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How do you meet your playmates?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it "
all of the above.... 
the longest standing ones have always come from socials and the forums for me... but good things can be said for all of them..... and it really depends if you want instant gratification or longer deeper friendships  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it "
Messages and party's are the best i mind.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seem to have some morbid fear of socials and parties and clubs, so we meet them on here, usually after find their profile and seeing that little hook that also gets us.
Or fetish clubs, but thats another story.
I don't think we'd meet anyone from the forum (or they, us!). Nothing against most of you, but the day to day interaction makes it all a bit "familiar", which isn't something we'd like before ever having a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it depends. We tend to use sites quite a lot now as we get little chance with our hectic lives to chance meet like minded people.
Also for us we want something specific ( some lads really dont get this ) and its easier for us to have it all laid out in a profile and wait for people to approach us.
We are looking forward to an evening at Chams soon though.. :D
Guess it depends.
Katie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it "
I never send out emails - the type of playmate I'm looking for seldom says what they like on sites like this, on "specialist" sites I just place an ad or a diary re what I'm looking for.
I tend to do that about every three months or so or I'd get inundated if I kept refreshing.
I don't like clubs or parties and socials don't hold much appeal either.
My way works for me, so, if it ain't broke... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Front doors are good too.
Everyone i've played with, i've met them at a front door.
There's or mine, doesnt matter, 100% success rate with front doors.
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really? i heard you received them round the back...oh well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Front doors are good too.
Everyone i've played with, i've met them at a front door.
There's or mine, doesnt matter, 100% success rate with front doors.
really? i heard you received them round the back...oh well"
Thanks for that...Evian everywhere!! |
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"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it "
I would have to say all of the above although I have not had the chance to go to that many socials as of yet. and I do on occasion send out a couple of messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love the chat room so many from there or from emails and a quite chat on phone but very select who give out number too as dont do phone sex. have found msn works to have a better chat and to get to know people better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont send prospecting emails but do find most of my meets via mails received
have not met any playmates via the forums (yet ) lol"
Ditto - but have met a playmate through the forums lol!!
Also made some good friends through the forums .............. |
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About a third of our meets off of this site were initiated through Chat, almost all of the rest were though prospective messages (sent or received) - though most of those due to activating Meet Today or Events - and one probably started in these forums
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"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?
Do you meet via the forums?
Do you meet at socials?
Do you meet at parties or clubs?
We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.
So, how do you do it "
Ive met all my meets by sending a message on here.i just read profiles an if i like it.an think they might like me,i respond.im going through bit of a dry patch just now.but people have been really nice in letting me know.an been genuine in there reasons for the call offs |
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All of the mentioned, I guess we were really lucky because, literally within a week or so of joining the site we got invited to a party, purely through chatting to people in the Welsh chat room, and from the friends we made there, and the verifications we got, it kinda snowballed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mostly use clubs, i just find them so much easier to meet people than off here, no hassle, no bull shit, go to a club, find someone you like, talk and play, couldnt be easier lol
Saying that i have had some good meets from guys ive met via the site as well
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