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what would you consider your sex drive Is from normal to high.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The reason I ask this question Is Is that most people on this site and similar sites need has much sex as Possible In their lives along with the variety of Ways they can obtain It, In other words Would you consider swingers are highly Sexed people or more and need a daily or Monthly fix of fantasy, lust, passion In The bedroom or where ever takes their Fancy or could you stop tommorow Liveing this lifestyle and have a 1 to 1 relationship, I suppose spice Is the Variety of life but what makes a true Swinger Is It the mindset, Is It haveing a high sex drive or Is It a bit of both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say my sex drive is quite low because I can take it or leave it. If I'm dating someone or in a relationship with them I want to have sex with them all the time but from my time on here and from sleeping with one nighters I've learnt that I enjoy and have better sex with someone I have feelings for. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm ok with once a month (hey I'm used to it) Can go at least 3 without (doesn't mean I don't get frustrated) but I certainly don't need it daily, I was in a relationship with someone that expected it daily, and I never want to be in that position again!
But saying that, I have never been in love, so maybe that is the difference...I have no idea, and therefore why still single but happy with it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say my sex life is normal, I certainly don't eat, sleep and breathe sex I have plenty of other things going of in my life
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Its just that so many people talk about it in full as thou Its 24/7 To them on this site especially on my Home page (Its like everyday counts to Them) their never happy some of them Unless their In a swinging club or have Got meets nearly everyday of the Week I find that obsessional.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say i have quite a high sex drive i would love sex on a daily basis but in reality that's not going to happen"
Hopefully you'll meet the right person one day and it becomes realirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say my drive is pretty normal....but the more I get the more I want! Oh and if I find someone its amazing with.....I want it every minute of every day |
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"I would say my sex life is normal, I certainly don't eat, sleep and breathe sex I have plenty of other things going of in my life
Its just that so many people talk about it in full as thou Its 24/7 To them on this site especially on my Home page (Its like everyday counts to Them) their never happy some of them Unless their In a swinging club or have Got meets nearly everyday of the Week I find that obsessional.."
I know and it makes me laugh, its like they don't have a life apart from sex or there just saying it to big themselves up
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Sounds good, nothing better then meeting a person who matches your sex drive...for me i guess..once a day but there can be days when i want it more then once |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with once a month (hey I'm used to it) Can go at least 3 without (doesn't mean I don't get frustrated) but I certainly don't need it daily, I was in a relationship with someone that expected it daily, and I never want to be in that position again!
But saying that, I have never been in love, so maybe that is the difference...I have no idea, and therefore why still single but happy with it "
Yes If you have Feelings love Is a special thing Unfortuneately your defences come down But It was always natures way from the Begining was meant to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have sex at least twice a day,thankfully so does my wife.
With each other or others?  lol "
Normally each other, surprising how difficult it is to find a couple you both like. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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I would say mine is normal for me, it's compatible with my OHs, so who gives a shit about anyone elses? Not me!
Couple we have met have said their libidos vary, as long as its a meeting of bodies at that specific time, I really don't care about anyone else's libido. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My sex drive is crazy high. I want it constantly 
Have you met anyone who can match you??"
Well me I,m perhaps mr average We won,t talk about weeks or months here
hahaha a year at a time or years at a time which I do and still am doing If Miss right was there things might change Being In my comfort zone helps a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have sex at least twice a day,thankfully so does my wife.
With each other or others? lol
Normally each other, surprising how difficult it is to find a couple you both like."
We couldn't agree more !  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm ok with once a month (hey I'm used to it) Can go at least 3 without (doesn't mean I don't get frustrated) but I certainly don't need it daily, I was in a relationship with someone that expected it daily, and I never want to be in that position again!
But saying that, I have never been in love, so maybe that is the difference...I have no idea, and therefore why still single but happy with it Yes If you have Feelings love Is a special thing Unfortuneately your defences come down But It was always natures way from the Begining was meant to be. "
But feeling obligated is not a nice feeling to have! Nor is feeling pressured especially when your OH has been drinking, so hence why I am on here and do things my way and meet who and when I want to.
I know that doesn't sound sexy as it wasn't meant to, but hey, I do ok I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say my drive is pretty normal....but the more I get the more I want! Oh and if I find someone its amazing with.....I want it every minute of every day "
On tap It sounds as long as your body Is up to It Good luck ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say i have quite a high sex drive i would love sex on a daily basis but in reality that's not going to happen"
Does It not feel better The longer you go without..?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm ok with once a month (hey I'm used to it) Can go at least 3 without (doesn't mean I don't get frustrated) but I certainly don't need it daily, I was in a relationship with someone that expected it daily, and I never want to be in that position again!
But saying that, I have never been in love, so maybe that is the difference...I have no idea, and therefore why still single but happy with it Yes If you have Feelings love Is a special thing Unfortuneately your defences come down But It was always natures way from the Begining was meant to be.
But feeling obligated is not a nice feeling to have! Nor is feeling pressured especially when your OH has been drinking, so hence why I am on here and do things my way and meet who and when I want to.
I know that doesn't sound sexy as it wasn't meant to, but hey, I do ok I suppose "
As long as your happy thats the main thing.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your wrong OP, not every swinger is highly sexed and craving sex all the time.
I have a fairly low sex drive, I don't think about it all the time. I don't swing for the sex, I swing because I love the taboo nature of what I'm doing, the dress up, the exhibitionism and the bizarre people I meet. I prefer clubs to one on one meets for this reason. I have my OH with me and it doesn't matter to me whether I play with others or the two of us are together
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say my sex life is normal, I certainly don't eat, sleep and breathe sex I have plenty of other things going of in my life
Its just that so many people talk about it in full as thou Its 24/7 To them on this site especially on my Home page (Its like everyday counts to Them) their never happy some of them Unless their In a swinging club or have Got meets nearly everyday of the Week I find that obsessional..I know and it makes me laugh, its like they don't have a life apart from sex or there just saying it to big themselves up
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It seems some almost live for This life.. oh well If It makes them Happy and others thats the main thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a high sex drive. I enjoy sex and make the most of what I have but I can go without for long periods "
I would say mine is normal. I enjoy and make the most of it when it happens, which is not often. but when I've been in a relationship it's been much higher |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your wrong OP, not every swinger is highly sexed and craving sex all the time.
I have a fairly low sex drive, I don't think about it all the time. I don't swing for the sex, I swing because I love the taboo nature of what I'm doing, the dress up, the exhibitionism and the bizarre people I meet. I prefer clubs to one on one meets for this reason. I have my OH with me and it doesn't matter to me whether I play with others or the two of us are together
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Yes I worded every swinger as highly sexed wrong It Should have been (some) swingers, would you class the taboo side of your Interest with fantasy as well ? I,m Perhaps asking this because men fantasize I know I did a lot not so much now haveing the Internet at hand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say my sex drive is quite low because I can take it or leave it. If I'm dating someone or in a relationship with them I want to have sex with them all the time but from my time on here and from sleeping with one nighters I've learnt that I enjoy and have better sex with someone I have feelings for. "
How It was meant to be and should be with someone you like feelings Included Makes me talk as well afterwards well As done In the past anything on your mind thats been there luckily up till Now not regreting It... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure if mine is high or normal, but I am still good for it at least twice. But if I had to chose I prefer the one in the autumn best "
I,ve heard on here a few times
when people have lost their mojo Presumably sex drive dissapears. |
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I think my sex drive is normal for me..
I do agree that when you do have sex you want more..
I go for very long periods without sex and have done through most of my marriage.
you sort of just get used to it. Medication doesnt help sex drive tho
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my sex drive is normal for me..
I do agree that when you do have sex you want more..
I go for very long periods without sex and have done through most of my marriage.
you sort of just get used to it. Medication doesnt help sex drive tho
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certainly a good mix of Views on this post and yes thank you For your feed back everyone.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my sex drive is normal for me..
I do agree that when you do have sex you want more..
I go for very long periods without sex and have done through most of my marriage.
you sort of just get used to it. Medication doesnt help sex drive tho
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Sorry to hear this.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The more good sex I have the more I want
I second that!
Usually I have a very high sex drive. I'm blaming the weather for it being lower than usual right now.  "
I think certainly weather has a effect On our moods and how we feel In ourselves shorter days climate etc. |
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
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"The more good sex I have the more I want"
This especially in a relationship, as sex, affection and intimacy is a big part of how express my care for someone.
However, I would definitely take no sex over bad sex So having a high sex drive doesn't mean I haven't had long stretches without it, nor is it my only social activity.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sex drive is through the roof!!
But that's because I hardly get my oats. Least not as much as if I were in a relationship. Then it'd diminish to normal probably. |
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"I'm ok with once a month (hey I'm used to it) Can go at least 3 without (doesn't mean I don't get frustrated) but I certainly don't need it daily, I was in a relationship with someone that expected it daily, and I never want to be in that position again!
But saying that, I have never been in love, so maybe that is the difference...I have no idea, and therefore why still single but happy with it Yes If you have Feelings love Is a special thing Unfortuneately your defences come down But It was always natures way from the Begining was meant to be.
But feeling obligated is not a nice feeling to have! Nor is feeling pressured especially when your OH has been drinking, so hence why I am on here and do things my way and meet who and when I want to.
I know that doesn't sound sexy as it wasn't meant to, but hey, I do ok I suppose "
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I find my sex drive varies over the time; currently it is very high and has been for the last couple of months. Eventually it will calm down again and it may be quite a few months before I think about it again. I think it depends on what I’m doing with the rest of my life and who I’m spending time with. |
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Normal high sex drive with adequate expression. Sometimes stupidly high, but we possibly all get those swings. Sex is a healthy non-obsessive part of my life but I need complexity and variety in my life, so it's balanced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a very high sex drive. Andy and I can have sex 5/6 times a day lol. I am horny before sex but once I have had sex omfg you can watch out. It's nothing for me to also have 3/4 sessions a day with my wand lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a very high sex drive. Andy and I can have sex 5/6 times a day lol. I am horny before sex but once I have had sex omfg you can watch out. It's nothing for me to also have 3/4 sessions a day with my wand lol xx"
I suppose we all have our Limits and are "perhaps" happy with Those and the balance of them has,nt changed or has,nt changed much over time, Thou Its a while since I have my Drive or mojo I don,t think has Changed In 30 plus years which I,m happy with.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends upon how much sex I am having. The more I have, the more I want. If I abstain, it's difficult for a few months but then it gets easier and easier to go without."
this i guess - as have had gaps and its not been that big a deal but these days i miss it when im not getting it - i can honestly say im thinking about it a lot of the time - had the tv on i the background last night -just not bothered to switch it off and the footie came on - my ears pricked up when the commentator said - needed to get in deep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to have sex at least twice a day,thankfully so does my wife.
Twice a day - every day? Do you ever have time to leave the house?  "
Every morning before work, and on a night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say mine is average. It fluctuates during my cycle, I am most horny around ovulation time. On average I need to orgasm every other day and have sex at least twice a week. So I wouldn't say I am frigid or a nympho, just average  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine varies - my cycle rules it I have some weeks where I'm insanely horny and would be happy having sex constantly where as other weeks when I just can't be bothered with it.
But on a average week I would say were pretty normal 3-4 times a week on a high week then once a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ours varies depending on what's going on in our lives! If we're up against it and stressed, we can go weeks without because we're both too exhausted in every way.
I (Mrs) would happily settle for once/twice a week and have it be as amazing as it is, rather than 25 times a day and be shit!
I think those that are in relationships old or new, that just have sex all day 'up to 5 times a day'.. Need something more in their life, because that for me is a very boring and small minded life to live!! |
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