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He wants to pay?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess some guys are just seeing it as a way in...ultimately? |
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No.
I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?
What the f is that all about?? 
Another one to the block list!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess some guys are just seeing it as a way in...ultimately? "
Yeah - what he said. Though it's not something I would do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No.
I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?
What the f is that all about??
Another one to the block list!! "
So did I!!...said he wanted to get me pregnant and then we could be together!!! Deluded!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leave you feeling indebted to him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol"
I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready !  |
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Its the internet everything written must be taken very seriously |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol
I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready ! "
Lmao!! |
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"Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about??"
It's possible he interpreted your status.as a hint. Some women do request lingerie so do some couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow really well you learn something new everyday. There is nowt queer as folk as they say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give him my pay pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had this before he wouldnt take no for an answer,i had been talking to him agaes before this and he seemed a lovely bloke but had to block him ...he has since left thankfully |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about??
It's possible he interpreted your status.as a hint. Some women do request lingerie so do some couples."
Ive seen a woman hinting at booze lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's".... 
back to your question ~ it's another way in the door so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeap had guys offer to pay for clothes ,shoe,s , dinner etc oh and sex,,ive plenty of my own money and im no whore so NO THANKS,fuck off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?
What the f is that all about??
Another one to the block list!! "
We had an email from someone asking identical to that last week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy is willing to pay for undies let him
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"No.
I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?
What the f is that all about??
Another one to the block list!! "
I get them about once a month. I find discussing child support, medical history and if bis parents would baby sit with my wannabe breeders takes the sexual thrill out the situation  |
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john needs some string vests and a few socks if anyone whats to help, ohh and some white paint for the front door..connie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"john needs some string vests and a few socks if anyone whats to help, ohh and some white paint for the front door..connie x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy message me a few days ago sugar daddy or cash controller
I replied with Wtf are you on about and it turns out he was offering me his money to use as I please in return for regular sex
I politely explained that there was not enough money in the world, reported and blocked him, he was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's"....
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I'm going for Jimmy Choos and a holiday in Mauritius.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?
What the f is that all about??
Another one to the block list!!
We had an email from someone asking identical to that last week "
I replied before with....I'm 47, I bloody hope not!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's"....
I'm going for Jimmy Choos and a holiday in Mauritius. "
Louboutins, Mulberry Handbag and a weekend in New York |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me a few days ago sugar daddy or cash controller
I replied with Wtf are you on about and it turns out he was offering me his money to use as I please in return for regular sex
I politely explained that there was not enough money in the world, reported and blocked him, he was "
Implying that had he been better looking you would have allowed this ?? |
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"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol
I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready ! "
And me.....I'm after a kindle fire thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We ve an escort style fantasy we ve discussed in another thread but chickened it tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He wants to fuck you so he thinks if you allow him to buy your underwear he's in with more of a chance
Its not unusual in here to offer gifts and money to get a leg over,the same as its not unusual for women to ask for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Damn. Just bought new boxers and socks, missed the opportunity to put it on my status and get them paid for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see many statuses / profiles asking for tradesmen, transportation, gifts etc. Plus there's the 'you will take us out for a meal' or 'turn up with vodka, wine, booze' for a meet.
It is what it is, it's all part of what the scene has become. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been offered money for a night with me alone a couple of times but always been cheapstakes so said no x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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As others have said he may have thought you were hinting as a lot of women do ask for presents.
Always report anything like this though |
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