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over a year ago
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We got messaged by a couple during the week and they wanted the female to talk to my wife on the phone to make sure we weren't timewasters. It was 11:15pm and I told them my wife was asleep, but said they could call her on another day. The next message we got was accusing us of being fakes and they blocked us.
I think we dodged a bullet on that couple  |
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"We got messaged by a couple during the week and they wanted the female to talk to my wife on the phone to make sure we weren't timewasters. It was 11:15pm and I told them my wife was asleep, but said they could call her on another day. The next message we got was accusing us of being fakes and they blocked us.
I think we dodged a bullet on that couple "
Even after being "friends" for a while you can have disappointments as I found last weekend. But I dusted myself down and had a social and found a real swinger. Bring on real swingers I say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are far too many couples in here where the guys are happy to meet and then the woman says no. If you thinks it's s competition with the other people then don't come on a swinging site. Time wasters in many shapes n forms. |
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"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!
what happened to building up a list of contacts?
grrrrr....Some people like others to jump through hoops.....  "
I've just never got into that game - there are some pervs around
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive noticed over my very brief time here that fab breaks down into various schools of thinking, there's the single drooling hordes, well call them the wannafuks. Then there's the core of fab users that use the site mostly as intended, well call them the fans. Then there's the group that appear sane and engaging until you want to do something that doesn't conform to their specific timeline and usually requires the ability to travel cross country late at night in order to fulfil their needs, well call them the fantasists.
Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, fantasists don't give a damn about your pleasure, only their own |
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By *im1978Couple
over a year ago
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We've had it all!
'can we meet this morning?'
No we are both at work.
'tonight?'
No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.
'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '
Jog on dickhead and have a wank!
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Lol, sounds like couples that are in the moment making want it now demands, advice would be to use your wet fanny and hard dick on eachother and get it out of your system, then arrange something properly when you can be a bit more cordial and understanding  |
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"We've had it all!
'can we meet this morning?'
No we are both at work.
'tonight?'
No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.
'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '
Jog on dickhead and have a wank!
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 about right lol just because your online you must be looking to meet lol can't we check our mail and perv quietly ha ha |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!
what happened to building up a list of contacts?
grrrrr....Some people like others to jump through hoops..... "
Hoops are for whirling around your hips or playing croquet with.
Not for jumping through.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is an over riding impression by many users that if you are online you must be looking for fun there & then.
Undoubtedly some users do use the site as a yellow pages for instant gratification, whereas many others use it as part of a wider lifestyle choice.
This is where the issue arises.
Where a gap exists between need / want and expectation there will always be dischord.
In terms of a sex meet, we tend to search those that are listed as 'meet today' thus avoiding confusion.
Others contact us just because we are online.
It doesn't bother us.
No point in making a big deal of it. If you are poles apart, just ignore the message or send one back saying 'sorry we aren't looking tonight'
If they message again, ignore
If they message again, temp block
It is that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the above us why we only go to a local club and if we find people there who we want to play with then so be it.
We are not about to jump through someone else's hoops, nor would we expect anyone to jump through hoops for us.
We have hoops of our own to jump through in any case! ?? |
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"We've had it all!
'can we meet this morning?'
No we are both at work.
'tonight?'
No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.
'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '
Jog on dickhead and have a wank!
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Or the user that suggested a while back I should let me 3 year old son occupy himself in his room with his toys while he popped round for an early morning meet!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive noticed over my very brief time here that fab breaks down into various schools of thinking, there's the single drooling hordes, well call them the wannafuks. Then there's the core of fab users that use the site mostly as intended, well call them the fans. Then there's the group that appear sane and engaging until you want to do something that doesn't conform to their specific timeline and usually requires the ability to travel cross country late at night in order to fulfil their needs, well call them the fantasists.
Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, fantasists don't give a damn about your pleasure, only their own"
Yaaaaay! I'm deffo a fan! |
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By *reybear OP Man
over a year ago
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"We've had it all!
'can we meet this morning?'
No we are both at work.
'tonight?'
No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.
'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '
Jog on dickhead and have a wank!
Or the user that suggested a while back I should let me 3 year old son occupy himself in his room with his toys while he popped round for an early morning meet!! "
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By *reybear OP Man
over a year ago
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what happened to building up a list of contacts?
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Are you saying you want people you dont want to meet to add you as a friend??  "
No, I'm saying I want to have a conversation with someone to find out if they and I 'click' in order to plan for a future meet at a mutually acceptable time..... And I might start that conversation at a time it would not be convenient to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!
what happened to building up a list of contacts?
grrrrr...."
Why let it get to you? Do you think the couple in question are going to read this?
Perhaps they don't want to go through the making friends and chit chatting bit.
You do things your way and let others do it theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a message the other day from a couple near me, they asked if I'd be interested in fucking the lady while the guy watched. I said I'd be interested as she looked quite tasty in their pics. The second message said they had a meet arranged with another guy that evening but I'd be welcome to join in for a threesome. I replied saying I was on nights that night but could rearrange for another day. I got called a time waster for that and blocked, pair of arseholes. |
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