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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. |
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"I'd leave it.
This. He doesn't want to keep in contact for whatever reason. If he does, he can come back onto fab. "
She has his number though.
OP i'd leave it, he might text or call you never know. If he doesn't, you've not lost anything as such. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "
If he has your number then wait for him to call you. If he doesn't call and you want to call him, then do so; afterall, he did willingly give you his number
He most probably left this site for a reason which has nothing to do with you. Or maybe, he left the site after he found you and does not want to meet anyone else but only you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Errr can't see the harm of texting him saying you see he's gone, that you'll therefore assume he's not interested in meeting again, but if he does he knows where to reach you. And then leave it at that.
Obviously if it was a crap meet then don't bother  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on...
1.are you bothered that he's left
2.do you want to seen him again
3.did you make plans to see him again
If you answer 'yes' to any of the above ~ then send him a text! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I made plans two weeks ago for a meet and he left the site three days before. There was no way on earth I was going to contact him, but he text me and the meet still went ahead   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand where the dilemma comes into these situations. Either the guy was just a meet in which case you leave it be. Nsa should be exactly that.... or he was more than that, in which case you should know whether it is ok for you to contact him. We have no idea how things are between you. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't understand where the dilemma comes into these situations. Either the guy was just a meet in which case you leave it be. Nsa should be exactly that.... or he was more than that, in which case you should know whether it is ok for you to contact him. We have no idea how things are between you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "
I smell the post-coital delete of a guilty married man. Just leave the fecker. |
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"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "
If you have his number no reason not to contact him if you want to, he can just tell you if he doesn't want further contact! I'm still in touch with several guys that have decided this site is not for them but still get in touch with me from time to time to ask if I'd like to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No strings fun
Why add strings ?
Why turn the fun into anything else ?
Take it for what it was
For him, seemingly a shag
Move on
Your meet obviously has
Lose the number
Find another
That one may stick round long enough for his veri
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "
Just drop him a thanks message you don't need to do any more. |
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If you agreed to stay in touch off site then some limited contact may be ok. I'd only say one contact with them would be appropriate and then to either see their response or leave it for them to make a move.
Remember, their moves are their choice. Family. Work and personal choices influence them and assume it's not about you. It's casual fun so keep it without commitment and hassle for you and them. |
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