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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was never the manly type I got hassle at school for being a pretty boy,although the girls seemed to like me
I like guys to be quite manly but recently saw a very pretty boy(I don't mean he was wearing makeup or anything or looked like a girl) on telly the other day n thought PHOOOOOOOOOOOOOAR!  
So ladies what do you prefer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like manly men because I like them to be taller and broader than me. I like to feel little and submissive to them.
Having said that I was with a 23yr old who looked like he was in a boy band the other week and he had my butterflies doing flips as much as the ones in my tummy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a manly man - is it physical size ? Attitude ? Lacking in any cleaning ability ? "
I imagine there is a mix of looks and attitude here, but each person who decides will have their own balance.
What makes a man "manly" to you?
Oh, but I do clean, I just resent it   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win  "
you don't scare me,,lol I scare some guys though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to be active in the bedroom.
For that reason, I prefer smaller build guys.
The idea of fucking a big brute of a man just doesn't correlate for me.
That said, I am happy to hand out gobbly wanks to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer to be active in the bedroom.
For that reason, I prefer smaller build guys.
The idea of fucking a big brute of a man just doesn't correlate for me.
That said, I am happy to hand out gobbly wanks to them "
Gobbly wanks! haha
That's a new one ;p |
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"I prefer to be active in the bedroom.
For that reason, I prefer smaller build guys.
The idea of fucking a big brute of a man just doesn't correlate for me.
That said, I am happy to hand out gobbly wanks to them "
The idea if a big brute of a man fucking me sort of works I have to tell ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manly has many forms, I like strength. I used to primarily like broad and physically big and while I do still like that, I've broadened my tastes - can't beat tall, lean, strong men where you can see their muscles move under the skin and they're basically just the complete opposite of me!
If they have a pretty boy face that's fine, so long as that's how their face is supposed to look, not how they've made it.
The one single deal breaker is eyebrows. If they're more groomed than mine (which are impeccable ) then it's not gonna happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Manly has many forms, I like strength. I used to primarily like broad and physically big and while I do still like that, I've broadened my tastes - can't beat tall, lean, strong men where you can see their muscles move under the skin"
Check these forearms |
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The one single deal breaker is eyebrows. If they're more groomed than mine (which are impeccable ) then it's not gonna happen. "
Haha, I'm the same with hands!! I once had a vanilla pub date that went on for 11 hours we got on so well, lunch, walk, tea, dinner...but I just could not, cos his frame was too small and so his hands were too!
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I prefer manly but am partial to the pretty boy look too - am surrounded by loads of them as In a student and there's please of testosterone amongst them. A well muscled strong masculine guy is hard to resist anytime though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving reading these as a big guy myself self (6ft big legs arms shoulders hands hairy chest) I find it that you find some people love it and others hate it, you can't suite everyone... However I find most women prefer a manly man but that's in the middle of that makes sense my biggest downfall is I ate all the pies although I'm not huge it's certainly a down side for most...
Nice to hear what people are thinking on here though and if you did want a photo you only have to ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manly has many forms, I like strength. I used to primarily like broad and physically big and while I do still like that, I've broadened my tastes - can't beat tall, lean, strong men where you can see their muscles move under the skin
Check these forearms "
I can't really see them, your cock is in the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Manly has many forms, I like strength. I used to primarily like broad and physically big and while I do still like that, I've broadened my tastes - can't beat tall, lean, strong men where you can see their muscles move under the skin
Check these forearms
I can't really see them, your cock is in the way."
Is that a problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win "
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!"
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up."
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
Sorry to use you as an example but this physique is what I really like, tall, broad chest, big arms and strong hands, well muscled thighs
Phew I feel all warm and tingly now "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure "
To be honest though, I prefer when someone finds you intimidating that they become a little shy, as opposed to being nasty - at least that way they don't spoil the things that actually make them attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure "
I can understand that as I can be very insecure about myself when it actually comes down to someone who I really want to make a good impression on.
For me it's twenty years of being told I'm not good enough by my ex husband, im getting there but still worry I'm unattractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, they have to have a manly size and frame for me, thats what trips my trigger, though pretty as well is not a problem for me lol!!
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Damn it...I don't fall into either group |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
I can understand that as I can be very insecure about myself when it actually comes down to someone who I really want to make a good impression on.
For me it's twenty years of being told I'm not good enough by my ex husband, im getting there but still worry I'm unattractive "
I'm with you on that, 16 years of it from my ex-wife "why can't you be more of a man" etc but will say, you've nothing to worry about, you're beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
To be honest though, I prefer when someone finds you intimidating that they become a little shy, as opposed to being nasty - at least that way they don't spoil the things that actually make them attractive."
Yes I do like this.
In fact I'll go so far as to say that in order to be the person I am to certain fabbers... there is an element of ensuring that they get 100% with me, just not where they stand with me.... That little chink in the armour, that little way in.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
I can understand that as I can be very insecure about myself when it actually comes down to someone who I really want to make a good impression on.
For me it's twenty years of being told I'm not good enough by my ex husband, im getting there but still worry I'm unattractive
I'm with you on that, 16 years of it from my ex-wife "why can't you be more of a man" etc but will say, you've nothing to worry about, you're beautiful "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
I can understand that as I can be very insecure about myself when it actually comes down to someone who I really want to make a good impression on.
For me it's twenty years of being told I'm not good enough by my ex husband, im getting there but still worry I'm unattractive
I'm with you on that, 16 years of it from my ex-wife "why can't you be more of a man" etc but will say, you've nothing to worry about, you're beautiful "
Beauty - the very thing is just a perception by the most powerful sexual tool we have - the mind. So you are as beautiful as you want to be, and anybody who wants to tell you that you are not beautiful, then the truth it is them who are ugly. |
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"Sorry, I meant 100% comfortable with me and but not completely sure of who I am or what I might do."
That's what makes you exciting, scary and mesmeric to some but a complete no no for others! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
To be honest though, I prefer when someone finds you intimidating that they become a little shy, as opposed to being nasty - at least that way they don't spoil the things that actually make them attractive.
Yes I do like this.
In fact I'll go so far as to say that in order to be the person I am to certain fabbers... there is an element of ensuring that they get 100% with me, just not where they stand with me.... That little chink in the armour, that little way in...."
Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I meant 100% comfortable with me and but not completely sure of who I am or what I might do.
That's what makes you exciting, scary and mesmeric to some but a complete no no for others!"
Kinda funny that I just said the exact same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a manly man, how do you define that quality though? Manly for me is not height or looks dependent, I have a son who is six three, built, good looking and hairy chested, still a kid though.
A man to me is one who is intelligent, assured without being arrogant or who makes himself superior by putting women and others down.
I like them urbane witty and smart. Rugby prop build is optional, but don't knock the pocket rockets either.
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"Sorry, I meant 100% comfortable with me and but not completely sure of who I am or what I might do.
That's what makes you exciting, scary and mesmeric to some but a complete no no for others!
Kinda funny that I just said the exact same thing "
You both fall into that category which is why we posted alike |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
To be honest though, I prefer when someone finds you intimidating that they become a little shy, as opposed to being nasty - at least that way they don't spoil the things that actually make them attractive.
Yes I do like this.
In fact I'll go so far as to say that in order to be the person I am to certain fabbers... there is an element of ensuring that they get 100% with me, just not where they stand with me.... That little chink in the armour, that little way in....
Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others? "
Well.... it's perception isn't it. Some people are a little bit in admiration but scared, and some people are scared and intimidated in a bad way. It is of a fight or flight response I think.
But I look for that, I try and get to find that fight or flight response to unlock someone. not to break them, although that is fun. it's to get to that primal and feral core. That part of you that isn't bound by the rules you've applied to yourself.
The animal within |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grrrrrrrrr!
oh stop it ya big pussy
hahahaha
I actually get turned down for meets because some people are scared of me!
You just can't win
I don't think that's because of the way you look though hun! I think it's because as well as the looks/body you clearly have a personality, intellect and sense of humour. Hence you are the 'full package'. Whilst a woman confident in her own looks and personality would jump at the chance of meeting you, an insicure woman would find the idea intimidating. I'd imagine though when you DO have a meet they'd be pretty darned good!
Oh and this is not just about avatar - it's all men - and women - who are perceived to 'have it all'!
I agree with the above, I'm often amazed when women say they're doubtful about meeting me because they like the way I come across to such an extent that they're actually PUT OFF by it, and they can rarely explain why - personally I think its because they build you up and you fuel their fantasies to such an extent that the reality could never match up.
Yes, there was one lady in the recent past who was very beautiful, whom after a while talking, and we still do occasionally talk, was put off because she was intellectually intimidated in her own words. And she wasn't daft at all, just a bit insecure
To be honest though, I prefer when someone finds you intimidating that they become a little shy, as opposed to being nasty - at least that way they don't spoil the things that actually make them attractive.
Yes I do like this.
In fact I'll go so far as to say that in order to be the person I am to certain fabbers... there is an element of ensuring that they get 100% with me, just not where they stand with me.... That little chink in the armour, that little way in....
Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others?
Well.... it's perception isn't it. Some people are a little bit in admiration but scared, and some people are scared and intimidated in a bad way. It is of a fight or flight response I think.
But I look for that, I try and get to find that fight or flight response to unlock someone. not to break them, although that is fun. it's to get to that primal and feral core. That part of you that isn't bound by the rules you've applied to yourself.
The animal within"
Hmmm - methinks I started quite some debate! I must be very far from perfect - no-one's ever been remotely scared of/intimidated by me! Maybe I need to be scarier!! xx |
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Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others?
Well.... it's perception isn't it. Some people are a little bit in admiration but scared, and some people are scared and intimidated in a bad way. It is of a fight or flight response I think.
But I look for that, I try and get to find that fight or flight response to unlock someone. not to break them, although that is fun. it's to get to that primal and feral core. That part of you that isn't bound by the rules you've applied to yourself.
The animal within"
It's very exhilarating letting go like that but it's built on trust and rapport which is hard to find and harder to give |
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"Can I throw a candle in the works and say that I also like scented candles.
..... molten wax dripped onto your chest?  "
Not on mine hun, and were someone to give that a go hun it might just unlock me a bit more |
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Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others?
Well.... it's perception isn't it. Some people are a little bit in admiration but scared, and some people are scared and intimidated in a bad way. It is of a fight or flight response I think.
But I look for that, I try and get to find that fight or flight response to unlock someone. not to break them, although that is fun. it's to get to that primal and feral core. That part of you that isn't bound by the rules you've applied to yourself.
The animal within
It's very exhilarating letting go like that but it's built on trust and rapport which is hard to find and harder to give "
It certainly can be but.... for some reason it naturally comes to me. People behave with me in ways they ordinarily wouldn't... do things they ordinarily wouldn't. |
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"Can I throw a candle in the works and say that I also like scented candles.
..... molten wax dripped onto your chest?
Not on mine hun, and were someone to give that a go hun it might just unlock me a bit more"
You should get someone to give it a try with you ..... drip the molten wax from quite high up, it cools on the way down ....... closer and it feels hotter. |
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"Can I throw a candle in the works and say that I also like scented candles.
..... molten wax dripped onto your chest?
Not on mine hun, and were someone to give that a go hun it might just unlock me a bit more
You should get someone to give it a try with you ..... drip the molten wax from quite high up, it cools on the way down ....... closer and it feels hotter. "
I've had it done all over my bum and soles of my feet mmmm loved it
Like tiny shots of electricity with every drip |
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Yet isn't it ironic that simply being WHO YOU ARE in order to give that 100%, will win over the respect and admiration of some people, yet earn you nothing but venom and hatred from others?
Well.... it's perception isn't it. Some people are a little bit in admiration but scared, and some people are scared and intimidated in a bad way. It is of a fight or flight response I think.
But I look for that, I try and get to find that fight or flight response to unlock someone. not to break them, although that is fun. it's to get to that primal and feral core. That part of you that isn't bound by the rules you've applied to yourself.
The animal within
It's very exhilarating letting go like that but it's built on trust and rapport which is hard to find and harder to give
It certainly can be but.... for some reason it naturally comes to me. People behave with me in ways they ordinarily wouldn't... do things they ordinarily wouldn't."
And I can understand why! |
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"Can I throw a candle in the works and say that I also like scented candles.
..... molten wax dripped onto your chest?
Not on mine hun, and were someone to give that a go hun it might just unlock me a bit more
You should get someone to give it a try with you ..... drip the molten wax from quite high up, it cools on the way down ....... closer and it feels hotter.
I've had it done all over my bum and soles of my feet mmmm loved it
Like tiny shots of electricity with every drip "
Certainly gets every sense heightened. |
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For me it's about the way a guy moves, how he carries himself, confidence is very, very sexy. Which is why I find it so hard to judge if I will like a guy without meeting them for a social first.
And there was me thinking I was insecure, but Avatar, you don't scare me... |
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"Manly has many forms, I like strength. I used to primarily like broad and physically big and while I do still like that, I've broadened my tastes - can't beat tall, lean, strong men where you can see their muscles move under the skin
Check these forearms
I can't really see them, your cock is in the way.
Is that a problem? "
But we already know what your cock looks like, I'm having to use my imagination on the strong forearms! |
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"For me it's about the way a guy moves, how he carries himself, confidence is very, very sexy. Which is why I find it so hard to judge if I will like a guy without meeting them for a social first.
And there was me thinking I was insecure, but Avatar, you don't scare me... "
hahahaha
Well we will see just how brave a girl you are when you are face to face, my dear x |
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"For me it's about the way a guy moves, how he carries himself, confidence is very, very sexy. Which is why I find it so hard to judge if I will like a guy without meeting them for a social first.
And there was me thinking I was insecure, but Avatar, you don't scare me... "
This
And I'm not sure it's him that scares me, more how I might react to him that is scary |
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It's a bit sad if someone finds themselves intimidated by someone on an intellectual/personality basis. I might have insecurities about my looks but I can't imagine ever feeling inferior to someone so that I turned them down on that basis |
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"For me it's about the way a guy moves, how he carries himself, confidence is very, very sexy. Which is why I find it so hard to judge if I will like a guy without meeting them for a social first.
And there was me thinking I was insecure, but Avatar, you don't scare me...
hahahaha
Well we will see just how brave a girl you are when you are face to face, my dear x"
Bring. It. On. |
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"It's a bit sad if someone finds themselves intimidated by someone on an intellectual/personality basis. I might have insecurities about my looks but I can't imagine ever feeling inferior to someone so that I turned them down on that basis "
^^^ I have major body confidence but I've never turned down a meet because of it |
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"It's a bit sad if someone finds themselves intimidated by someone on an intellectual/personality basis. I might have insecurities about my looks but I can't imagine ever feeling inferior to someone so that I turned them down on that basis "
I agree... The ability to develop mind, body or soul is not beyond any but a few... Though some amongst us are perhaps a little more culturally literate due to upbringing/schooling, it means not that others should feel we are lesser....
In my view, so long as you're continuously challenging yourself, seeking intellectual discomfort and entertaining difficult ideas - being on that journey, no matter your relative position - ought to demolish any mental insecurities you may carry.
A decent diet, compassionate outlook, and regular physical exertions should help with the rest of the picture.
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For me, pretty and cute men always
Not only the looks and appearance but also “liking cute things“ and attitude.
It's probably because I've been always with someone like this ...
Time for change, maybe |
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"It's a bit sad if someone finds themselves intimidated by someone on an intellectual/personality basis. I might have insecurities about my looks but I can't imagine ever feeling inferior to someone so that I turned them down on that basis
I agree... The ability to develop mind, body or soul is not beyond any but a few... Though some amongst us are perhaps a little more culturally literate due to upbringing/schooling, it means not that others should feel we are lesser....
In my view, so long as you're continuously challenging yourself, seeking intellectual discomfort and entertaining difficult ideas - being on that journey, no matter your relative position - ought to demolish any mental insecurities you may carry.
A decent diet, compassionate outlook, and regular physical exertions should help with the rest of the picture.
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"Does the fact I'm watching 'Easter Parade' exclude me from being a 'manly man'"
Nope, I'm fixing shit around the house and that doesn't make me any less of a womanly woman. |
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Well i'm not girly!! I don't do my nails - hate shopping - reality tv, soaps and celebrity gossip bores me senseless - so if we open a thread on 'womanly women' i'm a failure!! xx |
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