJs and BJs. 
Ok I gotta ask, what are HJ's?
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Hand jobs!
Oh FFS why didn't I think of that !!
Thanks "
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PMSL!!! I thought it was odd coming from you to be honest!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady had to choose between a Brad Pitt with a tiny acorn and an Andrew Lloyd Webber with a mighty oak, the decision would probably be fairly easy!"
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Brown paper bags are very useful, make that 2, in case the first one falls off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?
Ask Karen and she would take the 6 incher every time. Too many big cocked blokes try and get it all in which makes it extremely uncomfortable. For some reason they see the squirming around because its hurting and think the squirming is because she's enjoying it. They soon get the reality when she pushes them away and says enough.
I reckon there are lots of other ladies who think the same as Karen does as well."
Yes and here is one. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"IMHO, I believe size does matter especially if one likes to perform HJs and BJs.
Ok I gotta ask, what are HJ's?
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Hand jobs!
Oh FFS why didn't I think of that !!
Thanks
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PMSL!!! I thought it was odd coming from you to be honest! "
lol the best of it was I asked the OH and he couldn't think what it was either.......must be senior moments going on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol the best of it was I asked the OH and he couldn't think what it was either.......must be senior moments going on lol"
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It is not often cited as a sexual act that is high on people's list of enjoyment I guess.
However, I love it, and it is not exactly enjoyable if I can barely get my hand around the shaft, and I have small hands!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the size of a mans penis put women off meeting them?
Do women prefer certain sizes?
See my thread posted in swingers chat about equality, lmao. "
My ol mam always says "We are all equal, it's just some are more equal than others." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMHO, it is not just the size, the girth, or the person it is attached to.
Some cocks are more physically/visually appealing than others.
Just like women have tits/pussies that are more appealing than the others etc... |
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"so it is really size...... or is it girth? no wonder men get confused!! lol
and since the g spot is only a little way in.... the bigger the cock, the more you miss it!!
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...deffo the girth for me...mmmnnn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so it is really size...... or is it girth? no wonder men get confused!! lol
and since the g spot is only a little way in.... the bigger the cock, the more you miss it!!
u are right, a cock with a curve does the job nicely. x"
I saw a lovely pic of a cock with a curve the other day and thought mmmmmmm now that would most definately hit the spot
After looking again though it was curving the wrong way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
.... Both
*sits on coffin* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh? .... Both
*sits on coffin*"
sound expert advice |
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
The one with the best personality able to write a decent message and the one i generally clicked with  |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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At the risk of sounding naive, what does WE and VWE mean in terms of size. I never message profiles that stipulate that because I only understand good old imperial units when specified.
Also a question on girth ... what is average, WE and VWE measurements for that dimension?
My future on Fab hinges on the answers (I could be wasting my time, I mean who wants an average male) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the risk of sounding naive, what does WE and VWE mean in terms of size. I never message profiles that stipulate that because I only understand good old imperial units when specified.
Also a question on girth ... what is average, WE and VWE measurements for that dimension?
My future on Fab hinges on the answers (I could be wasting my time, I mean who wants an average male) "
Im sure someone will come along with the scientific data on what WE and VWE actuaully means
Im more concerned that you think you have no future on Fab if you're average sized............have you not read what the women on this thread have said? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Wife used to laugh out loud if she saw one of the local native men walking about with his altogether on show and some of those were enormous.
Remember her still laughing out loud when she was in the potting shed behind the mess when she didnt know I was listning bless her.
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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Im more concerned that you think you have no future on Fab if you're average sized............have you not read what the women on this thread have said? "
I have and my last comment was a bit tongue in cheek.
I'm not sure what average is! Wikipedia has confused me so I'm off to Asda to buy a chipolata for comparison.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WE is well endowed and VWE is very well endowed.
Personally i've met men at the farthest ends of the scale, including the VWE OH lol
i find girth is far more important that length, but if you have both, double bonus! lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it me or are men getting shorter in the last few weeks the only guys to email me have been 5'8 or under where are all the 6 footers. And if I go in to town they seem to be really short. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im more concerned that you think you have no future on Fab if you're average sized............have you not read what the women on this thread have said?
I have and my last comment was a bit tongue in cheek.
I'm not sure what average is! Wikipedia has confused me so I'm off to Asda to buy a chipolata for comparison.
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But a cocktail sausage,you'll feel better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or are men getting shorter in the last few weeks the only guys to email me have been 5'8 or under where are all the 6 footers. And if I go in to town they seem to be really short."
aye loads of short guys on here! i'm only 5'2 but prefer men 6ft and over lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now i must admit i like taller men. Im only 5' tall but I do like guys to be 6ft ish, not too much over 6ft as it would look stupid, like i was holding hands with my dad. if hes bigger then he can manhandle me, mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and did anyone ever see the programme on about a gay guy who had his balls injected with whatever to make them bigger
They were HUGE so much so he couldnt no longer shag and ...and....
He wanted them BIGGER . ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women say size dont matter,but it does really...if 2 guys wanted to meet her & 1 had an 8in cock & the other guy had a 6in cock....which do you think would get 2 meet her eh?"
most of us prefer a personality on the end of our cock so quite frankly, size wouldnt come into it does it? Also if there is no mutual attraction, one loses out so size is immaterial. Ive been with a guy with a big cock, not all that nor was the guy with a small cock so really its knowing whats your biggest sex organ isnt it? And it aint necessarily whats hanging between your legs is it |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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most of us prefer a personality on the end of our cock so quite frankly, size wouldnt come into it does it? Also if there is no mutual attraction, one loses out so size is immaterial. Ive been with a guy with a big cock, not all that nor was the guy with a small cock so really its knowing whats your biggest sex organ isnt it? And it aint necessarily whats hanging between your legs is it "
I have a WE personality and a VWE brain, so come and get me ladies!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most of us prefer a personality on the end of our cock so quite frankly, size wouldnt come into it does it? Also if there is no mutual attraction, one loses out so size is immaterial. Ive been with a guy with a big cock, not all that nor was the guy with a small cock so really its knowing whats your biggest sex organ isnt it? And it aint necessarily whats hanging between your legs is it
I have a WE personality and a VWE brain, so come and get me ladies!
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Can you accommodate yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and did anyone ever see the programme on about a gay guy who had his balls injected with whatever to make them bigger
They were HUGE so much so he couldnt no longer shag and ...and....
He wanted them BIGGER . ffs "
oh my god lol yes i did see that, he lived in San Fran didnt he, and his balls were absolutely huge, they were like those big orange bouncy ball things that used to be around in the 70s, cant remember the name of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very true.
The biggest sex organ is the brain. And if a guy is lovely and can make me laugh and feel relaxed, size dont come into it. "
Well spoken - echoes my sentiments entirely xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can the size be too big though.was chatting to a couple once and the asked how big i was and when i told them their reply was that i was to big for them,and ths was from a couple where the woman had 3 kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can the size be too big though.was chatting to a couple once and the asked how big i was and when i told them their reply was that i was to big for them,and ths was from a couple where the woman had 3 kids."
Think childbearing has little to do with it as it is generally the length not the girth that causes problems? Mind you, I think its about trying what is comfortable (for the female) and also having a considerate partner. The well endowed guys I have met have all been very considerate. |
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"Can the size be too big though.was chatting to a couple once and the asked how big i was and when i told them their reply was that i was to big for them,and ths was from a couple where the woman had 3 kids.
Think childbearing has little to do with it as it is generally the length not the girth that causes problems? Mind you, I think its about trying what is comfortable (for the female) and also having a considerate partner. The well endowed guys I have met have all been very considerate. "
Couldnt agree more with you.Very slow,very gentle untill relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very true.
The biggest sex organ is the brain. And if a guy is lovely and can make me laugh and feel relaxed, size dont come into it. "
I will get my joke book out and send you some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"u still trying to get more women to play with u mr jones? lol
his charm is working and he seems to be doing ok lol"
thanks provocative.yeah its all working great...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does the size of a mans penis put women off meeting them?
Do women prefer certain sizes?
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yes i dont like huge guys, very big cocks just hurt me so if a guys VWE i wouldnt meet him, im not sure the other way round, i may have just been lucky but ive never met a guy whos been that small ive thought no way, ive met guys that have been maybe a bit under average but never anyone thats been really small |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like the extremes.
Small ones are not attractive visually to me, and are not as satisfying to suck or play with by hand.
Very long and/or thick ones hurt me, and thick ones are difficult to suck as I have a small mouth (physically, honest).
So Mr Average will do nicely for me, thanks.
And I don't buy this about brain being the biggest sex organ, and size does not matter if the brain is brilliant cr@p anymore.
I suspect those who say size does not matter are trying to preserve the dignity of their friends/partners who have small ones!
(Last paragraph said with my tongue firmly in my cheek! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its all depends if they are a show or a grower is that how you say it some totally take me by surprise."
I refer to Mr Jones lol - I nearly had an accident when I saw that fucker! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its all depends if they are a show or a grower is that how you say it some totally take me by surprise."
I grew till I was five foot three then stopped So im a small prick in more ways than one lol xx |
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