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By *edhot4blk OP Couple
over a year ago
York/London/Crantock |
Sometimes we both wonder why we bother to take the time and the effort to type out a profile with all the do's and all the dont's..we dont think weve gone to far with the information on our profile infact looking at the e-mails we are recieving from people who have read it we personally think we havent gone far enough..
We say what we want and what we dont want and when we check our mail we have recieved mail from the people we arent looking for and when we inform them no thank u or pls read the profile again all we recieve is abuse, i think it must be down to "" male rejection "" as it seems alot of guys just cant handle it, or they need to go the specsavers..... stella..xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes Stella, but if you only get a few good meetings from those who do take the trouble to read it properly, then it has to be worth it.
Always look on the good side not the bad...lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with Stuart...its not just you, it happens to everyone...its the desparados who just send messages to all and sundry in the hope of getting somewhere lol |
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By *edhot4blk OP Couple
over a year ago
York/London/Crantock |
dont get me wrong we have met loads from this site in the yr and a bit weve been members and have to say wow, but what i cant understand is a guy reads our profile sees he isnt what we are wanting by a long way and still thinks he is in with a chance, when we inform him he isnt then the abuse starts...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but what i cant understand is a guy reads our profile sees he isnt what we are wanting by a long way and still thinks he is in with a chance"
I think everyone struggles wth getting random messages or requests but having looked at your profile, I think part of the problem is people won't read it. It's to long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but what i cant understand is a guy reads our profile"
Which is without doubt the big mistake you are making as we doubt half the guys on this site ever got beyond Janet and John let alone a well constructed profile.
As regards the length of the text in your profile you are simply setting out the ground rules and stating in the clearest possible terms exactly what you are looking for. If someone cannot be bothered to read it through or is incapable of deciphering it’s content then quite probably they are not what you are looking for.
However if you really want to cut down on the amount of junk mail you get then consider changing the picture you have as your profile pic. It’s way to provocative in that it will simply have anything with a cock chancing it’s arm, which is your main complaint. In fact I would bet that by taking that pic off and leaving it blank your junk mail will dry up in no time.
Please do not take any offence with regards to the comments above about your pic as you look absolutely stunning in it, however it is because of that that you are being pestered in the manner you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never mind the guys lol... Who can blame them for chancing an arm now and then after all... What is annoying is when a couple contact knowing full well your not seeking the same things as in Bi male etc.. Then when you explain its just a preference etc.. they say something like well we can leave that bit out lol... or worse, were prejudiced against gays ff's Like a fookin pick and mix pmsl...
As said before... when it all works out and it often does it makes all the mistakes fade into distant memory eh.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we used to get emails sometimes 15 to 20 a day off single guys when our profile clearly says we dont play with them . it can get very annoying but the site allows you to block sgl males from mailing you and that as solved the problem for us now we dont get much mail. but some cpls can be just as bad at not reading the finer points of a profile and still sending emails out when they dont fit the bill for what we are looking for
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By *edhot4blk OP Couple
over a year ago
York/London/Crantock |
your right you can block single males but its the single male we are wanting as this is what we like, trouble is we are recieving attention from the type of single guys we arent looking for..ok i know we can just click on delete without replying but when i do that i feel so bad and very rude.. stella..xxxx |
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i reckon its just that primal need to spread the genes.....any hint at interest even a no thanks...in some blokes heads translates to ..a maybe....its the eternal optimism ..a driving force ....even the cruelist put down is met in bloke world with ...ahhh but if she knew me she wouldnt say that so ...pant pant pant !!!!!....
its pavlovs dogs with the reward a shag and of course domination of all the women in the world as they will then know my cock is the real one and the best ...cus they all want me really ....they do you know ...honest ....
Please be gentle.... i call it penile dementia as you get older you get a bit of a grip of reality ..... |
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pleasure dome ive read a few of your posts on squirters and this one,lol ive got to give it to you. you a a mind of information,i giggle to myself here just reading your replys lol keep them coming |
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By *edhot4blk OP Couple
over a year ago
York/London/Crantock |
two2bonkwith i take ur comments on board about the profile pic i have on display and u maybe right, but only a few weeks ago i had a close up pic of my eyes and still recieved them and a few weeks b4 that i didnt have a profile pic at all and still recieved all the mail..i think personally it doesnt matter if a fem has a pic on their profile at all, all the guys see is a fem or a cpl profile and hopes...sad really but what can i say..
i have to be honest i do enojoy the attention and what woman nearlly 48yrs old wouldnt but sometimes it gets to much for me..when the day comes that i dont recieve any mail from guys and that day will surely come maybe i will be having ago about the shortage of mail, dont listen to me at the moment its the 3rd week in the month..lol stella..xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As one of the guys who does take time to read profiles and compose an appropriate reply it looks like I'm in a minority, but to be fair that approach isn't working, maybe the carpet bomb treatment would work better...
For me it's a rare treat seeing that new message icon! |
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