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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw no I don't feel like this at all. I like being single though, have an awesome best friend who I spend a lot of time having fun with (not that sort of fun) and a family to look after.
Getting sex on tap is just a bonus to my happy life.
Sad to hear you feel this way.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aw no I don't feel like this at all. I like being single though, have an awesome best friend who I spend a lot of time having fun with (not that sort of fun) and a family to look after.
Getting sex on tap is just a bonus to my happy life.
Sad to hear you feel this way.
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thanks hun, think its prob due to me not having much family and dont see my friends much due too there personal lives. Thankyou for messaging hun xxx |
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To be honest no... I tend not to rely on others for my own happiness. "You can feel Lonely in a room full of people" so the saying goes...Think it's how we ourselves react to others and situations which is the key  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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thanks hun, think its prob due to me not having much family and dont see my friends much due too there personal lives. Thankyou for messaging hun xxx"
You're welcome.
I come from a huge family so quite used to socialising, and fussy about who I socialise with. This has helped me get to the happy stage in my life.
Maybe join some other forums (not sex ones) and see if you can make friends that way, or even better might be to join local clubs to find friends? I met my bestie at baby and toddler group.  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx"
Yes
Like you, I don't have family in this country
The upside is, that by the time you get to be my age, you get used to it 
Try making friends outside of the sex sites. Just normal, day-to-day friends
Do some volunteer work over Christmas and New Year's break and you will not even feel being alone, because then, you won't be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not now but have done in the past - lost a past partner and went a bit crazy for a short while - met loads of people just to feel needed/wanted - have to say im ashamed as i dont remember names or much about it - now i think well its done and nothing will undo it and things are much better now - hugs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks hun, think its prob due to me not having much family and dont see my friends much due too there personal lives. Thankyou for messaging hun xxx
You're welcome.
I come from a huge family so quite used to socialising, and fussy about who I socialise with. This has helped me get to the happy stage in my life.
Maybe join some other forums (not sex ones) and see if you can make friends that way, or even better might be to join local clubs to find friends? I met my bestie at baby and toddler group. "
thanks for.the advice hun but I do have plenty off friend. Dunno guess im just missing something I cant put my finger on. Really do appreciate the advice tho xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx
Yes
Like you, I don't have family in this country
The upside is, that by the time you get to be my age, you get used to it
Try making friends outside of the sex sites. Just normal, day-to-day friends
Do some volunteer work over Christmas and New Year's break and you will not even feel being alone, because then, you won't be"
thankyou and im sorry that you have felt that way too xxx |
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"To be honest no... I tend not to rely on others for my own happiness. "You can feel Lonely in a room full of people" so the saying goes...Think it's how we ourselves react to others and situations which is the key "
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By (user no longer on site)
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thanks hun, think its prob due to me not having much family and dont see my friends much due too there personal lives. Thankyou for messaging hun xxx
You're welcome.
I come from a huge family so quite used to socialising, and fussy about who I socialise with. This has helped me get to the happy stage in my life.
Maybe join some other forums (not sex ones) and see if you can make friends that way, or even better might be to join local clubs to find friends? I met my bestie at baby and toddler group. thanks for.the advice hun but I do have plenty off friend. Dunno guess im just missing something I cant put my finger on. Really do appreciate the advice tho xxx"
Hope you find it, whatever it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"not now but have done in the past - lost a past partner and went a bit crazy for a short while - met loads of people just to feel needed/wanted - have to say im ashamed as i dont remember names or much about it - now i think well its done and nothing will undo it and things are much better now - hugs "
thats kinda how iam now. Yeah I can go out and meet someone and have a night off sex but then it's back too feeling empty and there is no pride involved about getting d*unk n pulling so just feel ashamed xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not now but have done in the past - lost a past partner and went a bit crazy for a short while - met loads of people just to feel needed/wanted - have to say im ashamed as i dont remember names or much about it - now i think well its done and nothing will undo it and things are much better now - hugs thats kinda how iam now. Yeah I can go out and meet someone and have a night off sex but then it's back too feeling empty and there is no pride involved about getting d*unk n pulling so just feel ashamed xxx"
ditch the alcohol - its a depressant |
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I do take for granted my family and social circles. Recently, I appreciate them so much more. I'm very lucky.
There are times when I enjoy my solitude. Like eating out with nothing but a book/magazine and my thoughts. Helps me assess certain things |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do take for granted my family and social circles. Recently, I appreciate them so much more. I'm very lucky.
There are times when I enjoy my solitude. Like eating out with nothing but a book/magazine and my thoughts. Helps me assess certain things"
cheers for your message mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"not now but have done in the past - lost a past partner and went a bit crazy for a short while - met loads of people just to feel needed/wanted - have to say im ashamed as i dont remember names or much about it - now i think well its done and nothing will undo it and things are much better now - hugs thats kinda how iam now. Yeah I can go out and meet someone and have a night off sex but then it's back too feeling empty and there is no pride involved about getting d*unk n pulling so just feel ashamed xxx
ditch the alcohol - its a depressant "
thankyou for the advice xx |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx"
Perhaps your name gives a clue why you feel as you do.
Forget about being dominant and give love and attention to others rather than expecting others to conform to your wishes.
You may already do that of course but it is a thought. |
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I've moved area, left all my friends, don't get to do the school run anymore, left my job.....although I'm with my man and children, I'm alone for long periods of time....I like my own company, and get lots done in the house but miss my friends, my family and the people I chatted to in work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx
Perhaps your name gives a clue why you feel as you do.
Forget about being dominant and give love and attention to others rather than expecting others to conform to your wishes.
You may already do that of course but it is a thought.
I like being dominant and i'm very affectionate (not during s&m play obvs) and i don't feel like him either. It's nothing to do with dominance.
Sex and affection aren't the same thing and don't have to be.
I thought your comment was out of order, and prejudice."
Actually, if you see his replies to anyone who offered advice he gave us kisses (xxx) so probably is affectionate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx"
You're already almost answering your own question.Perhaps you need to reassess what it is you want from life.
A change of career or a new hobby....corny as it sounds it can help fill that void, that empty space.
Or perhaps you seek love and this is what ails you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've lived lone for 16 year and retired i do feel alone or lonely i keep myself busy and have a large circle of good friends and i don't know how I found time to go to work, stop feeling sorry for yourself and think positive |
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx
You're already almost answering your own question.Perhaps you need to reassess what it is you want from life.
A change of career or a new hobby....corny as it sounds it can help fill that void, that empty space.
Or perhaps you seek love and this is what ails you?"
This |
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By *y2funMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? "
just a thought here, how about a few different hobbies? dosn't help to pop all your egg's into one basket...
or take up visiting the old or disabled who can't get out... that would bring a sense of worth as well....
just talking shit sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best thing about being a woman is that when we need a bloody big hug/feel a tad lonely etc - We can just tell a friend - either male or female - and find instant solace!
Unfortunately - the only affection a man gets tends to be via a partner or his children - so if he doesn't have those - he doesn't get any!!
When I have meets i'm very choosy who I meet - I have to like them as well as feeling attracted to them - and they have to be intimate and affectionate as well. That way, between my friends, my kids and my meets I get everything I need - and because of the added intimacy and affection, my meets invariably become my friends.
Sounds like you need a friend, lover and companion hun - whether one or a posse of them is entirely up to you!
Good luck and very big hugs!! xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do sometimes but I prefer my own company now use to it been single a long time. Not that close to family as they live around the corner but I don't care just hate Xmas cos it makes you more aware you are on your own once again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aw no I don't feel like this at all. I like being single though, have an awesome best friend who I spend a lot of time having fun with (not that sort of fun) and a family to look after.
Getting sex on tap is just a bonus to my happy life.
Sad to hear you feel this way.
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Also have an excellent very best friend (met on this site). We now keep what we do (like away in caravan most weekends) separate from fab.
We swing on our own...never as a couple so don't ask. Basically we just keep ourselves sane. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dark till around 7 am and dark before 5pm at night and getting darker still One of the reasons I don,t like this
Time of the year along with it getting
Colder apart from the christmas lights
and christmas cheer thou not on everyones tick list It would be a god Forsaken time of the year roll on next March.. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I have not read the entire thread - apologies - but I think there is a difference between loneliness and solitude. The former is associated with feelings of sadness, perhaps even abandonment or rejection sometimes, the latter is a choice where one appreciates a bit of space.
I love my own space as I never had a lot of that due to family and work etc. I don t feel lonely very often but then perhaps that is because I have a large family and a few friends I can call on.
When I do feel lonely I allow myself to feel it for a bit, then I move onto something I usually like doing like dancing or visiting somebody.
I think it does help to have plans for those times when we know we MIGHT feel lonely? |
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"To be honest no... I tend not to rely on others for my own happiness. "You can feel Lonely in a room full of people" so the saying goes...Think it's how we ourselves react to others and situations which is the key
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I'm good with my own company and socialize alot. I do voluntary work which is great, helping others.
If you have purpose in life and are lacking some social connection then explore interests and see how they could be a route for mixing. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone elce feel that even tho you get all the sex you want that you still feel empty and alone? Not the happiest topic so sorry for that people. Xxx"
Not a chance! Whenever I am not shagging, I am recovering. I dont have the time to feel alone. If you do, you aint shagging right. |
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