 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Now I am posting this just to let people get their anger etc out of their system, have the White Knights limber up their steeds etc.
This is not to debate the rights and wrongs, I can imagine how this is going to pan out, but bear with me.
Of the TWO OPTIONS would you rather:
A. Prefer someone on a single profile declared they were married.
B. Prefer not to know.
This is not a single guy bash session. Guess what, women, TV/TS etc cheat also.
This is a question of informed choice not a moral argument about the rights and wrongs.
And over to you. Remember, the block button is only a click away... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't meet married/attached guys and as no one can message me and I do the searching, I'd rather people were honest on their profile so I don't waste my time or theirs. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don't meet married/attached guys and as no one can message me and I do the searching, I'd rather people were honest on their profile so I don't waste my time or theirs."
Same here. I'd rather be told straight off  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
People will tell you what they want,even if someone doesn't say they're married it doesn't mean they're not
I don't delve too deep but I avoid those who say they're married and those who are very strict about times they can meet
I want unrestricted prolonged fun not quickies where the guy is clock watching  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"People will tell you what they want,even if someone doesn't say they're married it doesn't mean they're not
I don't delve too deep but I avoid those who say they're married and those who are very strict about times they can meet
I want unrestricted prolonged fun not quickies where the guy is clock watching "
Can't argue with that, better that you know up front then  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"People will tell you what they want,even if someone doesn't say they're married it doesn't mean they're not
I don't delve too deep but I avoid those who say they're married and those who are very strict about times they can meet
I want unrestricted prolonged fun not quickies where the guy is clock watching
Can't argue with that, better that you know up front then "
Even without them saying anything its soon becomes obvious |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A..we have no problem with married people as long as they are upfront beforehand as we cannot understand the logic in lying to those you are trying to meet, Let's face it blokes are shit liars and is it worth all the bollocks for a quick dip of the wick 
Gimp  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have been buried alive in a dead marriage, so I try not to judge, but always, always A - I must have honesty, I have a right to choose.
I actually asked the question of someone who approached me recently because there were too many subtle clues in their profile, despite them calling themselves 'a single guy' in the text.
I asked point blank if he was married and he described himself as married but playing single.
Speechless. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A of course. Not ALL single guys are liars either, its hard enough for us without married guys muddying the water. If you cant be straight from the off why bother!? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What is option c?
And welcome back Gimp. I was worried that Fab Clique had cloaked your posts!"
Hya, No I was having my bi yearly electro shock therapy and it takes a few weeks for my fingers to start working again 
Gimp |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Definitely need to know if a guy is attached or not - so i know not to let myself get remotely emotionally attached. Xx"
I think emotional attachment from meeting off here could be risqué whether they were married or not, unless of course the possibility was talked about.
As for being honest, as long as I'm told before meeting then I can make a informed choice ~ that goes across the board not just someone's martial status. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A" of course, I cant see the point in those that play away being so secretive in here... What goes on in Vegas and all that.... Set the ground rule early on and have fun - right? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A. Like others have said if it's up front people can make an informed choice. There are many reasons people are on here and without knowing their full backstory I won't judge or slate people. However, it's only fair to declare everything up front (if not on profile in a very early message) so people can decide if they're happy to meet or not.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My profile States that I won't meet attached guys so I don't get too many messages off them. Most married guy profiles are easy to spot but I do not need anyone to "declare" anything to me.
If I choose to break my rule that my choice, if some chooses to cheat on a partner that's their choice....I judge no one  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
