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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've enjoyed evenings of soft only in the past and they've been intensely erotic without the need to have sex with the other parties. Find the right people and go for it if that's what you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is how we started on here and still will play that way - we have had this profile over 2 years and only the last few meets that we have actually full swapped but was always on the agenda but when it felt right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We enjoy softswing a lot. We meet quite a few softies and it never detracts from a meet or leaves us with a feeling of wanting more. "
Same. If they are happy, we are happy. Had some meets where we'd planned full but ended up soft only. Still was fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everybody has their own idea of softswing ours is anything goes bar full cock penetration but no watersports thats just dirty lol.x"
thats our idea - everything bar penetration xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have only soft swapped so far and had fun. We would consider full swap with the right people. But not with every couple we meet. "
This is what we are thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have only soft swapped so far and had fun. We would consider full swap with the right people. But not with every couple we meet.
This is what we are thinking "
This is how we play it. We do like a full swapsie every now and then , but as long as everyone understands what's going on all is cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have only soft swapped so far and had fun. We would consider full swap with the right people. But not with every couple we meet.
This is what we are thinking
This is how we play it. We do like a full swapsie every now and then , but as long as everyone understands what's going on all is cool. "
Its something we have been discussing and if we did this is how we would play it as well |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"everybody has their own idea of softswing ours is anything goes bar full cock penetration but no watersports thats just dirty lol.x
thats our idea - everything bar penetration xxx "
We have had plenty of fun without penetration but have been sometimes wary of people who say they never do it. Hence NWcouple's approach seems right. I might add that some couples (none of our friend our our veris I might add) and some single guys (ditto) want to get to the shag far too soon! |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"everybody has their own idea of softswing ours is anything goes bar full cock penetration but no watersports thats just dirty lol.x
thats our idea - everything bar penetration xxx
We have had plenty of fun without penetration but have been sometimes wary of people who say they never do it. Hence NWcouple's approach seems right. I might add that some couples (none of our friend our our veris I might add) and some single guys (ditto) want to get to the shag far too soon!"
meant hornycoupleNW  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everybody has their own idea of softswing ours is anything goes bar full cock penetration but no watersports thats just dirty lol.x
thats our idea - everything bar penetration xxx
We have had plenty of fun without penetration but have been sometimes wary of people who say they never do it. Hence NWcouple's approach seems right. I might add that some couples (none of our friend our our veris I might add) and some single guys (ditto) want to get to the shag far too soon!
meant hornycoupleNW "
 is why we are friends as we agree on a quite few things - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"everybody has their own idea of softswing ours is anything goes bar full cock penetration but no watersports thats just dirty lol.x
thats our idea - everything bar penetration xxx
We have had plenty of fun without penetration but have been sometimes wary of people who say they never do it. Hence NWcouple's approach seems right. I might add that some couples (none of our friend our our veris I might add) and some single guys (ditto) want to get to the shag far too soon!
meant hornycoupleNW
is why we are friends as we agree on a quite few things - "
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By *av1970Man
over a year ago
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I see there aren't many single men posting on this thread :D so i will add my two penneth.... I enjoy soft fun meets with couples, the meet becomes all about the foreplay which i find more erotic to be honest, you can't beat an evening of teasing followed by lots of foreplay and games, and if the couple end up enjoying each other then it also appeals to my inner voyeur....and my apologies for jumping into all you couples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we only soft at the moment , we also find it very erotic, we both love fore play and lots of teasing, its just nice to be with others doing what they normaly do in private and them to be with us playing too, penetration is nice but not the be all and end all of a sex session,
wemalso like having another guy join us and watch him enjoy mildreds body before all 3 of us masturbate infront of each other
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soft swap is great and we still play this way a lot. We only soft swapped for over a year when we first started. Full sex with others is not that important to us. We find it erotic to explore others orally but have full sex together with the others watching or enjoying their own special time. |
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We started soft and still mainly play soft. We find lots of pleasure and fun in doing everything except full penetration with cock. we don't think we miss out on anything when we play soft. If you do play full it will be when it just feels right with the right people,no pressure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are quite a few single guys who also enjoy soft swap. Sex is very erotic without the penetration. One of my best ever meets was with a guy who just wanted to touch and strike my body.
My OH arranged it and I admit to being sceptical even when we met for a drink beforehand to discuss the meet, expectations etc. But true to his word he just wanted to stroke and massage and he was excellent at it. It was so relaxing and extremely erotic |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"softswap can be a minefield everyone has different aspects on it ."
It's only a minefield if you haven't communicated properly before and during the meet.
If you have it's no more difficult than role playing a specific fantasy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"softswap can be a minefield everyone has different aspects on it .
It's only a minefield if you haven't communicated properly before and during the meet.
If you have it's no more difficult than role playing a specific fantasy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We I would say we are more of a soft swop.couple, we have done full but we feel that unless there is that extra special connection then we stick with soft, we too think anything goes just no penetration...or pain or poop n pee!...narrr not our thing.
And talking to your prospective meets helps them understand your kind of play...so no one gets confused, and if they aren't interested in your kind of play let them move along |
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