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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dear Op
It's never a case of yes or no when answering your question. There are so many variables when deciding if one is attracted to another person.
I'll offer you my personal experience........I am a fella that's softer than many chisel bodied chaps, yet I married a woman who likes more Thant physical attributes. Now just because she finds me attractive, that's no guarantee that she'll find the next chubby fella attractive.....it's all about the whole package rather than just the wrapping.
You seem to view your chubbyness as a hindrance, what you should do is big up what you can offer a woman besides your outward appearance. Your constant approval seeking threads will get you nowhere and will only lead people to assume you're incredibly needy or desperate.
There's someone out there for everyone else, but it'll take time, patience, a good attitude, more patience, luck and guess what......more patience. |
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you are very beautiful x
