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"Why have so many Couples profiles have this written across their page so many times, usually in BLOCK CAPITALS, and some actually stating how thick the single men are because apparently they "can't read" and such like insults! We too are not looking to meet single men, however, not once have we received any messages from the poor fuckers cause we filter our messages so they can't message us, simple. Some profiles actually put us off when the first 5 lines are a good old rant over single males in block capitals. I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? Any thoughts? " I get these single men who say they're 'straight, looking for women' messaging and winking me all the time, I find it completely baffling as do other girrls I know who suffer the same...!!!!! XXX | |||
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"One of those bastards winked at me yesterday, cheeky twat. " Noooooooooooo........How rude | |||
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"It's so simple to block anyone you don't want messaging you. I really don't understand why people don't do it"  | |||
"It's so simple to block anyone you don't want messaging you. I really don't understand why people don't do it "And it helps us blokes as well. Bit of a no brained really. | |||
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"It's so simple to block anyone you don't want messaging you. I really don't understand why people don't do it " | |||
"Statement well made... People must learn to use the blocking system. Makes it a lot easier for us single blokes." What about the profiles who say looking for men but have single men blocked  | |||
"Statement well made... People must learn to use the blocking system. Makes it a lot easier for us single blokes. What about the profiles who say looking for men but have single men blocked "Simple: so they can do their searching in peace. 
People utilise the site's tools as they see fit. Some better than others! 
Not fussed what people think of single males anymore. Such negative assumptions probably means their profile is attracting the wrong crowd.
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"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. "  | |||
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Us male halves of couples dont get a look in with the Crumpet with all the single blokes grabbing all the action, should be banned the lot of em 
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"I tend to only set filters to age. but i have noticed a few saying they are 41 when you read they are 26 etc " That made me laugh. | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. " We are here to make up the numbers, subsidise the "genuine couples" and generate debate in forums... for god sake man, havent you learnt that yet? | |||
" I get these single men who say they're 'straight, looking for women' messaging and winking me all the time, I find it completely baffling as do other girrls I know who suffer the same...!!!!! XXX" Seeing as how many gurls seem to belive that they are really a woman in a mans body why shouldn't a straight man message them? Would they prefer a gay man message them (who presumably is attracted to men not women/Ts)? I do feel sorry for these people who have to "suffer" this. Just who are you looking for??! | |||
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"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. " Maybe the wrong choice of words agreed, but my point was not intended as you have put it, I actually feel you "other sites users" have a rough deal on here. And I think the rest of the post would back this up, but thank you for your feed back x | |||
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"I tend to only set filters to age. but i have noticed a few saying they are 41 when you read they are 26 etc That made me laugh. "made me laugh too | |||
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"The males of some couples are very insecure and they are the ones guilty of not using the filters but shouting about it instead. In real life they would be the ones in the pub wanting to start a fight because you glanced at his wife. " OI! Are you looking at my Mrs Pal
Gimp | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. We are here to make up the numbers, subsidise the "genuine couples" and generate debate in forums... for god sake man, havent you learnt that yet? "Man, I must have missed that memo! Best put on my best downtrodden face and get my begging cup out....anyone got a violin? | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. We are here to make up the numbers, subsidise the "genuine couples" and generate debate in forums... for god sake man, havent you learnt that yet?
Man, I must have missed that memo! Best put on my best downtrodden face and get my begging cup out....anyone got a violin? "Wait there's an emoticon for that!!  | |||
"The males of some couples are very insecure and they are the ones guilty of not using the filters but shouting about it instead. In real life they would be the ones in the pub wanting to start a fight because you glanced at his wife. OI! Are you looking at my Mrs Pal
Gimp "Certainly was pal, she's gorgeous. | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. Maybe the wrong choice of words agreed, but my point was not intended as you have put it, I actually feel you "other sites users" have a rough deal on here. And I think the rest of the post would back this up, but thank you for your feed back x" I can only speak for myself but I'm very happy on here thanks not a rough end in sight.....cheers for the sympathy though | |||
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"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. We are here to make up the numbers, subsidise the "genuine couples" and generate debate in forums... for god sake man, havent you learnt that yet?
Man, I must have missed that memo! Best put on my best downtrodden face and get my begging cup out....anyone got a violin?
Wait there's an emoticon for that!!
"Aww perfect! Play me something sad so I can wonder off looking all dejected and lonely | |||
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"We arent looking for single men and have put it in our profile but we dont have filters up to block single men. Yes we get few single guys that will chance there luck which will never work but dont think every guy on here is after one thing. I mean we know single guys we have met through either a friend or at a social event they know we wont do anything sexual with them and we have good laugh with them. we are happy to chat to single guys as long as they know nothing sexual will happen " But by putting the filter on, when a guy does a search, he can stop anyone that has blocked single men from showing in his results. Everyone saves time, and nobody gets upset. But that still leaves YOU free to message when you want to. | |||
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"Why have so many Couples profiles have this written across their page so many times, usually in BLOCK CAPITALS, and some actually stating how thick the single men are because apparently they "can't read" and such like insults! We too are not looking to meet single men, however, not once have we received any messages from the poor fuckers cause we filter our messages so they can't message us, simple. Some profiles actually put us off when the first 5 lines are a good old rant over single males in block capitals. I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? Any thoughts? " Some people just want to rant and moan, its life I guess but the single guy bashing really fucks me off per say on here anyway.... | |||
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"Why have so many Couples profiles have this written across their page so many times, usually in BLOCK CAPITALS, and some actually stating how thick the single men are because apparently they "can't read" and such like insults! We too are not looking to meet single men, however, not once have we received any messages from the poor fuckers cause we filter our messages so they can't message us, simple. Some profiles actually put us off when the first 5 lines are a good old rant over single males in block capitals. I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? Any thoughts? Some people just want to rant and moan, its life I guess but the single guy bashing really fucks me off per say on here anyway...." I often bash my little man,,. . Might be why my ex calls me a banker, . | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. " | |||
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"I get these single men who say they're 'straight, looking for women' messaging and winking me all the time, I find it completely baffling as do other girls I know who suffer the same...!!!!! XXX" There should be a filter to stop 'straight' guys contacting you! | |||
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If not, then yes, it doesn't make any sense. These are very easy to use
I am interested in:
a man
a woman
a couple (male/female)
So, I have filtered for:
Can't be TV/TS/CD (account type TV/TS/CD)
Can't be female couples (account type FF Couple)
Can't be male couples (account type MM Couple)
Can't be newbies (must have been on site for a few days) | |||
"Arrrr That must be a problem, unfortunately there is no filter to separate the straight men from the gay/Bi men, maybe there should be? "And one to separate those that are telling lies too?  | |||
"Arrrr That must be a problem, unfortunately there is no filter to separate the straight men from the gay/Bi men, maybe there should be?
And one to separate those that are telling lies too? "I'd settle for the telling lies filter! | |||
"... I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? ... " This. | |||
"Statement well made... People must learn to use the blocking system. Makes it a lot easier for us single blokes. What about the profiles who say looking for men but have single men blocked "This is because the site automatically put it on your profile because of the numbers of single men on here. You can still be wanting to meet them but not want them to message you | |||
"I always have to fight the temptation when I see NO SINGLE MEN NO WANT A FUCK MESSAGES. To send them a fancy a fuck mail as I did not believe that people send them but im told they do so I have sofar resisted but I find it hard not to do what im told not to do guess its the rebel in me lol" Oh men do send 'wanna fuck' messages. Strangely tho they rarely post on the forums. Must be too busy replying to the ''oh yes please' messages. | |||
"I get these single men who say they're 'straight, looking for women' messaging and winking me all the time, I find it completely baffling as do other girls I know who suffer the same...!!!!! XXX There should be a filter to stop 'straight' guys contacting you!" What sort of men are allowed to contact tv/ts/cds? | |||
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"Why have so many Couples profiles have this written across their page so many times, usually in BLOCK CAPITALS, and some actually stating how thick the single men are because apparently they "can't read" and such like insults! We too are not looking to meet single men, however, not once have we received any messages from the poor fuckers cause we filter our messages so they can't message us, simple. Some profiles actually put us off when the first 5 lines are a good old rant over single males in block capitals. I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? Any thoughts? " Yup You look after your profile and let others look after their own | |||
"I always have to fight the temptation when I see NO SINGLE MEN NO WANT A FUCK MESSAGES. To send them a fancy a fuck mail as I did not believe that people send them but im told they do so I have sofar resisted but I find it hard not to do what im told not to do guess its the rebel in me lol" haha I do it all the time to just annoy them if they didn't make a big rant about it I wouldn't message but it's like when you see a button that says do not press lol | |||
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"We agree with what has already been said, if some couples don't want single men to message them, then use the filters, that's what they are there for. It's not rocket science! "
Agree, and the men they are trying to get the message over to will most likely not read the profile anyway, even if it is in BLOCK CAPITAL SHOUTY LETTERS, LOL!!!.
So just use the filters to stop the unwanted mail. | |||
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"Why have so many Couples profiles have this written across their page so many times, usually in BLOCK CAPITALS, and some actually stating how thick the single men are because apparently they "can't read" and such like insults! We too are not looking to meet single men, however, not once have we received any messages from the poor fuckers cause we filter our messages so they can't message us, simple. Some profiles actually put us off when the first 5 lines are a good old rant over single males in block capitals. I think they would secretly miss the "unwanted attention" so they keep their filters open to all, or it's them that's "too thick" to filter themselves? Any thoughts? " Many people including me at times skim read profiles and as you can't highlight text capitaliseing stands out which saves time so in reality I have no problem with it. | |||
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"I get these single men who say they're 'straight, looking for women' messaging and winking me all the time, I find it completely baffling as do other girls I know who suffer the same...!!!!! XXX There should be a filter to stop 'straight' guys contacting you! What sort of men are allowed to contact tv/ts/cds?" I can't speak for my trans. friends and nor should I but, if my profile is read, as it's written to be, any male who wishes to contact me would know exactly how I am as a person (male only by definition) and they would certainly have more than a good impression of the kind of people I would like to know...... It's not all just about sex with me, I'm fully aware of what this site is about, I do try to use the site with every respect to the other members and that includes reading what they have written as part of their profile. I am absolutely not 'straight', I know precisely what I am regarding my sexuality, I never have been a 'woman trapped in a mans body', I have a career which is primarily male-oriented, my main interests are typically male dominated...... But I never think of myself as a man, (or a woman, for that matter...) I'm purely bisexual, I see attractions in both sexes, gender is of no concern to me but, what is the most important attribute I wish for in any potential friend? Two things joint first place, actually... Honesty and kindness. If a person is genuinely these, anything else, to me, is really superfluous. Now, having said this.... If any guy wants to get in touch with me, I'd really much prefer it if they read what I have tried to write carefully and, they are honest enough to state on their own profile that they, too, are bisexual and looking for someone like me. I've sometimes wished I wasn't 'wired' the way I am, my life probably would be easier to live, especially my personal life, but, I am wired this way, I never chose it, it never has been what some folk call a 'lifestyle choice'..... It's the way I, as a human being, was made, I know of no other way to be and, the most satisfying thing about it is I'm accepted by EVERYONE who knows me. I'm always, without exception, truthful about everything...... I'd much prefer to know others who are the same, male, female....whoever..!!! Sorry to go on.......!!! I just wanted to try and clarify this question about straight guys messaging me...actually...some have with really nice letters and I always, without exception, write back as soon as I'm able. Thanks to all who have read this. Eva  | |||
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"It's so simple to block anyone you don't want messaging you. I really don't understand why people don't do it
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"I always have to fight the temptation when I see NO SINGLE MEN NO WANT A FUCK MESSAGES. To send them a fancy a fuck mail as I did not believe that people send them but im told they do so I have sofar resisted but I find it hard not to do what im told not to do guess its the rebel in me lol Oh men do send 'wanna fuck' messages. Strangely tho they rarely post on the forums. Must be too busy replying to the ''oh yes please' messages." | |||
Rather more effective than just putting NO SINGLE MEN, in my view.. But then, what would I know...?? Perhaps that more fun, in some way..?
It does suggest that some are simply not using the Filters, doesn't it...? Now why is that...? | |||
"What I don't understand is why couples who meet and full swap with other couples exclude single men, what is the difference between a single man or a man in a couple fucking your wife? Or is it because they don't bring anything to the party for? But you'll meet single women, is that because you can both play with her whereas with a single bloke it's all about the woman and the man feels left out? Or is it the woman doesn't want to try 2 cocks at the same time?" Excellent point, well made... | |||
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"One of those bastards winked at me yesterday, cheeky twat. " Maybe he just had something in his eye | |||
"Thanks for reffering to us as 'poor fuckers'. I assure you however, we're not 'poor fuckers' we're just other site users, not some lower caste. " | |||
