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I'm fine with demands and preferences. Off putters are painting a picture of themselves that their the bee's knees (what are bee's knees like!?  ).
Something that doesn't intrigue also, but I know that's subjective.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Text speak or shocking grammar, action pics, too much negativity, pictures that are just taken with no thought, and a lot of verifications - and bad forum behaviour  |
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"me personally? arrogance, loads of cock pictures, pictures of a single man with more of a woman in them than him, lots of demands and rudeness towards other people's preferences."
Agree with rudeness and lack of respect for other peoples preferences. The deal breaker for me is always no pics or lack of pics on a profile. |
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A distinct lack of text, after all, your profile is your advert, it should say something about you and it should scream out to anyone looking, 'hey lets chat'
after that some pictures, there really is no excuse for not having a single picture, specially when they can be kept private and sent in messages, but no picture at all tells me to err on caution towards avoid altogether.
when there is some text to read on a profile, i hate it when it's 'i have a big one and it's rampant for you' sort of thing.
And finally the sheer number of single guys who have a profile as a couple, hey you might have been part of a couple or not, but fact is now you're single, bloody state that on the profile or start a single guy profile (Grrrrr, boils my piss that does) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cpls profiles with just one half of the party in the pictures, (usually the fem half) it's a Cpls profile. We wanna see both of you, what are you hiding??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind a lack of text as it really hard to sell yourself but what is there has to well thought out, grammatically correct and positive.
Too many pics puts me off too...there is only so many ways you can show the same body before it's gets boring.
Too many verifications off different ladies with no repeat visits is also a big telling sign  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it lack of txt, pictures "
Nope
It's any profile that says not meeting
Or says quality over quantity
Or a profile over 3 months old which is unverified
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind a lack of anything, for me it's the over sharing that's off putting.
I don't like it if they complain about not getting meets or the excess of "time wasters", it just hints at them not being discriminate in who they talk to or attempt to meet with. I also don't like it when they're forceful with their kinks, e.g. "Looking for a slut to use", or if they're aggressive in their phrasings.
Sometimes verifications can be off putting too, especially if it details sex acts that are out of my comfort zone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like text speak, it winds me up. I also avoid ones that ask for a dom or bull mainly because I wouldn't know how to live up to that and don't think i'd want to. I don't like to see too many veri's either, it's a bit off putting but that's just me  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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This is easy....I like to be able to learn about a person through their profile, so ask me anything types then I can't be arsed! I'm not here to do the Spanish inquisition, plus I like to be able to see a few decent pics, not an abundance of cock pics, blurry face pics or hiding in the darkness of shadows like they think they are in the SAS and need to be covert  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me is just a general lack of effort... Whether in profile or messages. Also statuses whinging about a lack of meets, or slating a whole section of fab...eg straight men moaning about messages from single guys, just block them if it's that much of an issue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with purehoneypot whinging before you've even messaged them not good and two page write ups and when you've spent an hour reading it and deciding they would be ok to message following all the instructions they don't answer your message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles with pics that show very little of them but everything of the lasts women they shagged
Profiles that say face pics in private due to job etc but have no problem showing some woman's face in full glory sucking his cock 
Black guys who describe themself as chocolate....yes of course ive tasted chocolate before now grow up and speak like an adult
Wide open arse shots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fill in later"
Especially when "fill in later" is still on a profile months after joining.
[oh, and apologies for replying to this thread as someone who has too many cock pics on their profile. My bad...] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it lack of txt, pictures "
Any thing that says' "Looking for a real man"...
Puts me straight off because anyone with that written on their profile (and there are a LOT) ..tells me she already has a very dismissive and likely negative _iew of men to start.
And any profiles with OTT rants. Put me right off too.
I actually READ text.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A profile with a long list of dislikes, followed by a list of demands that must be met for them to meet.
They should save their list for Santa as they are more likely to meet him than their perfect meet lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles with pics that show very little of them but everything of the lasts women they shagged
Profiles that say face pics in private due to job etc but have no problem showing some woman's face in full glory sucking his cock
Black guys who describe themself as chocolate....yes of course ive tasted chocolate before now grow up and speak like an adult
Wide open arse shots "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles with pics that show very little of them but everything of the lasts women they shagged
Profiles that say face pics in private due to job etc but have no problem showing some woman's face in full glory sucking his cock
Black guys who describe themself as chocolate....yes of course ive tasted chocolate before now grow up and speak like an adult
Wide open arse shots "
This plus graphic veris where you get a blow by blow account |
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By *MP3Man
over a year ago
Between Scylla and Charybdis |
Demands, demands and more demands accompanied only by a close up picture of what could be a frozen turkey - followed by the statement NO COCK PICS. Oh the irony... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most on this thread have something we would class a turn off
Sick ups .... Singles " would walk out if they didn't kiss ... What after selling your granny for a meet lol
Bulshit veris / no veris and selected veris
No new pics since 2011 lol
Spelling / grammar ?? Really who gives a rats arse 
Demanding and rude ??? Ffs just get on with it a have fun ..
we could go on and on and on pmsl we would never have fun and lol we don't have to be attracted to them to meet just not put off physically and sexually !!!!
We don't look at a vibrater and feel the urge to take it to dinner ... Ffs our vibraters pmsl used , abused and always get put away wet , and wanted again  xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Demands, demands and more demands accompanied only by a close up picture of what could be a frozen turkey - followed by the statement NO COCK PICS. Oh the irony... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking for a single man POV:--
just a total lack...
pics
profile text
message
However if I was man looking for a woman.
Probably the list of preference / demands ~ call them what you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lines like this one we saw today.
She is very attractive and extremely sexy, so please do not take offence if we do not reply.
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i dont like profiles who slag off others you have met, people who are going to decide to meet you based on the looks of others you have met just isn't worth a message as far as I'm concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lines like this one we saw today.
She is very attractive and extremely sexy, so please do not take offence if we do not reply.
i dont like profiles who slag off others you have met, people who are going to decide to meet you based on the looks of others you have met just isn't worth a message as far as I'm concerned "
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Thoughtlessness towards others, whereby the users _iewpoint is the global position on things - they kind of haven't progressed emotionally beyond 3 or 4 years of age. Their needs are the only thing of importance, others are like their servants. It's arrogant and doesn't inspire thoughts of them being adequate lovers.
This can be seen in as few words as 'fill in later' or similar, their selection of pics - which hints they have limited understanding of others, hence cock, cock, cock or several dark murky shots and statements that show how far up their own arses they - but without prostate pleasure.
Do they highlight someone who's a bit far removed from socially adequate and intimate? If so, I pass.
If they message with just a handful of words, possibly not making much sense, then this starts them sending their bullet toward their foot.
Moaning is a killer.
If there are expanses of words that say absolutely nothing, I'm out.
If there's 'we're all here for the same thing', their chances diminish, as we are not, so again highlighting poor insight upon others.
I want someone who is interesting - they can be similar or different to me, but I'm not after a bore or a twat.
Poor profiles are useful as they support easier filtering of the unsuitable put more quickly. |
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Thoughtlessness towards others, whereby the users _iewpoint is the global position on things - they kind of haven't progressed emotionally beyond 3 or 4 years of age. Their needs are the only thing of importance, others are like their servants. It's arrogant and doesn't inspire thoughts of them being adequate lovers.
This can be seen in as few words as 'fill in later' or similar, their selection of pics - which hints they have limited understanding of others, hence cock, cock, cock or several dark murky shots and statements that show how far up their own arses they - but without prostate pleasure.
Do they highlight someone who's a bit far removed from socially adequate and intimate? If so, I pass.
If they message with just a handful of words, possibly not making much sense, then this starts them sending their bullet toward their foot.
Moaning is a killer.
If there are expanses of words that say absolutely nothing, I'm out.
If there's 'we're all here for the same thing', their chances diminish, as we are not, so again highlighting poor insight upon others.
I want someone who is interesting - they can be similar or different to me, but I'm not after a bore or a twat.
Poor profiles are useful as they support easier filtering of the unsuitable put more quickly. |
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"Is it lack of txt, pictures "
Being a straight guy I'd usually say COCK!
Yip nothing turns me off more than the profile I click on the person has a cock....maybe I ought to click on profiles more carefully?!?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Endless list of likes and dislikes"
Have to be honest here , so going to be on the receiving end of a load of slack from couples .... bracing *myself now, but it's couples profiles that have endless lists of do's & don't . Single men are so much less stress ( lol) * MrsD |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many boxes to tick - i'm not going jump through hoops to get a meet.
Why not get to know me first and i may just actually tick those boxes without me having to fill in an application form.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many boxes to tick - i'm not going jump through hoops to get a meet.
Why not get to know me first and i may just actually tick those boxes without me having to fill in an application form.
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Excellent response MrsD typing x |
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"When you see people say "Looking for educated people only" I find that so snobbish.
Or some might say ' up their own arses'!! MrsD "
Isn't it just another social preference ?
Any anyway, a few snobs thrown in to the mix helps ensure that there's someone for everyone in the wonderful world of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Moaning whingy status, Will fill later as the profile text after being on site for a year, SHOUTY capitals saying what they're not looking for....use your filters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shallow profiles with a few gym buff pics and no text.
Text speak or bad grammar - says lazy to me.
Cock pic avatar - don't mind them but not as the profile pic!
Crude status or username.
Telephone number or kik username in profile - screams of desperation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile with a long list of dislikes, followed by a list of demands that must be met for them to meet.
They should save their list for Santa as they are more likely to meet him than their perfect meet lol
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Well they should be In for A treat he,ll have his sack ready for Emptying.. |
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