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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know i should know this and deep down i think i do I just need to ask
right
i got a message just from a guy who started by say hi and using my real first name, so I replied back asking if I knew him, he replied saying no but he mailed me because he would like to, so I asked how he knew my name and he said because some people bother to read profiles
now my name is not on my profile, unless you lot can see something I can't so I mailed him saying this he just replied sorry I didn't mean to piss you off
so question is how the fook did he know my name, can people get into your privacy settings or do you think it's someone i know playing silly buggers? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is your name in any of your Veri's?
I remember having to use a name when I signed up, I didnt use my real one."
i did use my real name but it said it wouldn't be available for other to see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he has been chatting to people that know you ......... or seen a post here where a person put your name on ... Just ask him for the truth ... and if he is ok he may just tell you . xx |
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it's creepy and men do it to disarm and put you in a vulnerable position. If it's entirely innocent he only needs tell you how he knows to put your mind at rest, he hasn't and hopes that you will be placed in a position of having to ask him very nicely to tell you.
Creep, utter creep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no mention of your name on your profile so I can only assume that he either knows you or that he has contacted your friends/verifications. I can understand it making you uncomfortable. You are not new here and am sure that you will have already blocked him. That should be the end of it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I'd tell him he's not pissed you off, just come across as a creepy stalker. Tell him he has one chance to set the record straight and block him and forget about him if he doesn't come up with a really good explanation.
I can't understand why any bloke would think coming across as a creepy stalker is a good introduction but men do weird things when all their blood is in their cocks. |
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People talk and We have heard people's ' real names' mentioned in the past... But we wouldnt use that unless we are told etc ... So maybe he just heard your name in conversation?
Still a mind fuck thing ta do tho! It gets a response and for some, they will do/ say anything ta get one   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see anywhere on your profile that even hints at your real name.
Have you had any conversations in the chat rooms where you might have revealed it to someone - maybe in a PM?
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I'd tell him he's not pissed you off, just come across as a creepy stalker. Tell him he has one chance to set the record straight and block him and forget about him if he doesn't come up with a really good explanation.
I can't understand why any bloke would think coming across as a creepy stalker is a good introduction but men do weird things when all their blood is in their cocks."
What she said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you give your name out to people you are messaging and then don't meet? Maybe it's somebody trying it on after you've knocked them.back previously? "
This is exactly what I thought. |
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But seriously, don't let him muck you about with mind games ... If he's a stand up guy then he'd tell you 